| Why are you letting him decide this? If you are done, then perhaps you should have instead said "I think we should divorce". |
This sounds very "brokeback mountain"... Honestly, if you have had suspicions for years -- even if he comes back and says "lets be together", are you still into it? do you guys have kids? |
| I want him to make the decision to divorce so that it lives in his conscience everyday for the rest of his life - that he made the decision to leave his family for his “work partner”. The kids will be devastated but they live out of state with my mom so they’ll probably not be completely aware of the changes. |
Uhh, now I call troll. Your kids live out of state with your mom? Why??? |
| Wait a minute!! Your kids live out of state with your mother? |
| tomorrow is Wednesday .......... |
| So you shipped off your kids to stay with your gay husband? How old are you? |
| Today is the day! |
| COB will be upon us shortly |
Good for you. Smart OP |
| Well???? |
| Op? |
| It's past COB op!! Come back to us! |
| Inquiring minds want to know. Has he decided your fate, OP? |
| Has your husband's "work partner" decided whether or not you and your husband are staying married? |