Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The major issue is that women - or most women at least -want someone who is rich, handsome, and kind. It is extremely rare to find all three of those in one person. People that are successful professionally - especially men - are often not kind because frankly, the traits that equal success in business are often not the ones that equal success at home.
YMMV.
What kind of successful men do you know? I know many from the fathers of my friends growing up to my parents' friends to my husband's friends to my co-workers and the fathers of my children's friends. Many of them are wildly successful (i.e. rich) from their careers but are also incredibly loving, sweet fathers and husbands. My dad way out-earns my FIL and is also 1,000 times kinder. My husband way out-earns my BIL and is also 1,000 times kinder. And my dad and husband have two totally different careers, so it's not that. I guess you can tell yourself whatever makes you feel better, but your statement does not hold up in my book.
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