Concerned about dh being a father

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Being a strong father figure isn't about being hyper masculine. It's about being a role model for your children, showing them how to be a good person and how to treat people. Going camping doesn't make a man more of a man.

Seriously OP. Are you a troll? Your question seems moronic to me.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like he needs his mother to tell him what to do.

And now that mother figure is you.

Doomed.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps before bringing any children into the world, your husband should seek individual therapy for himself & try to work on his childhood issues.

[Anonymous]

It's pretty clear to me that you two are only fit to parent girl children that are going to become girly girls.
In the uninfortunant event that you fall pregnant with a boy or a tomboy, you should abort or give the child(ren) up
for adoption.

[Anonymous]

he and you need to read a bunch of parenting books and get on the same page about kids and life.

you must have thought, before you married, that he was marriage and father-material. he can overcome his childhood and be a good team-mate with you!

[Anonymous]

I thought I was going to come here and read that he has anger issues or something.

OP, are you outdoorsy? crafty? handy? Share these things with your kids and your husband. Let him share his passions with them.

All good.