Irritated with my husband, but am I wrong?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hmmm....sounds like you are not matched. Do you have kids? If not...get out especially if you are planning on it.

This is my second marriage and I have one child.

Is your ex the child’s father or your DH?

Did he also have children from a previous relationship?

[Anonymous]

Your son doesn't have sports and tutoring EVERY weekend. 52 Saturdays per year? Does your son spend time with his dad? What happens then.

On the weekends off do you go out and about with your husband? Surely there is middle ground here. You should be able to join him some of the time, and he can reschedule for Sunday some of the time.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like OP's DH is already checked out. I don't necessarily think he's fooling around - rather, just away keeping busy before he has to come back and see DW and her child. For whatever reason, he's pretty much done, it seems.

OP, don't let the 2nd marriage issues lynch mob make you feel bad. Some folks, for whatever reason, pick incorrectly. Some get really lucky, some don't. Life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you ever join him on Saturdays to see his family or friends?

I can’t join him because my child has sports and tutoring which according to my husband takes up most of the day and leaves no room for fun. I am fine with doing something together in the afternoon but he doesn’t like sitting at home. I just can’t set aside every Saturday all day to drive around.

Your new husband hates being a step-father. Get out before he discovers he hates being a father.

I'm sorry.

+1. Spending a day driving around and generally away from his family is not normal. It's weird, actually.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you ever join him on Saturdays to see his family or friends?

I can’t join him because my child has sports and tutoring which according to my husband takes up most of the day and leaves no room for fun. I am fine with doing something together in the afternoon but he doesn’t like sitting at home. I just can’t set aside every Saturday all day to drive around.

Your new husband hates being a step-father. Get out before he discovers he hates being a father.

I'm sorry.

+1. Spending a day driving around and generally away from his family is not normal. It's weird, actually.

As another poster stated above, it's just his way of escaping his reality.