I'm going to fly across the country and try to get my long-distance ex boyfriend back AMA

[Anonymous]

Troll!

[Anonymous]

Do not do this. There is nothing more pathetic than a woman chasing after a man. He's made it clear: it is OVER. Let it go.

[Anonymous]

I think it's awesome and romantic. Sure, it might backfire. He'll, his live-in GF might even answer the door but she'll always wonder if she doesn't try. If it blows up, she has closure and can move on.

Good for you OP! If he gives you the chance, rock his world. Guys always fall for great sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it's awesome and romantic. Sure, it might backfire. He'll, his live-in GF might even answer the door but she'll always wonder if she doesn't try. If it blows up, she has closure and can move on.

Good for you OP! If he gives you the chance, rock his world. Guys always fall for great sex.

he broke up with he and blocked her. she should have all the "closure" she needs. that this is not enough for OP suggests that she has issues which are probably the reason the guy blocked her to begin with.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it's awesome and romantic. Sure, it might backfire. He'll, his live-in GF might even answer the door but she'll always wonder if she doesn't try. If it blows up, she has closure and can move on.

Good for you OP! If he gives you the chance, rock his world. Guys always fall for great sex.

There is literally nothing to "wonder" about ... it's over.

[Anonymous]

OP here. I'm glad everyone here talked me down. I cancelled my ticket.

I hadn't slept in two days or eaten and was probably manic of some kind. I do have mental health issues but bipolar has pretty much been ruled out by several mental health professionals. I suspect I do have borderline personality disorder and have for a long time. I did ask my psychiatrist and she sort of brushed me off, but I took it upon myself to go around her and enroll in a DBT program because it's obvious that I need help. The program is totally covered by my insurance so I have nothing to lose. If there's any chance for me and the man in question to be together I need to get healthy and focus on myself.

I probably would have gone through with it if not for the anonymous shame of DCUM. You guys can be dicks but you really helped me and I appreciate it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it's awesome and romantic. Sure, it might backfire. He'll, his live-in GF might even answer the door but she'll always wonder if she doesn't try. If it blows up, she has closure and can move on.

Good for you OP! If he gives you the chance, rock his world. Guys always fall for great sex.

Yeah, when they haven’t already blocked an ex immediately after breaking up with her, “on all channels). That does NOT bode well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm glad everyone here talked me down. I cancelled my ticket.

I hadn't slept in two days or eaten and was probably manic of some kind. I do have mental health issues but bipolar has pretty much been ruled out by several mental health professionals. I suspect I do have borderline personality disorder and have for a long time. I did ask my psychiatrist and she sort of brushed me off, but I took it upon myself to go around her and enroll in a DBT program because it's obvious that I need help. The program is totally covered by my insurance so I have nothing to lose. If there's any chance for me and the man in question to be together I need to get healthy and focus on myself.

I probably would have gone through with it if not for the anonymous shame of DCUM. You guys can be dicks but you really helped me and I appreciate it.

Get better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm glad everyone here talked me down. I cancelled my ticket.

I hadn't slept in two days or eaten and was probably manic of some kind. I do have mental health issues but bipolar has pretty much been ruled out by several mental health professionals. I suspect I do have borderline personality disorder and have for a long time. I did ask my psychiatrist and she sort of brushed me off, but I took it upon myself to go around her and enroll in a DBT program because it's obvious that I need help. The program is totally covered by my insurance so I have nothing to lose. If there's any chance for me and the man in question to be together I need to get healthy and focus on myself.

I probably would have gone through with it if not for the anonymous shame of DCUM. You guys can be dicks but you really helped me and I appreciate it.

Misandrist

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm glad everyone here talked me down. I cancelled my ticket.

I hadn't slept in two days or eaten and was probably manic of some kind. I do have mental health issues but bipolar has pretty much been ruled out by several mental health professionals. I suspect I do have borderline personality disorder and have for a long time. I did ask my psychiatrist and she sort of brushed me off, but I took it upon myself to go around her and enroll in a DBT program because it's obvious that I need help. The program is totally covered by my insurance so I have nothing to lose. If there's any chance for me and the man in question to be together I need to get healthy and focus on myself.

I probably would have gone through with it if not for the anonymous shame of DCUM. You guys can be dicks but you really helped me and I appreciate it.

good for you OP! people here often ask for advice then refuse to consider it even when it anonymous. so kudos to you for that.

break ups are very very hard. until one day you just get over it and it's like it never happened. that day will come and soon. get well!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm glad everyone here talked me down. I cancelled my ticket.

I hadn't slept in two days or eaten and was probably manic of some kind. I do have mental health issues but bipolar has pretty much been ruled out by several mental health professionals. I suspect I do have borderline personality disorder and have for a long time. I did ask my psychiatrist and she sort of brushed me off, but I took it upon myself to go around her and enroll in a DBT program because it's obvious that I need help. The program is totally covered by my insurance so I have nothing to lose. If there's any chance for me and the man in question to be together I need to get healthy and focus on myself.

I probably would have gone through with it if not for the anonymous shame of DCUM. You guys can be dicks but you really helped me and I appreciate it.

Misandrist

? You're an piece of crap - not OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm glad everyone here talked me down. I cancelled my ticket.

I hadn't slept in two days or eaten and was probably manic of some kind. I do have mental health issues but bipolar has pretty much been ruled out by several mental health professionals. I suspect I do have borderline personality disorder and have for a long time. I did ask my psychiatrist and she sort of brushed me off, but I took it upon myself to go around her and enroll in a DBT program because it's obvious that I need help. The program is totally covered by my insurance so I have nothing to lose. If there's any chance for me and the man in question to be together I need to get healthy and focus on myself.

I probably would have gone through with it if not for the anonymous shame of DCUM. You guys can be dicks but you really helped me and I appreciate it.

Misandrist

? You're an piece of crap - not OP.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm glad everyone here talked me down. I cancelled my ticket.

I hadn't slept in two days or eaten and was probably manic of some kind. I do have mental health issues but bipolar has pretty much been ruled out by several mental health professionals. I suspect I do have borderline personality disorder and have for a long time. I did ask my psychiatrist and she sort of brushed me off, but I took it upon myself to go around her and enroll in a DBT program because it's obvious that I need help. The program is totally covered by my insurance so I have nothing to lose. If there's any chance for me and the man in question to be together I need to get healthy and focus on myself.

I probably would have gone through with it if not for the anonymous shame of DCUM. You guys can be dicks but you really helped me and I appreciate it.

[Anonymous]

This has got to be the goofiest shit I’ve ever read in my life. Life is not a RomCom OP. I hope for the sake of reality check for you that his new gf (or preexsisting wife) answers the door when you knock. I also hope the airport loses your luggage...

[Anonymous]

Glad you're taking the right steps to get better Op