I want to date a firefighter or cop

[Anonymous]

My husband is a cop, just put in his retirement papers. We're done with that life. Too dangerous, and it will be so good to not have to worry about his life every time he walks out the door to go to work. He also started with the fire department at age 16, and is a lifetime member, and is the chaplain of our local fire department. We didn't marry until he was 42 and I was in my late 30's. We've been married for 7 years, and I am thankful that I didn't have to go through the entire LEO experience with him. He doesn't have PTSD, and I am thankful for that. Many LEO wives have to deal with it. Think about that. Also, garbage men do have strong arms. So do tree workers. My son is an Arborist because that's always been his dream, and it's shocking how much muscle he has from climbing trees. Still dangerous, but you don't have to worry about the PTSD.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So the divorce is final and I want a manly man. Someone to protect me and take care of business. I want a man that smells good and is a giver in bed.
Thank you for reading and

These guys are not givers. Sorry.

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Anonymous wrote:Manly guys aren't popular in US anymore. Go get yourself a Peter pan type guy, they are everywhere in DC. make sure he makes a lot of money because that's all he will be good at.

what is a peter pan type guy?

If you answer NO to two or more of the following questions, you are a "Peter Pan" type.

1. Have you ever changed an alternator, radiator, or drum brakes on your car?

Yes. In fact totally rebuilt a vintage car.

2. Did you play a sport at High School Varsity level or higher?

Junior Varsity soccer. Black belt in karate in high school.

3. Have you ever shot a shotgun?

Own one. And a 22 rifle.

4. Do you like MMA more than musicals/plays?

No.

5. Do you use social media less than one hour per day? Time using social media to get laid doesn't count.

Yes.

6. Do you have a problem with a man giving you a massage?

Yes.

7. Do you have less than 6 pairs of shoes?

I have fewer than six pairs of shoes.

8. Have you ever had a manual labor job?

Ran a lathe and Bridgeport milling machine in summers in college.

Senior Partner in K Street Law Firm.
POST YOUR RESULTS!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Manly guys aren't popular in US anymore. Go get yourself a Peter pan type guy, they are everywhere in DC. make sure he makes a lot of money because that's all he will be good at.

what is a peter pan type guy?

If you answer NO to two or more of the following questions, you are a "Peter Pan" type.

1. Have you ever changed an alternator, radiator, or drum brakes on your car?

Yes. In fact totally rebuilt a vintage car.

2. Did you play a sport at High School Varsity level or higher?

Junior Varsity soccer. Black belt in karate in high school.

3. Have you ever shot a shotgun?

Own one. And a 22 rifle.

4. Do you like MMA more than musicals/plays?

No.

5. Do you use social media less than one hour per day? Time using social media to get laid doesn't count.

Yes.

6. Do you have a problem with a man giving you a massage?

Yes.

7. Do you have less than 6 pairs of shoes?

I have fewer than six pairs of shoes.

8. Have you ever had a manual labor job?

Ran a lathe and Bridgeport milling machine in summers in college.

Senior Partner in K Street Law Firm.
POST YOUR RESULTS!!

Thanks for taking my poll, though you are the only respondent LOL. Very impressive and interesting about black belt and preferring musicals over MMA.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guy here. Sorry, but saying you want to date a fireman or cop identifies you as a bimbo as effectively as sporting a tramp stamp tattoo. It's like a guy saying he wants to date a cheerleader or fight attendant. Lame on both accounts.

What's wrong w a man saying he wants to date a cheerleader or flight attendant??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guy here. Sorry, but saying you want to date a fireman or cop identifies you as a bimbo as effectively as sporting a tramp stamp tattoo. It's like a guy saying he wants to date a cheerleader or fight attendant. Lame on both accounts.

What's a fight attendant?

Dummy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why would you want to marry an under-educated blue collar man?

Because they are kind.

Cops have to have a college degree in most places. What are you talking about?

Some need 2 years, not most.

