Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married

[Anonymous]

He has to see if the other chick is willing to be with him. If she says no, then he will remain married to you. She is out of town until wednesday

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would tell him. I married you for life until death do us part so one of us must die .

Threats would not be a good idea at this stage of the game.

But it's not a threat when it's the truth. Either you kill me or I kill you and I would rather my husband kill me. Or let a judge give me the death penalty.

1) it's past your bedtime, and

2) if you are going to play junior lawyer, then you should know that just because a threat is uttered with sincerity does not make it any less of a threat.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How business-like of him!

Honestly, the reason there are so many unhappy divorcees is that they make these decisions at the drop of a hat. They don't stop to think what the consequences are, for their finances, their kids, and most of all, their logistics.

I would have been surprised he didn't take at least a month or two. But then, despite many downs (and a couple of ups), my husband and I are still married. We know what would happen if we decided to divorce.

I think he wanted to buy himself a little time to make legal and financial arrangements before giving a definitive answer.

Pretty cold!

[Anonymous]

Not worth speculating. OP never responded back.

[Anonymous]

If my husband said this to me, I would end it immediately. I'm not sure why you think someone can treat you this way. It's bad for both you and your children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If my husband said this to me, I would end it immediately. I'm not sure why you think someone can treat you this way. It's bad for both you and your children.

Split second decisions on matters this important is a poor way to operate. You are going to fail in life. It is best to think things through on both parties when an important decision is in play. Idiot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If my husband said this to me, I would end it immediately. I'm not sure why you think someone can treat you this way. It's bad for both you and your children.

You don't even know the question or the context that led to this answer. You have no idea how Op 'treated' her husband that led to him asking for a few days. Your immediate assumption that he is treating her poorly with almost no information is bad for your children (especially if you have boys)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He needs to give his coworker time to leave her husband.

mmm, I bet she's hot and willing to do "anything".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So you asked him this morning if he wanted to remain married, and he said he would let you know by Wednesday?

yeppers, we were having our morning coffee at the dining room table and I asked him. he said he would let me know by Wednesday COB.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So you asked him this morning if he wanted to remain married, and he said he would let you know by Wednesday?

yeppers, we were having our morning coffee at the dining room table and I asked him. he said he would let me know by Wednesday COB.

You just asked him out of the blue? If my husband asked me something so non-sequitur, I would probably give him a weird answer too.

Are you always this attention seeking?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He needs to give his coworker time to leave her husband.

mmm, I bet she's hot and willing to do "anything".

Probably. But since that's what he wants, why don't you try it tonight? I bet he will come back with an answer before COB Wednesday.

[Anonymous]

yeppers?

[Anonymous]

Troll. Not giving any additional info, just a bored insane person.

[Anonymous]

He's planning to ask his AP her plans and then will make a decision about the marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would tell him. I married you for life until death do us part so one of us must die .

Threats would not be a good idea at this stage of the game.

But it's not a threat when it's the truth. Either you kill me or I kill you and I would rather my husband kill me. Or let a judge give me the death penalty.

LOL you're crazy...but I like you!