If your spouse videotapes you in the shower

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, is your face visible? If not, he might be just trading videos online. If you can't be recognized, it's not really that bad is it?

Sounds horrible. I would be pissed.

Really? No one can tie the video to you. It would be like the 10000 other videos floating on the web each day. Still pissed?

Uhh yes. Just because my face is not shown in no way would mean I would be fine with being taped naked without my knowledge. Dafuq is wrong with you??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, is your face visible? If not, he might be just trading videos online. If you can't be recognized, it's not really that bad is it?

Wow. I am a male and to me this would be a big deal. Taking and distributing nude pictures of someone without their permission should be a crime, if it is not already.

agreed. but if you can't be recognized, what does it really violate?

I really hope you're playing devil's advocate, and not this disturbing.

You don't see anything wrong with distributing nude images of someone's body without their permission?? Doesn't matter if you can't see their face - you're basically pimping out someone's body for porn. That they didn't consent to.

[Anonymous]

Yes . Yes. Yes. but what is the harm?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, is your face visible? If not, he might be just trading videos online. If you can't be recognized, it's not really that bad is it?

People can be recognized in ways other than their face ... body marks, background of video, location tags on video, etc.

This is definitely creepy, and could even be criminal.

So if the person taking the video made sure not to shoot your mailing address on the video and didn't use a HD cam so we could recognize you by your pores, no one is ever going to find out it's you. It's a violation of your trust, sure. What's the worst that could happen to you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No one has come up with any good valid reasons why this is so bad. After you get over the shock that your body is floating in cyberspace, you need to realize that that image cannot be tied to your identity. At that point, no one really gives a #$%^ anymore. Just another anonymous shower video. What harm does it do to you? Only harm is in your own head.

Just takes 1 person to recognize you for it to ruin your life.

Ruin your life? we're talking about being see nude here. I'm going to wager lots of people have seen your body (docs, nurses,etc)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No one has come up with any good valid reasons why this is so bad. After you get over the shock that your body is floating in cyberspace, you need to realize that that image cannot be tied to your identity. At that point, no one really gives a #$%^ anymore. Just another anonymous shower video. What harm does it do to you? Only harm is in your own head.

I do not want strangers to see me naked. Whether they know it's me or not is immaterial. The fact that you are having trouble that actions of the husband are not OK makes me sincerely hope you are single and stay single forever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No one has come up with any good valid reasons why this is so bad. After you get over the shock that your body is floating in cyberspace, you need to realize that that image cannot be tied to your identity. At that point, no one really gives a #$%^ anymore. Just another anonymous shower video. What harm does it do to you? Only harm is in your own head.

Just takes 1 person to recognize you for it to ruin your life.

Ruin your life? we're talking about being see nude here. I'm going to wager lots of people have seen your body (docs, nurses,etc)

Totally different from putting someone's image out there for random guys to masturbate to. It's a little rape-y to do that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes . Yes. Yes. but what is the harm?

Psychological harm! Broken trust, lack of control over what happens to one's body or images of it, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes . Yes. Yes. but what is the harm?

Psychological harm! Broken trust, lack of control over what happens to one's body or images of it, etc.

Got it. All inside your head.

[Anonymous]

Major violation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes . Yes. Yes. but what is the harm?

HAVE YOU NOT SEEN EUROPEAN VACATION!!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes . Yes. Yes. but what is the harm?

HAVE YOU NOT SEEN EUROPEAN VACATION!!!!

[Anonymous]

Well, her FACE is clearly shown! Duh! We're talking about something else here.

[Anonymous]

You know what? I bet if you all saw a bunch of video clips of people in the shower (one clip was of yourself), you wouldn't even recognize yourself since you never really see yourself in "that" way.

Unless your shower has a full length mirror, in that case you wouldn't have a problem with this topic anyway.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, is your face visible? If not, he might be just trading videos online. If you can't be recognized, it's not really that bad is it?

Wow. I am a male and to me this would be a big deal. Taking and distributing nude pictures of someone without their permission should be a crime, if it is not already.

agreed. but if you can't be recognized, what does it really violate?

You mean other than being a crime? It violates someone sense of trust.

I'm hoping that you're trolling for effect, but you sound really creepy.