Anti-Indian sentiment on DCUM

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Anonymous wrote:I have interacted with students of many different nationalities over the years, and it seems to me that Indian and some Pakistani boys are especially spoiled compared to other boys and Indian girls. They were very class conscious and extremely reluctant to engage in any activities that they consider below them. I do feel sorry for Indian women married to Indian men who end up having to work and the. also take care of both their own family and their extended families. It must be a very heavy burden to bear.

No, actually it is very nice to be married to Indian husbands. They are good providers, good fathers and loyal. I actually feel bad for women married to White men. They are always on the lookout to cheat on their wives, they are not good providers, they are selfish and they divorce their older wives and get new models. I think it is a very heavy burden to wear. I find white women always desperately trying to lose weight and go for plastic surgery to fix their bodies and looks, because their husbands find them frumpy and unattractive after they have babies. White men are emotionally cold and it must be a nightmare being married to them.

White men find it easy to walk away from their kids when they divorce. They also may or may not provide for the college education of their kids.

Hahaha lots of Indian guys cheat. I met tons on seeking arrangement.

Indian guys LOVE strip clubs!

indian-american guy here - i nor my brother nor my dad has ever been to one and don't care to go.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I just find them soooooooo annoying. I am white married to an Indian guy.

You've posted similar statements before. Every, single time I feel so sorry for your half Indian children who will face the same discrimination and prejudices from society and their own mother.

+1 I'm not Indian. Why did you marry him if you find him annoying since you stated "them"?

Because she married one Indian and not the entire county. I married a Bangladeshi guy and can somewhat understand her side. Social gatherings can be annoying for me. I feel south asians ask personal questions without batting an eye. Frequently I have encountered questions like , "where did you do your MS degree?" This is before they know anything about my job and often right after saying "hello". A few times I got asked, "do your parents know you two married?" This is extremely rude. How is the world could I get married without my family knowing? Maybe they just want to hear the story of how we got married . I don't know... When you're meeting some for the first time there is no need to ask about her parents education /career. These conservations are just awkward. Overall though I can't complain as my husband is wonderful and his family is very supportive. I've just experienced some annoying / nosy questions at parties.

Indians are all about figuring out who is "higher" or "lower" -- that's done based on education, profession, and parents' profession. If you can say you're an ivy educated lawyer, doctor, or banker - your stock is way higher than if you say you're in middle management for a 10 person company and got your English degree at Towson. It's low brow but that's just how it is -- they don't try to be subtle about it either. I'm 2nd gen Indian, went to an Indian wedding weekend and had started a new job in a new city and was asked about it approximately 56 times during the weekend. One relative was crude enough to say - isn't that job a step down?? No jerk off - I applied for and accepted a job I wanted, sorry I didn't call to ask your opinion first.

preach!

i 2nd this statement. this is the truth!

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Anonymous wrote:I have interacted with students of many different nationalities over the years, and it seems to me that Indian and some Pakistani boys are especially spoiled compared to other boys and Indian girls. They were very class conscious and extremely reluctant to engage in any activities that they consider below them. I do feel sorry for Indian women married to Indian men who end up having to work and the. also take care of both their own family and their extended families. It must be a very heavy burden to bear.

No, actually it is very nice to be married to Indian husbands. They are good providers, good fathers and loyal. I actually feel bad for women married to White men. They are always on the lookout to cheat on their wives, they are not good providers, they are selfish and they divorce their older wives and get new models. I think it is a very heavy burden to wear. I find white women always desperately trying to lose weight and go for plastic surgery to fix their bodies and looks, because their husbands find them frumpy and unattractive after they have babies. White men are emotionally cold and it must be a nightmare being married to them.

White men find it easy to walk away from their kids when they divorce. They also may or may not provide for the college education of their kids.

Hahaha lots of Indian guys cheat. I met tons on seeking arrangement.

