Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married

[Anonymous]

She is crying too hard to post this evening.

[Anonymous]

well, unfortunately he extended his trip “due to unforeseen circumstances that are out of his control”, he emailed me a couple of hours ago to let me know. He says he’s too busy right now to talk via phone but will call me in the morning. I think he’s made his decision. I wonder if he will want to stay married for the kids or if he will choose his business partner (gross).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:well, unfortunately he extended his trip “due to unforeseen circumstances that are out of his control”, he emailed me a couple of hours ago to let me know. He says he’s too busy right now to talk via phone but will call me in the morning. I think he’s made his decision. I wonder if he will want to stay married for the kids or if he will choose his business partner (gross).

Didn't you say the kids live out of state with your mother?

[Anonymous]

Yes, they do, but that doesn’t change the fact that the kids will have a broken summer home.

[Anonymous]

Why do they live with your mother?

[Anonymous]

Why do you tack on a "gross" epithet after mentioning his business partner? Not the kind of word I would have used to describe an adulterous relationship, unless I was homophobic. Are you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Why do you tack on a "gross" epithet after mentioning his business partner? Not the kind of word I would have used to describe an adulterous relationship, unless I was homophobic. Are you?

That's exactly how I felt about adultery. I was surprised that the main feeling was being grossed out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Why do you tack on a "gross" epithet after mentioning his business partner? Not the kind of word I would have used to describe an adulterous relationship, unless I was homophobic. Are you?

Are you the board policewoman? OP is entitled to feel anyway she wants about the situation. She doesn't have to gloss it over or dress it up for you. Get. Over. It.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:well, unfortunately he extended his trip “due to unforeseen circumstances that are out of his control”, he emailed me a couple of hours ago to let me know. He says he’s too busy right now to talk via phone but will call me in the morning. I think he’s made his decision. I wonder if he will want to stay married for the kids or if he will choose his business partner (gross).

It IS gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do they live with your mother?

Yeah what's that about?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, they do, but that doesn’t change the fact that the kids will have a broken summer home.

A broken summer home? So you leave the kids with your mother so you can live at the beach?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:well, unfortunately he extended his trip “due to unforeseen circumstances that are out of his control”, he emailed me a couple of hours ago to let me know. He says he’s too busy right now to talk via phone but will call me in the morning. I think he’s made his decision. I wonder if he will want to stay married for the kids or if he will choose his business partner (gross).

It IS gross.

+1

[Anonymous]

What is this, the plot line from Grace & Frankie?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why do they live with your mother?

Yeah what's that about?

This whole post & family is off the charts weird.

[Anonymous]

Do you get the feeling that OP is a psycho who's not allowed to have custody of her kids?