TTC 10 months with no support from DH

[Anonymous]

Vet again. OP sorry for your loss. Hang in there and try to make sex as fun as possible.

[Anonymous]

OP here

19:49 - the Dr just described it as a "recurrent miscarriage full workup". I wasn't able to get a good look at the lab paperwork before they took it, unfortunately. But that's probably be a good thing because it keeps me from googling!

22:01 - I started seeing a different Dr in the practice after that. I have no idea what to tell you lol.

[Anonymous]

OP here to update. Finally got my workup results back and the nurse could only tell me that there is indication I have a blood clotting disorder. I assume antiphospholipid syndrome. Dr is on vacation so I have to wait until next week to see what we do going forward.

I am relieved we found a cause but also stressed out that nothing will fix this...

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry. I truly am. You need to make peace with this and move on. Otherwise you will be miserable. (I recently suffered a miscarriage and the option was to sink into depression or force myself to move out of it and live.)

You can always adopt.

I would take some time to heal before doing anything else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry. I truly am. You need to make peace with this and move on. Otherwise you will be miserable. (I recently suffered a miscarriage and the option was to sink into depression or force myself to move out of it and live.)

You can always adopt.

I would take some time to heal before doing anything else.

What?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You need to stop it. You are not emotionally ready. I think you want a baby because others are having them. A recipe for disaster.

I think she needs to stop because her body clearly is not able to do what she wants it to do.

Clearly a pathetic troll. Go away.

[Anonymous]

OP here. I was referred this week to go to a hematologist for MTHFR and elevated cardiolipins aaaaand my sister just called to tell me she's "accidentally" six weeks pregnant (her third child).

I love my niece and nephew and the idea of another is wonderful but I just want to die right now. Holding back a lot of tears.

[Anonymous]

So so so sorry. Let the tears flow if it helps.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So so so sorry. Let the tears flow if it helps.

Thank you, I feel awful feeling this way because she's my own sister but it's like...she got pregnant by some freak accident and I'm sure everything will be just fine...not that I would want anything to happen. It's a complicated feeling I guess. Not to mention one of my best friends is 5 months pregnant and the other is in the hospital being induced as I speak. It's just too much to handle now.

The good news is DH has been extraordinarily supportive. We did some shopping to get my mind off of things and it did cheer me up. But just sad inside still I guess.

[Anonymous]

Don't give up OP!
Be gentle with yourself.
Everyone around me is pregnant or with an infant, too, it seems like.
I'm just getting a work up for anti phospholipid syndrome as well.
I'm crossing fingers for both of us!

[Anonymous]

Just wanted to check in to see if this OP is still around. It's been over a year - OP, did you ever resolve your health issues?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just wanted to check in to see if this OP is still around. It's been over a year - OP, did you ever resolve your health issues?

Wow this is the OP and I was surprised to see this in recent topics. I am currently nursing my 2 month old so things did finally get resolved! I was on lovenox for the duration of my pregnancy and was on progesterone as well in the beginning. It was a really uneventful pregnancy with no issues. It's so sad reading this thread and seeing what a hard time DH and I went through but we are doing great now. Sleep deprived but great. Thank you for checking in!

[Anonymous]

PP here - congratulations OP, so glad things worked out so wonderfully for you!

[Anonymous]

Congrats OP!