OW how do you feel knowing he will never leave her for you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What are you talking about? Husbands leave all the time.

They rarely leave for the OW.

It's really not rare.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You will never get to retire with him to that nice big home on the water. Nope you'll be stuck in your apartment by yourself. Old. Alone and with a cat, watching Bravo. He'll never have kids with you, so no one to visit you at the nursing home. And as your looks fade it will become harder for you to keep pulling that stunt. And he'll dump you first and then no one will come knocking. Oh how sad it will be.

How old are your kids?

I wonder how it must feel for some wives to know their husbands are no longer in love with them, and if it weren't for the kids (or the whole philosophy of "it's cheaper to keep her") he'd leave you. And once he gets rid of one OW, there is another one around the corner. I hope you're having your own affairs and you at least acknowledge the arrangement you're in.

+1
Nothing is more sad than a person who is deluding themselves. Open your eyes OP and take care of yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Um, it works great because I never want to leave my husband either. Most OW are married .

Exactly. The day he talks about leaving his wife for me is the day I end it with him.

[Anonymous]

I logically really do understand the hatred directed at the OW (or OM), but damn, folks, the one you really should be mad at is your husband (or wife). I mean, really, really mad at him/her. Because they are the one messing with you. It isn't the OW. She may not be the best person in the world, but she didn't marry you, and promise to be yours and yours alone.

Sorry your husband is out with OW and not enjoying this lovely evening being cozy with you on the couch. But, the vitriol you are spewing makes me not so surprised about that little turn of events.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The draw of an affair is I never have to deal with his laundry or sharing bills and parenting. More power to those who want to grow old with him.

+1

The OW is getting the best parts of your husband, OP. Be mad at him for giving that to her, while you are going to be the one stuck changing his adult diaper.

[Anonymous]

I was an OW. He left his wife (no kids) 3 months into our affair, and was divorced 9 months after we first met (he lived in a state requiring a 6-month wait for divorce). We've now been married 9 years and have two kids. Couldn't be happier. It was never planned this way - he doesn't even consider it an affair, just that he married the wrong person the first time.

[Anonymous]

I was married to a cheater and I kicked him out. He found refuge with the OW and is still with her. I don't envy what they have at all. Who the hell wants to be with a known cheater?

[Anonymous]

Shit happens. I'm an OW, he's currently going through a divorce. They should have never been married. They've were in therapy after 6 months of marriage, and stayed in therapy 3/4ths of the marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What are you talking about? Husbands leave all the time.

They rarely leave for the OW.

It's really not rare.

5%

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You will never get to retire with him to that nice big home on the water. Nope you'll be stuck in your apartment by yourself. Old. Alone and with a cat, watching Bravo. He'll never have kids with you, so no one to visit you at the nursing home. And as your looks fade it will become harder for you to keep pulling that stunt. And he'll dump you first and then no one will come knocking. Oh how sad it will be.

Seems like you are implying your life is less sad than hers. You are looking forward to retiring with and growing old with a cheater? That doesn't sound like a winning situation to me.

+1000

+1. And, sometimes, OP, he's just sticking it out for the kids and will start a new life with the OW once the kids leave the home.

[Anonymous]

OP be the stronger person here. Get therapy and leave on your own. The OW might never spend Christmas morning with your husband, but she's also not cold at night.

Healing wishes to you, you deserve better. Go get it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What are you talking about? Husbands leave all the time.

They rarely leave for the OW.

It's really not rare.

5%

Where did you find that number?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What are you talking about? Husbands leave all the time.

They rarely leave for the OW.

It's really not rare.

5%

Where did you find that number?

From her rear

[Anonymous]

Best advice OP is to find an OM and have fun. Make your self look and feel better.

[Anonymous]

Google how many relationships last that were started from affairs. Very very few. Love is not built on lies, deceit and the destruction of others lives.

Just don't get AP's. Gross. You lack morals and integrity.