Help me not have an affair

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Look at your kids' faces. Look hard. Can you break up their family to safisfy an itch? Can you imagine them shuttling between houses and splitting up vacations between you and your Ex?

That may be why people cheat. To not break the family up over something that could soon fizzle out into nothing.

[Anonymous]

I'm the PP who wrote that. So sad. How can anyone stomach such levels of deceit toward people they love? I don't get it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm the PP who wrote that. So sad. How can anyone stomach such levels of deceit toward people they love? I don't get it.

It is not a rational thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The feelings and thoughts you have now are nothing compared to the feelings you'll have after you've slept with him. You'll have intense emotions and may fall in love with him but won't be able to ever have him. He belongs to someone else.

Don't do it. I did it. I regret it. I now think of a man daily who I can never have. He's married to someone else.

Find a hobby. Masterbate. Work on your own marriage.

Get out while you can!!!

Or better yet, masturbate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh doomsday, doomsday, pfft. OP, Just fuck him already and get it out of your system. It will probably be a let down anyway because you've built it up so much in your head. But you most likely won't get caught, lose your kids and all these other fear mongering shit.

I am a DW, been there, done that, got laid and moved on. It really is not that deep.

Was it a disappointment?

it wasn't but it wasn't the best I ever had, let's put it that way. And 18 years later, I am still married and my kids don't hate me. *mind blown