If your spouse videotapes you in the shower

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Anonymous wrote:No one has come up with any good valid reasons why this is so bad. After you get over the shock that your body is floating in cyberspace, you need to realize that that image cannot be tied to your identity. At that point, no one really gives a #$%^ anymore. Just another anonymous shower video. What harm does it do to you? Only harm is in your own head.

Just takes 1 person to recognize you for it to ruin your life.

Ruin your life? we're talking about being see nude here. I'm going to wager lots of people have seen your body (docs, nurses,etc)

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Agree with those who think the DH is posting the devils advocate posts.

DH you need help you asshole. But, you think too highly of yourself to believe that. Your self righteousness and complete lack of empathy are indicative of a serious problem. But you will never know that. I hope your wife dumps your ass as soon as possible. I hope there are no children.

I am DH advocate PP. I am not the OP's DH. I stand by the fact that if you cannot be recognized, the only harm is the embarrassment you would feel in your head. Then once you realize no one else knows it's you, it's not really that bad anymore. People here raise their arms and get their panties in a twist as though you commited murder or something. And that one poster who compared this to rape? LOL.

PP, have you ever been tested for psychopathy? I'm not being snarky. You are severely lacking in empathy and have some very warped justification ideas.

I have been labelled a siociopath here before. No, i have never been tested. I do have empathy in public but being anon here really brings out the honesty.

I really don't think you're mentally healthy. "Normal" people don't have empathy for public show. They don't act empathetic. It's not a deliberate decision. It's something that's innate. You seem to be really lacking that.

I clearly have empathy. I think like the DH who videotaped her.