OW how do you feel knowing he will never leave her for you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is everyone familiar with the concept of a "party girl?" I feel like the idea is the same with APs. There's a list of qualities I like in a lover, and a much longer list of qualities I need in a life partner. Women jump on each other when a woman is with a guy for a superficial sex and fun relationship, but guys get a pass. Fuck that. I'm for gender equality.

I am familiar with that term... I grew up in the 80's.

the problem is ... many/most "party girls" are putting up a front. They say they don't care... but then their FWB moves on and they cry to their friends. It's exhausting.

They also present themselves to their AP as a "party girl" who is all about "no stings attached" until the AP cuts the string, then they go ballistic.

Women are not men... stop trying to be something you are not. Why would you even want to be a man... they are serial killers, start wars, leave their family, beat women, ..... that is what you want to emulate... a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Um, it works great because I never want to leave my husband either. Most OW are married .

Hot

hah, what a loser. I am so glad not to associate with people like you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is everyone familiar with the concept of a "party girl?" I feel like the idea is the same with APs. There's a list of qualities I like in a lover, and a much longer list of qualities I need in a life partner. Women jump on each other when a woman is with a guy for a superficial sex and fun relationship, but guys get a pass. Fuck that. I'm for gender equality.

I am familiar with that term... I grew up in the 80's.

the problem is ... many/most "party girls" are putting up a front. They say they don't care... but then their FWB moves on and they cry to their friends. It's exhausting.

They also present themselves to their AP as a "party girl" who is all about "no stings attached" until the AP cuts the string, then they go ballistic.

Women are not men... stop trying to be something you are not. Why would you even want to be a man... they are serial killers, start wars, leave their family, beat women, ..... that is what you want to emulate... a man.

My AP and I parted ways and I was fine with it. In no way did I go ballistic or freak out. I knew it would eventually happen and was expecting it. TBH, I think he had a harder time with it because his wife went through his phone and basically caught him. He was found out by her and cut off by me - and he ended up depressed and in therapy. Which he probably needed, considering all of the lies he was floating between me and the wife (who he was leaving!).

But again, in NO way did I act like a lunatic. Stayed away from the wife, didn't respond to his messages, worked on myself... and what a horrible situation I was really in all along.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is everyone familiar with the concept of a "party girl?" I feel like the idea is the same with APs. There's a list of qualities I like in a lover, and a much longer list of qualities I need in a life partner. Women jump on each other when a woman is with a guy for a superficial sex and fun relationship, but guys get a pass. Fuck that. I'm for gender equality.

I am familiar with that term... I grew up in the 80's.

the problem is ... many/most "party girls" are putting up a front. They say they don't care... but then their FWB moves on and they cry to their friends. It's exhausting.

They also present themselves to their AP as a "party girl" who is all about "no stings attached" until the AP cuts the string, then they go ballistic.

Women are not men... stop trying to be something you are not. Why would you even want to be a man... they are serial killers, start wars, leave their family, beat women, ..... that is what you want to emulate... a man.

I'm talking about using a man for a physical relationship, having a "party guy." I've done that without starting wars, beating women or losing my shit. I'm currently in a committed relationship. Those have another set of benefits.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is everyone familiar with the concept of a "party girl?" I feel like the idea is the same with APs. There's a list of qualities I like in a lover, and a much longer list of qualities I need in a life partner. Women jump on each other when a woman is with a guy for a superficial sex and fun relationship, but guys get a pass. Fuck that. I'm for gender equality.

I am familiar with that term... I grew up in the 80's.

the problem is ... many/most "party girls" are putting up a front. They say they don't care... but then their FWB moves on and they cry to their friends. It's exhausting.

They also present themselves to their AP as a "party girl" who is all about "no stings attached" until the AP cuts the string, then they go ballistic.

Women are not men... stop trying to be something you are not. Why would you even want to be a man... they are serial killers, start wars, leave their family, beat women, ..... that is what you want to emulate... a man.

My AP and I parted ways and I was fine with it. In no way did I go ballistic or freak out. I knew it would eventually happen and was expecting it. TBH, I think he had a harder time with it because his wife went through his phone and basically caught him. He was found out by her and cut off by me - and he ended up depressed and in therapy. Which he probably needed, considering all of the lies he was floating between me and the wife (who he was leaving!).

But again, in NO way did I act like a lunatic. Stayed away from the wife, didn't respond to his messages, worked on myself... and what a horrible situation I was really in all along.

Yea.. His wife found out... And HE left HER. He was depressed about YOU?

Why are you so easy to lie to? Whybare you delusional?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is everyone familiar with the concept of a "party girl?" I feel like the idea is the same with APs. There's a list of qualities I like in a lover, and a much longer list of qualities I need in a life partner. Women jump on each other when a woman is with a guy for a superficial sex and fun relationship, but guys get a pass. Fuck that. I'm for gender equality.

I am familiar with that term... I grew up in the 80's.

the problem is ... many/most "party girls" are putting up a front. They say they don't care... but then their FWB moves on and they cry to their friends. It's exhausting.

They also present themselves to their AP as a "party girl" who is all about "no stings attached" until the AP cuts the string, then they go ballistic.

Women are not men... stop trying to be something you are not. Why would you even want to be a man... they are serial killers, start wars, leave their family, beat women, ..... that is what you want to emulate... a man.

My AP and I parted ways and I was fine with it. In no way did I go ballistic or freak out. I knew it would eventually happen and was expecting it. TBH, I think he had a harder time with it because his wife went through his phone and basically caught him. He was found out by her and cut off by me - and he ended up depressed and in therapy. Which he probably needed, considering all of the lies he was floating between me and the wife (who he was leaving!).

But again, in NO way did I act like a lunatic. Stayed away from the wife, didn't respond to his messages, worked on myself... and what a horrible situation I was really in all along.

Yea.. His wife found out... And HE left HER. He was depressed about YOU?

Why are you so easy to lie to? Whybare you delusional?

What are you talking about? He was depressed. Period. About many things. Depression isn't about a person.

As stated above, he had a harder time being cut off and being found out... And yes, he did leave her, only I wouldn't take him back.