Baby sitter’s daughter looks like DHs side of the family

[Anonymous]

The girl is 4. She does not look like DH, but like DHs mother, exactly.
The supposed father is a redhead. The child is not a redhead, not a hint of red.
I’m 60, DH is 55. Our child is adopted because of infertility.
I’m not being paranoid. Just wondering about fallout....

[Anonymous]

My god the trolls

[Anonymous]

OMG

[Anonymous]

You are 60 and 55. Why exactly do you have a babysitter currently?

5 years ago when the child was conceived, you were 55. Even if you adopted a child at 44 after stopping fertility treatments, that would have been a 10/11yr old. There is no way you’d still have that babysitter now for a 16yr old.

[Anonymous]

Let me guess. Copied from Reddit??

[Anonymous]

Assumed troll, but I’ll bite as a redhead. All of my 4 siblings are redheads. My parents are both more Auburn. They obviously both carried the redhead gene. None of my 4 children are redheads. I’ve even got a toe head blondie.

Genetics isn’t that simple.

[Anonymous]

DH's mother must be the father. Obviously.

[Anonymous]

They adopted their own child and this was the babysitter from what I read. Maybe not a current one, but they are still in contact...maybe...My niece invited her old babysitter to her wedding.

OP can you clarify? And what do you mean you're not "paranoid"? I would dna that kid so fast it would make your head spin, lol...if the resemblance was that similar.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Assumed troll, but I’ll bite as a redhead. All of my 4 siblings are redheads. My parents are both more Auburn. They obviously both carried the redhead gene. None of my 4 children are redheads. I’ve even got a toe head blondie.

Genetics isn’t that simple.

+1

In order to produce a redhead, you need red hair on both sides of the family.

Even then, it's a roll of the dice - both of my parents were redheads, and I'm the only one of their six kids with red hair. Both DH and I are redheads, as are both of our children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Assumed troll, but I’ll bite as a redhead. All of my 4 siblings are redheads. My parents are both more Auburn. They obviously both carried the redhead gene. None of my 4 children are redheads. I’ve even got a toe head blondie.

Genetics isn’t that simple.

OP here. Not a hint of red? I’m not used to redheads but every time I see them, the whole family has a tinge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They adopted their own child and this was the babysitter from what I read. Maybe not a current one, but they are still in contact...maybe...My niece invited her old babysitter to her wedding.

OP can you clarify? And what do you mean you're not "paranoid"? I would dna that kid so fast it would make your head spin, lol...if the resemblance was that similar.

And ai hope you would get thrown in jail for doing that to someone else's child....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They adopted their own child and this was the babysitter from what I read. Maybe not a current one, but they are still in contact...maybe...My niece invited her old babysitter to her wedding.

OP can you clarify? And what do you mean you're not "paranoid"? I would dna that kid so fast it would make your head spin, lol...if the resemblance was that similar.

Our child is adopted. Years ago I would have done DNA right away, but honestly now, I am reluctant. My head is racing. Thinking about things like property being split and so in. Our own child’s inheritance. I simply don’t want to know. However I might not be totally in control of that. BTW it’s not just hair color, it’s complexion.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH's mother must be the father. Obviously.

Ahahahah

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Assumed troll, but I’ll bite as a redhead. All of my 4 siblings are redheads. My parents are both more Auburn. They obviously both carried the redhead gene. None of my 4 children are redheads. I’ve even got a toe head blondie.

Genetics isn’t that simple.

OP here. Not a hint of red? I’m not used to redheads but every time I see them, the whole family has a tinge.

That's not how it works.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They adopted their own child and this was the babysitter from what I read. Maybe not a current one, but they are still in contact...maybe...My niece invited her old babysitter to her wedding.

OP can you clarify? And what do you mean you're not "paranoid"? I would dna that kid so fast it would make your head spin, lol...if the resemblance was that similar.

Our child is adopted. Years ago I would have done DNA right away, but honestly now, I am reluctant. My head is racing. Thinking about things like property being split and so in. Our own child’s inheritance. I simply don’t want to know. However I might not be totally in control of that. BTW it’s not just hair color, it’s complexion.

How would you do a dna test on someone else's child?