OW how do you feel knowing he will never leave her for you?

[Anonymous]

You will never get to retire with him to that nice big home on the water. Nope you'll be stuck in your apartment by yourself. Old. Alone and with a cat, watching Bravo. He'll never have kids with you, so no one to visit you at the nursing home. And as your looks fade it will become harder for you to keep pulling that stunt. And he'll dump you first and then no one will come knocking. Oh how sad it will be.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You will never get to retire with him to that nice big home on the water. Nope you'll be stuck in your apartment by yourself. Old. Alone and with a cat, watching Bravo. He'll never have kids with you, so no one to visit you at the nursing home. And as your looks fade it will become harder for you to keep pulling that stunt. And he'll dump you first and then no one will come knocking. Oh how sad it will be.

Get into therapy, you sound unhinged. You should save your vitriol for your husband.

[Anonymous]

Um, it works great because I never want to leave my husband either. Most OW are married .

[Anonymous]

Are you really not familiar with the concept of multiple marriages? I am not an OW, nor would I ever be, but you sound really naive. I hope you're not being cheated on, but if you are you should start protecting assets now.

[Anonymous]

What are you talking about? Husbands leave all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You will never get to retire with him to that nice big home on the water. Nope you'll be stuck in your apartment by yourself. Old. Alone and with a cat, watching Bravo. He'll never have kids with you, so no one to visit you at the nursing home. And as your looks fade it will become harder for you to keep pulling that stunt. And he'll dump you first and then no one will come knocking. Oh how sad it will be.

Seems like you are implying your life is less sad than hers. You are looking forward to retiring with and growing old with a cheater? That doesn't sound like a winning situation to me.

[Anonymous]

OP, this is a very sad post.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You will never get to retire with him to that nice big home on the water. Nope you'll be stuck in your apartment by yourself. Old. Alone and with a cat, watching Bravo. He'll never have kids with you, so no one to visit you at the nursing home. And as your looks fade it will become harder for you to keep pulling that stunt. And he'll dump you first and then no one will come knocking. Oh how sad it will be.

Well, this part sounds just delightful. Can I have ice cream while I watch Bravo alone with my cat?

OP, I understand you might need to tell yourself this is how it turns out, but it probably mostly doesn't.

And why would you want to retire to a nice big home on the water with a husband who cheats on you? He'll be there too, right? Won't that kind of ruin it?

Focus on you and your future without the husband.

[Anonymous]

The draw of an affair is I never have to deal with his laundry or sharing bills and parenting. More power to those who want to grow old with him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You will never get to retire with him to that nice big home on the water. Nope you'll be stuck in your apartment by yourself. Old. Alone and with a cat, watching Bravo. He'll never have kids with you, so no one to visit you at the nursing home. And as your looks fade it will become harder for you to keep pulling that stunt. And he'll dump you first and then no one will come knocking. Oh how sad it will be.

Seems like you are implying your life is less sad than hers. You are looking forward to retiring with and growing old with a cheater? That doesn't sound like a winning situation to me.

+1000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What are you talking about? Husbands leave all the time.

They rarely leave for the OW.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You will never get to retire with him to that nice big home on the water. Nope you'll be stuck in your apartment by yourself. Old. Alone and with a cat, watching Bravo. He'll never have kids with you, so no one to visit you at the nursing home. And as your looks fade it will become harder for you to keep pulling that stunt. And he'll dump you first and then no one will come knocking. Oh how sad it will be.

How old are your kids?

I wonder how it must feel for some wives to know their husbands are no longer in love with them, and if it weren't for the kids (or the whole philosophy of "it's cheaper to keep her") he'd leave you. And once he gets rid of one OW, there is another one around the corner. I hope you're having your own affairs and you at least acknowledge the arrangement you're in.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What are you talking about? Husbands leave all the time.

They rarely leave for the OW.

But, why would you brag that your husband doesn't want you, but it's too expensive to divorce you, so you just stay in a sham of a marriage?

[Anonymous]

Most husbands die before their wives. Wives tend to end up alone, just like the OWs.

[Anonymous]

OP - what about your husband? Your issues (assuming there are issues in your relationship/life/whatever since he's cheating) don't magically disappear if you make your self feel better that she'll watch bravo and eat ice cream... Good luck to you.