S/O Do women play "hard to get" anymore?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am a guy. If the woman is not interested I do not interpret it as “playing hard to get”. I interpret it as she is not interested and I move along. There are many women who do not play games, expect you to read their mind or say no when they mean yes.

not play games = goes for sex on first date. yeah, not many women worthy anything will do that.

What does a woman's "worth" have to do with how soon or long they wait before having sex? I mean, outside of the middle ages.

Well, if you are willing to f$*k a stranger, you may not possess good judgement. Possessing good judgement is a valuable characteristic.

And as long as we're running with hyperbole here: letting a good man slip by because you're unwilling to, you know, do the relationship stuff even after weeks and weeks of relationship, isn't the smartest thing you can do. He eventually moves on to the next woman from the dating site, hopefully who actually wants an exclusive physical relationship. Also slut-shaming is unattractive.

[Anonymous]

women who have choices won't sleep on you on so hoping that will keep you interested.

That's nuts.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a guy. If the woman is not interested I do not interpret it as “playing hard to get”. I interpret it as she is not interested and I move along. There are many women who do not play games, expect you to read their mind or say no when they mean yes.

not play games = goes for sex on first date. yeah, not many women worthy anything will do that.

What does a woman's "worth" have to do with how soon or long they wait before having sex? I mean, outside of the middle ages.

Well, if you are willing to f$*k a stranger, you may not possess good judgement. Possessing good judgement is a valuable characteristic.

And as long as we're running with hyperbole here: letting a good man slip by because you're unwilling to, you know, do the relationship stuff even after weeks and weeks of relationship, isn't the smartest thing you can do. He eventually moves on to the next woman from the dating site, hopefully who actually wants an exclusive physical relationship. Also slut-shaming is unattractive.

dating sites are for losers

[Anonymous]

Don't play games. You play, you lose.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a guy. If the woman is not interested I do not interpret it as “playing hard to get”. I interpret it as she is not interested and I move along. There are many women who do not play games, expect you to read their mind or say no when they mean yes.

not play games = goes for sex on first date. yeah, not many women worthy anything will do that.

What does a woman's "worth" have to do with how soon or long they wait before having sex? I mean, outside of the middle ages.

Well, if you are willing to f$*k a stranger, you may not possess good judgement. Possessing good judgement is a valuable characteristic.

Are you at least marginally aware of the numerous possibilities between the two extremes discussed above?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a guy. If the woman is not interested I do not interpret it as “playing hard to get”. I interpret it as she is not interested and I move along. There are many women who do not play games, expect you to read their mind or say no when they mean yes.

not play games = goes for sex on first date. yeah, not many women worthy anything will do that.

What does a woman's "worth" have to do with how soon or long they wait before having sex? I mean, outside of the middle ages.

Well, if you are willing to f$*k a stranger, you may not possess good judgement. Possessing good judgement is a valuable characteristic.

Are you at least marginally aware of the numerous possibilities between the two extremes discussed above?

The two extremes being sex with a stranger and "stringing" a person along for months and not having sex? Of course there are possibilities between them. I answered the question about timing of sex and a person's worth. I attached judgement as a valuable characteristic. I resubmit that f*&king a stranger shows poor judgement. The gray area then becomes when is a person no longer a stranger? I'll leave that toyou to decide.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a guy. If the woman is not interested I do not interpret it as “playing hard to get”. I interpret it as she is not interested and I move along. There are many women who do not play games, expect you to read their mind or say no when they mean yes.

not play games = goes for sex on first date. yeah, not many women worthy anything will do that.

What does a woman's "worth" have to do with how soon or long they wait before having sex? I mean, outside of the middle ages.

Well, if you are willing to f$*k a stranger, you may not possess good judgement. Possessing good judgement is a valuable characteristic.

Are you at least marginally aware of the numerous possibilities between the two extremes discussed above?

The two extremes being sex with a stranger and "stringing" a person along for months and not having sex? Of course there are possibilities between them. I answered the question about timing of sex and a person's worth. I attached judgement as a valuable characteristic. I resubmit that f*&king a stranger shows poor judgement. The gray area then becomes when is a person no longer a stranger? I'll leave that toyou to decide.

Not every first date is with a stranger. Life happens, PP. I hope you'll get to experience at least some of it in between all of your judgements

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a guy. If the woman is not interested I do not interpret it as “playing hard to get”. I interpret it as she is not interested and I move along. There are many women who do not play games, expect you to read their mind or say no when they mean yes.

not play games = goes for sex on first date. yeah, not many women worthy anything will do that.

