If your spouse videotapes you in the shower
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Anonymous
| Without your knowledge. No big deal or a violation? |
Anonymous
| In what context? Was it some 'sexy' risque type thing to spice things up? |
Anonymous
| Violation. |
Anonymous
No, it's never okay to videotape someone without their knowledge. Violation pure and simple. It doesn't matter if it were a spouse. |
Anonymous
Pretty much, but only for his pleasure. She was never even told they existed. |
Anonymous
| Ew. |
Anonymous
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Weird.
I would say that's out of line in almost all cases. He definitely has some explaining to do. Hopefully, it's not on some kind of spy can site now. |
Anonymous
| Violation. |
Anonymous
| Wow, yes, it's a problem. Of course it is. Isn't that what that spy Robert Hansen (sp?) did to his poor wife? I remember reading something along those lines. Seriously disturbed man. Facade of normalcy, but secretly did a whole host of creepy things, in addition to betraying his country. |
Anonymous
| Whoa - that's just not cool. Just because your married does not mean you get to do something like that to your spouse. I would feel completely violated and it would do major damage to my marriage. |
Anonymous
| Wtf?! Yes, of course it's a violation. |
Anonymous
| Divorce. Unquestionably. |
Anonymous
| There's something predatory about that kind of surveillance. I'd divorce, and possibly get violent. |
Anonymous
| Yikes! How is this even a question ? |
Anonymous
| I'd go to the police |