Undereducated does not mean not smart.

You DO realize that the Federal Bureau of Investigation ( FBI ) is Comprised of many, many, cops who are highly educated and have very specialized training, right? And you DO realize that like every profession, there is an entry level, mid-management and executive level that requires more education and specialized training right? Nah, you probably don't because you live in your 2x4 little bubble where you're the smartest one in the room.

-20+ year wife of a retired cop, now FBI management
-a pension + a paycheck + a hot manly man=Happy wife=Happy life

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Guy here. Sorry, but saying you want to date a fireman or cop identifies you as a bimbo as effectively as sporting a tramp stamp tattoo. It's like a guy saying he wants to date a cheerleader or fight attendant. Lame on both accounts.

What's a fight attendant?

Dummy.

A flight attendant is built like Barbie , wears a cute little hat , short skirt with cheekies panties and heels. Dummy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Guy here. Sorry, but saying you want to date a fireman or cop identifies you as a bimbo as effectively as sporting a tramp stamp tattoo. It's like a guy saying he wants to date a cheerleader or fight attendant. Lame on both accounts.

What's wrong w a man saying he wants to date a cheerleader or flight attendant??

I dated a cheerleader in college. She could do a split, completely. All men should have a woman like that. The sex was amazing. She had no body issues.

[Anonymous]

You know the old saying...

"cops beat - firefighters cheat"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why would you want to marry an under-educated blue collar man?

Because they are kind.

Cops have to have a college degree in most places. What are you talking about?

Some need 2 years, not most.

Undereducated does not mean not smart.

You DO realize that the Federal Bureau of Investigation ( FBI ) is Comprised of many, many, cops who are highly educated and have very specialized training, right? And you DO realize that like every profession, there is an entry level, mid-management and executive level that requires more education and specialized training right? Nah, you probably don't because you live in your 2x4 little bubble where you're the smartest one in the room.

-20+ year wife of a retired cop, now FBI management
-a pension + a paycheck + a hot manly man=Happy wife=Happy life

Lol, this is hysterical.

My husband is FBI and you're not fooling anyone with that happy wife - happy life BS. We're like a big family, how many other wives are bragging about their easy going lives in the agency? I'll tell you how many...ZERO.

Your husband, like every other FBI agent in the agency is underpaid, under valued & his stress level is through the ROOF... especially if he's "management" & has a team under him like you say he does.

Those guys are ALL walking stress balls & every wife knows what it's like to walk on egg shells so they don't go off on you or the kids for no apparent reason.

Your husband is NOT the exception to the rule, especially if he's responsible for other agents. Those guys are even more stressed. You're trying just a little too hard to convince everyone how great it is, but you can't convince someone who's lived the life.... you can't fool another FBI wife.

So please stop with your delusional "happy wife-happy life" BS. If your husband doesn't come home wound as tight as a clock every day, he deserves to be fired.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why would you want to marry an under-educated blue collar man?

Because they are kind.

Cops have to have a college degree in most places. What are you talking about?

Some need 2 years, not most.

Undereducated does not mean not smart.

You DO realize that the Federal Bureau of Investigation ( FBI ) is Comprised of many, many, cops who are highly educated and have very specialized training, right? And you DO realize that like every profession, there is an entry level, mid-management and executive level that requires more education and specialized training right? Nah, you probably don't because you live in your 2x4 little bubble where you're the smartest one in the room.

-20+ year wife of a retired cop, now FBI management
-a pension + a paycheck + a hot manly man=Happy wife=Happy life

Lol, this is hysterical.

My husband is FBI and you're not fooling anyone with that happy wife - happy life BS. We're like a big family, how many other wives are bragging about their easy going lives in the agency? I'll tell you how many...ZERO.

Your husband, like every other FBI agent in the agency is underpaid, under valued & his stress level is through the ROOF... especially if he's "management" & has a team under him like you say he does.