Indian guys LOVE strip clubs!

hahahhaha These guys usually come in pairs. Fresh from India, they sit at the stage and don’t tip. They try to touch you, and on the off chance that they do buy a dance, chances are they’ll pull out their cock and expect a blow job. Just remember that strip clubs in India are basically brothels.


indian-american guy here - i nor my brother nor my dad has ever been to one and don't care to go.

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Anonymous wrote:I really enjoyed that very long thread we had on here about the Indian diplomat that underpaid her domestic help and lied about it.
And who went after her? An very ambitious Indian U.S. Attorney, but he knew where to look because apparently this is quite commonplace with the Indian diplomats.

Um.. wasn't there a case not too long about about an American politician that had a domestic worker working for him under the table, and they "forgot" to pay the taxes on the employee, and it only came out because the politician was running for a higher level office. It happens all the time here, too. Or was it an illegal immigrant? It's quite commonplace for rich white folks to avoid taxes using offshore accounts. Wealthy people do bad things, just like non wealthy people, no matter the ethnicity.

Um did that politician treat her like a servant? Americans don't have servants . But many foreign politicians from backwards countries DO.

What? A housekeeper is pretty much a servant. They just have specific servant roles. Lots of rich Americans have household help. They used to be called... servants. Just not PC to call them that anymore.

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Anonymous wrote:I really enjoyed that very long thread we had on here about the Indian diplomat that underpaid her domestic help and lied about it.
And who went after her? An very ambitious Indian U.S. Attorney, but he knew where to look because apparently this is quite commonplace with the Indian diplomats.

Um.. wasn't there a case not too long about about an American politician that had a domestic worker working for him under the table, and they "forgot" to pay the taxes on the employee, and it only came out because the politician was running for a higher level office. It happens all the time here, too. Or was it an illegal immigrant? It's quite commonplace for rich white folks to avoid taxes using offshore accounts. Wealthy people do bad things, just like non wealthy people, no matter the ethnicity.

Um did that politician treat her like a servant? Americans don't have servants . But many foreign politicians from backwards countries DO.

What? A housekeeper is pretty much a servant. They just have specific servant roles. Lots of rich Americans have household help. They used to be called... servants. Just not PC to call them that anymore.

Nope . Totally wrong.

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Anonymous wrote:I have interacted with students of many different nationalities over the years, and it seems to me that Indian and some Pakistani boys are especially spoiled compared to other boys and Indian girls. They were very class conscious and extremely reluctant to engage in any activities that they consider below them. I do feel sorry for Indian women married to Indian men who end up having to work and the. also take care of both their own family and their extended families. It must be a very heavy burden to bear.

No, actually it is very nice to be married to Indian husbands. They are good providers, good fathers and loyal. I actually feel bad for women married to White men. They are always on the lookout to cheat on their wives, they are not good providers, they are selfish and they divorce their older wives and get new models. I think it is a very heavy burden to wear. I find white women always desperately trying to lose weight and go for plastic surgery to fix their bodies and looks, because their husbands find them frumpy and unattractive after they have babies. White men are emotionally cold and it must be a nightmare being married to them.

White men find it easy to walk away from their kids when they divorce. They also may or may not provide for the college education of their kids.

Hahaha lots of Indian guys cheat. I met tons on seeking arrangement.

Indian guys LOVE strip clubs!

hahahhaha These guys usually come in pairs. Fresh from India, they sit at the stage and don’t tip. They try to touch you, and on the off chance that they do buy a dance, chances are they’ll pull out their cock and expect a blow job. Just remember that strip clubs in India are basically brothels.

And you know this because...?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have interacted with students of many different nationalities over the years, and it seems to me that Indian and some Pakistani boys are especially spoiled compared to other boys and Indian girls. They were very class conscious and extremely reluctant to engage in any activities that they consider below them. I do feel sorry for Indian women married to Indian men who end up having to work and the. also take care of both their own family and their extended families. It must be a very heavy burden to bear.

