He broke up with me because he said that I nag too much

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm recently married and my new wife went through an "evolution" as the wedding approached and then became a wife.

Her behavior changed and she did start to "nag." We have had a couple of conversations about it. I noticed a change in behavior as soon as the engagement ring went on the finger and it progressively got worse as the wedding approached. Early in the relationship she was easy-going, happy, and grateful (said thank you and please). That turned into "did you do that... did you do this... why didn't you do.... etc." I wouldn't even be done with one to-do before she would start asking about the next thing. These were not wedding-to-do's. It started to become her habit. Luckily I had told her early on in the relationship that I would not accept her nagging me like her mother nags her father. That I will not accept her pecking away at me to wear my down over time to get what she wants.

Bottom line is that nagging is real and those on this board that want to assign blame to the bf are biased. Accept that nagging is real. Do not deny his life experience. It may also be that he has other reasons as well.

Well, did you? Why didn't do? Fair questions.

[Anonymous]

** you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lots of men are really caught up in the fantasy of a woman who will bring in income, cook, clean, set up their social calendars and be sex kittens. Any expectations for equality, especially as regards household chores, are called "nagging."

Absolutely, I wanna be with someone who mommies me. I'll be the baby, you be the mom. And no, I won't pick up after myself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm recently married and my new wife went through an "evolution" as the wedding approached and then became a wife.

Her behavior changed and she did start to "nag." We have had a couple of conversations about it. I noticed a change in behavior as soon as the engagement ring went on the finger and it progressively got worse as the wedding approached. Early in the relationship she was easy-going, happy, and grateful (said thank you and please). That turned into "did you do that... did you do this... why didn't you do.... etc." I wouldn't even be done with one to-do before she would start asking about the next thing. These were not wedding-to-do's. It started to become her habit. Luckily I had told her early on in the relationship that I would not accept her nagging me like her mother nags her father. That I will not accept her pecking away at me to wear my down over time to get what she wants.

Bottom line is that nagging is real and those on this board that want to assign blame to the bf are biased. Accept that nagging is real. Do not deny his life experience. It may also be that he has other reasons as well.

Well, did you? Why didn't do? Fair questions.

But if I don't like your question, you are the bad guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lots of men are really caught up in the fantasy of a woman who will bring in income, cook, clean, set up their social calendars and be sex kittens. Any expectations for equality, especially as regards household chores, are called "nagging."

+100000

Truest statement ever posted on DCUM

[Anonymous]

80 year rule. Will what I'm about to say matter in 80 years. If the issues are rooted in respect and trust most issues can be resolved. Anything else. Say it once and move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm recently married and my new wife went through an "evolution" as the wedding approached and then became a wife.

Her behavior changed and she did start to "nag." We have had a couple of conversations about it. I noticed a change in behavior as soon as the engagement ring went on the finger and it progressively got worse as the wedding approached. Early in the relationship she was easy-going, happy, and grateful (said thank you and please). That turned into "did you do that... did you do this... why didn't you do.... etc." I wouldn't even be done with one to-do before she would start asking about the next thing. These were not wedding-to-do's. It started to become her habit. Luckily I had told her early on in the relationship that I would not accept her nagging me like her mother nags her father. That I will not accept her pecking away at me to wear my down over time to get what she wants.

Bottom line is that nagging is real and those on this board that want to assign blame to the bf are biased. Accept that nagging is real. Do not deny his life experience. It may also be that he has other reasons as well.

Amen, brother. This is why I'll never get married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Woman: Did you do what you said you'd do.

ManChild: Uh, No, not important to me. you do it.


Things ARE different when you are engaged or married. You are supposed to be able to count on your spouse. If they are dropping the ball, what are you supposed to do - Nothing/Do it all for them or Remind them.
Either way you lose, you married a ManChild.

[phone]

No more tolerance for manbabies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All the bitter women on here are hilarious. If you hate your lives so much, do something to change it. HINT: Coming on DCUM and spewing your bitterness is probably not the answer.

This young lady admitted that she is a nag. She offers NO evidence that her fiancé was a bad person, didn't do his part, and that she went overboard with the nagging. So, I am curious as to why the angry DCUM women come out in full force, completely ignore the OP who asked for how to convince her fiancé she can relax and get him back.

Instead, you all just make fools of yourselves by personalizing a situation that is not your own, and telling this girl she did nothing wrong and to hate men and become a lesbian.

Yep!

Feminism is cancer

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lots of men are really caught up in the fantasy of a woman who will bring in income, cook, clean, set up their social calendars and be sex kittens. Any expectations for equality, especially as regards household chores, are called "nagging."

I would have just settled for sex kitten. She didn't do any of the other stuff.

The sex kittens usually don't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm recently married and my new wife went through an "evolution" as the wedding approached and then became a wife.

Her behavior changed and she did start to "nag." We have had a couple of conversations about it. I noticed a change in behavior as soon as the engagement ring went on the finger and it progressively got worse as the wedding approached. Early in the relationship she was easy-going, happy, and grateful (said thank you and please). That turned into "did you do that... did you do this... why didn't you do.... etc." I wouldn't even be done with one to-do before she would start asking about the next thing. These were not wedding-to-do's. It started to become her habit. Luckily I had told her early on in the relationship that I would not accept her nagging me like her mother nags her father. That I will not accept her pecking away at me to wear my down over time to get what she wants.

Bottom line is that nagging is real and those on this board that want to assign blame to the bf are biased. Accept that nagging is real. Do not deny his life experience. It may also be that he has other reasons as well.

Well, did you? Why didn't do? Fair questions.

+1

Man up and do the work, b****.

[Anonymous]

It's none of your god damn business whether or not he did it. You're not in his relationship.

I'll never put up with slave driving broads. Ruin someone else's life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's none of your god damn business whether or not he did it. You're not in his relationship.

I'll never put up with slave driving broads. Ruin someone else's life.

What you'll put up with is irrelevant as none of us will put up with your manbaby keister. Go find a pacifier to suck on, twerp.

[Anonymous]

Woman: You promised you'd cut the lawn 4 inches ago. come on!

ManChild: I'm busy on my iPhone Very Important Business & News Reading.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:80 year rule. Will what I'm about to say matter in 80 years. If the issues are rooted in respect and trust most issues can be resolved. Anything else. Say it once and move on.

It sure will if your kids and grandkids think being a lazy ass is the way to go.