Irritated with my husband, but am I wrong?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Christmas is a month away you have plenty of time to set up a tree.

True, but it is our tradition to do it the Thanksgiving weekend. And we both agreed on today.

How did you reach this decision ? Since you’ve been together have you always gone tree shopping the Saturday after thanksgiving?

How did your conversation about tree shopping this weekend go?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What's the big deal? He always takes Saturday to run his errands and maybe just relax for a bit. I do the same thing on Fridays. Sunday would be the better day to mess with a Christmas tree anyway.

The big deal is that we both agreed to do it today.

[Anonymous]

You don’t have a child together. And each Saturday he is with his GF.

Just leave. Your kid will thank you too.

[Anonymous]

Do you ever join him on Saturdays to see his family or friends?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Christmas is a month away you have plenty of time to set up a tree.

True, but it is our tradition to do it the Thanksgiving weekend. And we both agreed on today.

How did you reach this decision ? Since you’ve been together have you always gone tree shopping the Saturday after thanksgiving?

How did your conversation about tree shopping this weekend go?

We’ve been together for 7 years and have always decorated the tree on either a Friday or Saturday after thanksgiving. We get the tree, decorate, play Christmas music.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You don’t have a child together. And each Saturday he is with his GF.

Just leave. Your kid will thank you too.

I think this statement is true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What's the big deal? He always takes Saturday to run his errands and maybe just relax for a bit. I do the same thing on Fridays. Sunday would be the better day to mess with a Christmas tree anyway.

The big deal is that we both agreed to do it today.

So why can’t you discuss this with him when he gets back and do it Sunday?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he’s checked out of this marriage if he’s neglecting established traditions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You don’t have a child together. And each Saturday he is with his GF.

Just leave. Your kid will thank you too.

I don’t think her kid will thank her OP seems she’s on a 3 - 5 husband path.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you ever join him on Saturdays to see his family or friends?

I can’t join him because my child has sports and tutoring which according to my husband takes up most of the day and leaves no room for fun. I am fine with doing something together in the afternoon but he doesn’t like sitting at home. I just can’t set aside every Saturday all day to drive around.

[Anonymous]

How can you have had a whole other marriage and still have these kind of communication issues?

[Anonymous]

Just driving around?! F that. Weekends are family time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like he’s checked out of this marriage if he’s neglecting established traditions.

I would love to know how long they have been together?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You don’t have a child together. And each Saturday he is with his GF.

Just leave. Your kid will thank you too.

I don’t think her kid will thank her OP seems she’s on a 3 - 5 husband path.

If you are just going to be bitter and hateful why even bother responding?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just driving around?! F that. Weekends are family time.

You can drive around as a family.