No, actually it is very nice to be married to Indian husbands. They are good providers, good fathers and loyal. I actually feel bad for women married to White men. They are always on the lookout to cheat on their wives, they are not good providers, they are selfish and they divorce their older wives and get new models. I think it is a very heavy burden to wear. I find white women always desperately trying to lose weight and go for plastic surgery to fix their bodies and looks, because their husbands find them frumpy and unattractive after they have babies. White men are emotionally cold and it must be a nightmare being married to them.

White men find it easy to walk away from their kids when they divorce. They also may or may not provide for the college education of their kids.

Hahaha lots of Indian guys cheat. I met tons on seeking arrangement.

Indian guys LOVE strip clubs!

hahahhaha These guys usually come in pairs. Fresh from India, they sit at the stage and don’t tip. They try to touch you, and on the off chance that they do buy a dance, chances are they’ll pull out their cock and expect a blow job. Just remember that strip clubs in India are basically brothels.


indian-american guy here - i nor my brother nor my dad has ever been to one and don't care to go.

Grammar Police are always needed in the Indian related threads!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I really enjoyed that very long thread we had on here about the Indian diplomat that underpaid her domestic help and lied about it.
And who went after her? An very ambitious Indian U.S. Attorney, but he knew where to look because apparently this is quite commonplace with the Indian diplomats.

Um.. wasn't there a case not too long about about an American politician that had a domestic worker working for him under the table, and they "forgot" to pay the taxes on the employee, and it only came out because the politician was running for a higher level office. It happens all the time here, too. Or was it an illegal immigrant? It's quite commonplace for rich white folks to avoid taxes using offshore accounts. Wealthy people do bad things, just like non wealthy people, no matter the ethnicity.

Um did that politician treat her like a servant? Americans don't have servants . But many foreign politicians from backwards countries DO.

What? A housekeeper is pretty much a servant. They just have specific servant roles. Lots of rich Americans have household help. They used to be called... servants. Just not PC to call them that anymore.

Nope . Totally wrong.

Pretty sure a servant is really a slave in the old-fashioned way in India. They have no chains, but chains aren’t needed. I read a few books that said a servant cannot:

• Eat the same food that the family eats, unless there is food left over

• Eat from the same vessels

• Sit on families furniture

• Sleep on a bed (they sleep on the floor)

• Use air-conditioning

• Use the toilets family does.

Pretty sure this is NOT the norm in American households for maids or nannies. See the difference?! And most middle-class families in the US take pride in taking care of their own house

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have interacted with students of many different nationalities over the years, and it seems to me that Indian and some Pakistani boys are especially spoiled compared to other boys and Indian girls. They were very class conscious and extremely reluctant to engage in any activities that they consider below them. I do feel sorry for Indian women married to Indian men who end up having to work and the. also take care of both their own family and their extended families. It must be a very heavy burden to bear.

No, actually it is very nice to be married to Indian husbands. They are good providers, good fathers and loyal. I actually feel bad for women married to White men. They are always on the lookout to cheat on their wives, they are not good providers, they are selfish and they divorce their older wives and get new models. I think it is a very heavy burden to wear. I find white women always desperately trying to lose weight and go for plastic surgery to fix their bodies and looks, because their husbands find them frumpy and unattractive after they have babies. White men are emotionally cold and it must be a nightmare being married to them.

White men find it easy to walk away from their kids when they divorce. They also may or may not provide for the college education of their kids.

Hahaha lots of Indian guys cheat. I met tons on seeking arrangement.

Indian guys LOVE strip clubs!

hahahhaha These guys usually come in pairs. Fresh from India, they sit at the stage and don’t tip. They try to touch you, and on the off chance that they do buy a dance, chances are they’ll pull out their cock and expect a blow job. Just remember that strip clubs in India are basically brothels.


indian-american guy here - i nor my brother nor my dad has ever been to one and don't care to go.

