Trying to prevent having an affair with my co-worker

[Anonymous]

Do it. This may be the best salami you have ever had.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do it. This may be the best salami you have ever had.

+1
He could be your soulmate

[Anonymous]

covfefe, OP, covfefe. trust me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Amusing how many posters in this thread imply that maybe if he was a hot 40-something you should think about going for it.

Welp. The fantasizing would make more sense if he were a hot 40 something.

If what OP said about her marriage was true, this would have never escalated beyond her thoughts. She is in an emotional affair with this other guy. I feel bad for her family.

[Anonymous]

How about you put on you big girl pants and decide for yourself what is really important to you. Maybe discuss the situation with your hubby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:covfefe, OP, covfefe. trust me

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Amusing how many posters in this thread imply that maybe if he was a hot 40-something you should think about going for it.

I was about to post that.

OP's problem is she likes the guy too much. If she just found him hot and wanted to experience hot, affair sex, then sure, go for it. Most people do at some point.

Not only is OP's crush older, and likely full of it with the "open-marriage" b.s., she is her boss.

Go find the hot, married, sexually starved 40- something. They are everywhere.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel bad for people like op! I can't imagine coming on to a forum to ask how not to have an affair. It just reeks of low self esteem and low self worth.

Amen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Amusing how many posters in this thread imply that maybe if he was a hot 40-something you should think about going for it.

I was about to post that.

OP's problem is she likes the guy too much. If she just found him hot and wanted to experience hot, affair sex, then sure, go for it. Most people do at some point.

Not only is OP's crush older, and likely full of it with the "open-marriage" b.s., she is her boss.

Go find the hot, married, sexually starved 40- something. They are everywhere.

or you know, not cheat and destroy your family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Amusing how many posters in this thread imply that maybe if he was a hot 40-something you should think about going for it.

I was about to post that.

OP's problem is she likes the guy too much. If she just found him hot and wanted to experience hot, affair sex, then sure, go for it. Most people do at some point.

Not only is OP's crush older, and likely full of it with the "open-marriage" b.s., she is her boss.

Go find the hot, married, sexually starved 40- something. They are everywhere.

or you know, not cheat and destroy your family.

x a million

[Anonymous]

Seriously, what are 12? grow up. And don't do it, it's that easy.

[Anonymous]

I'd say let em hit it ... over and over again.

[Anonymous]

You really shouldn't be discussing the things you are discussing while at work.

It is totally inappropriate.

Also, don't think that he's not talking suggestively to other women as well.

Why would you risk so much for so little?

Food for thought.

[Anonymous]

The title is misleading. She's not trying all that hard to prevent it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do it. This may be the best salami you have ever had.

+1
He could be your soulmate

I thought only neighbors are your potential soulmates?