What does a woman's "worth" have to do with how soon or long they wait before having sex? I mean, outside of the middle ages.

Well, if you are willing to f$*k a stranger, you may not possess good judgement. Possessing good judgement is a valuable characteristic.

Are you at least marginally aware of the numerous possibilities between the two extremes discussed above?

The two extremes being sex with a stranger and "stringing" a person along for months and not having sex? Of course there are possibilities between them. I answered the question about timing of sex and a person's worth. I attached judgement as a valuable characteristic. I resubmit that f*&king a stranger shows poor judgement. The gray area then becomes when is a person no longer a stranger? I'll leave that toyou to decide.

Not every first date is with a stranger. Life happens, PP. I hope you'll get to experience at least some of it in between all of your judgements

Thanks. I've never and likely will never have sex outside of a relationship. I don't judge others' choices, I only spoke on my own values.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a guy. If the woman is not interested I do not interpret it as “playing hard to get”. I interpret it as she is not interested and I move along. There are many women who do not play games, expect you to read their mind or say no when they mean yes.

not play games = goes for sex on first date. yeah, not many women worthy anything will do that.

What does a woman's "worth" have to do with how soon or long they wait before having sex? I mean, outside of the middle ages.

Well, if you are willing to f$*k a stranger, you may not possess good judgement. Possessing good judgement is a valuable characteristic.

Yep, all guy love a sl*t, but no guy wants to keep one.

[Anonymous]

A lot of us marry girls we slept with really really quickly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a guy. If the woman is not interested I do not interpret it as “playing hard to get”. I interpret it as she is not interested and I move along. There are many women who do not play games, expect you to read their mind or say no when they mean yes.

not play games = goes for sex on first date. yeah, not many women worthy anything will do that.

What does a woman's "worth" have to do with how soon or long they wait before having sex? I mean, outside of the middle ages.

Well, if you are willing to f$*k a stranger, you may not possess good judgement. Possessing good judgement is a valuable characteristic.

And as long as we're running with hyperbole here: letting a good man slip by because you're unwilling to, you know, do the relationship stuff even after weeks and weeks of relationship, isn't the smartest thing you can do. He eventually moves on to the next woman from the dating site, hopefully who actually wants an exclusive physical relationship. Also slut-shaming is unattractive.

Not as unattractive as the prospect of being in a ltr with a slut

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A lot of us marry girls we slept with really really quickly.

no thanks

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a guy. If the woman is not interested I do not interpret it as “playing hard to get”. I interpret it as she is not interested and I move along. There are many women who do not play games, expect you to read their mind or say no when they mean yes.

not play games = goes for sex on first date. yeah, not many women worthy anything will do that.

What does a woman's "worth" have to do with how soon or long they wait before having sex? I mean, outside of the middle ages.

Well, if you are willing to f$*k a stranger, you may not possess good judgement. Possessing good judgement is a valuable characteristic.

Yep, all guy love a sl*t, but no guy wants to keep one.

Why are you calling people sluts? Male or female, it's bad judgement to get intimate with a stranger. There is information you need to be sure it's a good idea. I don't think being quick to f*ck makes one a slut, I think it makes them foolish. Sex feels good, you can't fault people for wanting it right away.

[Anonymous]

Slut-shaming is why women who want to have sex play hard to get and search for plausible deniability about the fact that they wanted to have sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a guy. If the woman is not interested I do not interpret it as “playing hard to get”. I interpret it as she is not interested and I move along. There are many women who do not play games, expect you to read their mind or say no when they mean yes.

not play games = goes for sex on first date. yeah, not many women worthy anything will do that.

What does a woman's "worth" have to do with how soon or long they wait before having sex? I mean, outside of the middle ages.

Well, if you are willing to f$*k a stranger, you may not possess good judgement. Possessing good judgement is a valuable characteristic.

Yep, all guy love a sl*t, but no guy wants to keep one.

Why are you calling people sluts? Male or female, it's bad judgement to get intimate with a stranger. There is information you need to be sure it's a good idea. I don't think being quick to f*ck makes one a slut, I think it makes them foolish. Sex feels good, you can't fault people for wanting it right away.

So you say the concept of anyone possibly being a sl** doesn't exist?