Those guys are ALL walking stress balls & every wife knows what it's like to walk on egg shells so they don't go off on you or the kids for no apparent reason.

Your husband is NOT the exception to the rule, especially if he's responsible for other agents. Those guys are even more stressed. You're trying just a little too hard to convince everyone how great it is, but you can't convince someone who's lived the life.... you can't fool another FBI wife.

So please stop with your delusional "happy wife-happy life" BS. If your husband doesn't come home wound as tight as a clock every day, he deserves to be fired.


Bless your heart. So you're the type of dumb bunny who thinks every educator works in a classroom, every attorney goes to court every day, and every cop walks a beat. You couldn't possibly wrap your brain around someone having highly technical professional skills and working for the FBI in the capacity of training and development at the Academy or in a forensics lab in Quantico. In your mind, the ENTIRE organization is comprised of Rambo-style agents who kick in doors and come home raging with adrenaline. I don't have to convince ANYONE, much less the likes of you, that my husband is a degreed professional with a technical, scientific background who has a very happy, well balanced life, both personally and professionally. He earns both a six figure pension from his previous department and a comfortable GS-15 salary at the Bureau. He's home every evening by 6:00 pm, coaches our kids' sports teams, and he has NEVER made this sista' walk on eggshells. If your husband acts this way, I suggest you and yours seek family counseling and possibly a good family attorney. Life is too short not to be a happy wife with a happy life, lol!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why would you want to marry an under-educated blue collar man?

Because they are kind.

Cops have to have a college degree in most places. What are you talking about?

Some need 2 years, not most.

Undereducated does not mean not smart.

You DO realize that the Federal Bureau of Investigation ( FBI ) is Comprised of many, many, cops who are highly educated and have very specialized training, right? And you DO realize that like every profession, there is an entry level, mid-management and executive level that requires more education and specialized training right? Nah, you probably don't because you live in your 2x4 little bubble where you're the smartest one in the room.

-20+ year wife of a retired cop, now FBI management
-a pension + a paycheck + a hot manly man=Happy wife=Happy life

Lol, this is hysterical.

My husband is FBI and you're not fooling anyone with that happy wife - happy life BS. We're like a big family, how many other wives are bragging about their easy going lives in the agency? I'll tell you how many...ZERO.

Your husband, like every other FBI agent in the agency is underpaid, under valued & his stress level is through the ROOF... especially if he's "management" & has a team under him like you say he does.

Those guys are ALL walking stress balls & every wife knows what it's like to walk on egg shells so they don't go off on you or the kids for no apparent reason.

Your husband is NOT the exception to the rule, especially if he's responsible for other agents. Those guys are even more stressed. You're trying just a little too hard to convince everyone how great it is, but you can't convince someone who's lived the life.... you can't fool another FBI wife.

So please stop with your delusional "happy wife-happy life" BS. If your husband doesn't come home wound as tight as a clock every day, he deserves to be fired.


Bless your heart. So you're the type of dumb bunny who thinks every educator works in a classroom, every attorney goes to court every day, and every cop walks a beat. You couldn't possibly wrap your brain around someone having highly technical professional skills and working for the FBI in the capacity of training and development at the Academy or in a forensics lab in Quantico. In your mind, the ENTIRE organization is comprised of Rambo-style agents who kick in doors and come home raging with adrenaline. I don't have to convince ANYONE, much less the likes of you, that my husband is a degreed professional with a technical, scientific background who has a very happy, well balanced life, both personally and professionally. He earns both a six figure pension from his previous department and a comfortable GS-15 salary at the Bureau. He's home every evening by 6:00 pm, coaches our kids' sports teams, and he has NEVER made this sista' walk on eggshells. If your husband acts this way, I suggest you and yours seek family counseling and possibly a good family attorney. Life is too short not to be a happy wife with a happy life, lol!

Keep telling yourself that sweetheart, with your 5 page explanation.