Grammar Police are always needed in the Indian related threads!

Sure but then many Indians speak the Queen's English and think you speak like a hillbilly. See how that works?

[Anonymous]

This conversation is so weird to me. I am white, married to a white man, and for various reasons to do with my career and my early interests, I have spent a great deal of time in India. One thing that has always amazed me is that of all the places across the world I go, no foreign culture feels as familiar and comfortable to me as that of middle-class India. There are so many commonalities, I think, between (upper-)middle-class Indian culture and middle-class American culture. I really do feel much more at home among middle-class Indians than I do, say, among middle-class British people, or Italians, or really anyone in Western Europe.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have interacted with students of many different nationalities over the years, and it seems to me that Indian and some Pakistani boys are especially spoiled compared to other boys and Indian girls. They were very class conscious and extremely reluctant to engage in any activities that they consider below them. I do feel sorry for Indian women married to Indian men who end up having to work and the. also take care of both their own family and their extended families. It must be a very heavy burden to bear.

No, actually it is very nice to be married to Indian husbands. They are good providers, good fathers and loyal. I actually feel bad for women married to White men. They are always on the lookout to cheat on their wives, they are not good providers, they are selfish and they divorce their older wives and get new models. I think it is a very heavy burden to wear. I find white women always desperately trying to lose weight and go for plastic surgery to fix their bodies and looks, because their husbands find them frumpy and unattractive after they have babies. White men are emotionally cold and it must be a nightmare being married to them.

White men find it easy to walk away from their kids when they divorce. They also may or may not provide for the college education of their kids.

Hahaha lots of Indian guys cheat. I met tons on seeking arrangement.

Indian guys LOVE strip clubs!

hahahhaha These guys usually come in pairs. Fresh from India, they sit at the stage and don’t tip. They try to touch you, and on the off chance that they do buy a dance, chances are they’ll pull out their cock and expect a blow job. Just remember that strip clubs in India are basically brothels.


indian-american guy here - i nor my brother nor my dad has ever been to one and don't care to go.

Grammar Police are always needed in the Indian related threads!

Sure but then many Indians speak the Queen's English and think you speak like a hillbilly. See how that works?

Well you're in American now jackass so learn the language.

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Anonymous wrote: This conversation is so weird to me. I am white, married to a white man, and for various reasons to do with my career and my early interests, I have spent a great deal of time in India. One thing that has always amazed me is that of all the places across the world I go, no foreign culture feels as familiar and comfortable to me as that of middle-class India. There are so many commonalities, I think, between (upper-)middle-class Indian culture and middle-class American culture. I really do feel much more at home among middle-class Indians than I do, say, among middle-class British people, or Italians, or really anyone in Western Europe.

hahah this makes NO sense considering middle class Indians all have servants. TROLL

[Anonymous]

Just to add onto my earlier comment (18:56), there are obviously religious differences, and differences in manners and customs. But the warmth, sense of humor, family feeling, conversational styles, and general friendliness of the Indians I've known remind me more of my fellow Americans than any other folks I've met abroad.

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hahah this makes NO sense considering middle class Indians all have servants. TROLL

Yes, most m/c Indians do. So what? Do you think that's the defining characteristic of the culture? I've got a housekeeper and a nanny. What's the difference?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: This conversation is so weird to me. I am white, married to a white man, and for various reasons to do with my career and my early interests, I have spent a great deal of time in India. One thing that has always amazed me is that of all the places across the world I go, no foreign culture feels as familiar and comfortable to me as that of middle-class India. There are so many commonalities, I think, between (upper-)middle-class Indian culture and middle-class American culture. I really do feel much more at home among middle-class Indians than I do, say, among middle-class British people, or Italians, or really anyone in Western Europe.

You sound delusional . India is like a totally different planet and every American/ European person I have known agrees . Extremely different culture and way of thinking . A culture that doesn't accept irrational marriages feels at home to you?! Your post is is clearly fake.