Seems that you're trying just a bit too hard to convince people of your happy life. LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Manly guys aren't popular in US anymore. Go get yourself a Peter pan type guy, they are everywhere in DC. make sure he makes a lot of money because that's all he will be good at.

what is a peter pan type guy?

If you answer NO to two or more of the following questions, you are a "Peter Pan" type.

1. Have you ever changed an alternator, radiator, or drum brakes on your car? Not into old cars, but I used to rebuild my motocross bikes when I raced

2. Did you play a sport at High School Varsity level or higher? Yes, also raced motocross for years (see above) currently into racing bikes (bicycles) tris, spartan races

3. Have you ever shot a shotgun? own a 20 and 12 gauge, also rifles and pistols (don't live within DC)

4. Do you like MMA more than musicals/plays? Not down with either. Watch MX still

5. Do you use social media less than one hour per day? Time using social media to get laid doesn't count. Don't have facebook, twitter or instagram account

6. Do you have a problem with a man giving you a massage? yes

7. Do you have less than 6 pairs of shoes? Do boots count?

8. Have you ever had a manual labor job? Yes

POST YOUR RESULTS!!

Also 6'2" 180 pounds with visible abs and a full head of hair at 44 yo. Own my own company. Have a 4 year degree I don't use, but it looks good hanging on my wall

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why would you want to marry an under-educated blue collar man?

Because they are kind.

Cops have to have a college degree in most places. What are you talking about?

Some need 2 years, not most.

Undereducated does not mean not smart.

You DO realize that the Federal Bureau of Investigation ( FBI ) is Comprised of many, many, cops who are highly educated and have very specialized training, right? And you DO realize that like every profession, there is an entry level, mid-management and executive level that requires more education and specialized training right? Nah, you probably don't because you live in your 2x4 little bubble where you're the smartest one in the room.

-20+ year wife of a retired cop, now FBI management
-a pension + a paycheck + a hot manly man=Happy wife=Happy life

Lol, this is hysterical.

My husband is FBI and you're not fooling anyone with that happy wife - happy life BS. We're like a big family, how many other wives are bragging about their easy going lives in the agency? I'll tell you how many...ZERO.

Your husband, like every other FBI agent in the agency is underpaid, under valued & his stress level is through the ROOF... especially if he's "management" & has a team under him like you say he does.

Those guys are ALL walking stress balls & every wife knows what it's like to walk on egg shells so they don't go off on you or the kids for no apparent reason.

Your husband is NOT the exception to the rule, especially if he's responsible for other agents. Those guys are even more stressed. You're trying just a little too hard to convince everyone how great it is, but you can't convince someone who's lived the life.... you can't fool another FBI wife.

So please stop with your delusional "happy wife-happy life" BS. If your husband doesn't come home wound as tight as a clock every day, he deserves to be fired.


Bless your heart. So you're the type of dumb bunny who thinks every educator works in a classroom, every attorney goes to court every day, and every cop walks a beat. You couldn't possibly wrap your brain around someone having highly technical professional skills and working for the FBI in the capacity of training and development at the Academy or in a forensics lab in Quantico. In your mind, the ENTIRE organization is comprised of Rambo-style agents who kick in doors and come home raging with adrenaline. I don't have to convince ANYONE, much less the likes of you, that my husband is a degreed professional with a technical, scientific background who has a very happy, well balanced life, both personally and professionally. He earns both a six figure pension from his previous department and a comfortable GS-15 salary at the Bureau. He's home every evening by 6:00 pm, coaches our kids' sports teams, and he has NEVER made this sista' walk on eggshells. If your husband acts this way, I suggest you and yours seek family counseling and possibly a good family attorney. Life is too short not to be a happy wife with a happy life, lol!

The lady doth protest too much, methinks. :lol:

Boo Boo, I'm not the person you've quoted, but just a word of advice to you - if you have to repeatedly write novels to persuade & catechize others into believing you, it comes off as... well... not believable.