What makes someone attractive/hot to you?

[Montana]

Damm it - I forgot to add, intelligence, I find VERY hot. Guys, ever have sex with an incredibly intelligent, educated female?? They rock.

[Anonymous]

Montana wrote:Damm it - I forgot to add, intelligence, I find VERY hot. Guys, ever have sex with an incredibly intelligent, educated female?? They rock.

I have. She didn't rock. Her intelligence couldn't compensate for her good-girl hangups that made sex lackluster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Guy here who met his DW at 24. What attracted me to her was that she was smart, level headed, and had a nurturing personality. I had dated girls who were thinner or had cuter faces, but were also big time drama queens. Definitely had enough of high maintenance by then!

Interestingly though, I had a few friends who were players and by the time they reached 30 they started settling down with girls who, while not as hot as their previous conquests, were much more down to earth and had their lives together.

You know you should never, ever say this to her -- right?

Yep! The past is the past. If I've ever mentioned an ex in our 20 years together, it was an off hand remark about how much I dislike high maintenance people.

I assume the 2PP's wife doesn't remind him of the hot guys she dated.

I knew DW for a while before dating her, so I met/saw her previous bfs. She had a thing for nerdy guys; looks wise I had them all beat.

[Anonymous]

A funny person.

Those that have the ability to make me, and others laugh out loud {for realz} are just so sexy. Why so?? Because not all people possess the gift of humor. Those that do show that they just don't take life too seriously.

A guy who says things tongue in cheek is someone I want to be around.
Laughter takes away stress and is like an instant pick me up.
I could be having the worst day ever....yet if a guy can make me smile...even better laugh at things from another perspective, then that would make him a true keeper.

[Anonymous]

Montana wrote:As a guy, I find a female attractive vs hot to be, possibly, two completely different things. When I think attractive, I tend to think beauty(see Chalize Theron as an example), yet, hot, to me, is a different thing. And yes, Chailize Theron is attractive AND hot. But hot can be someone, like, say, Pink, whom exudes a raw sexuality. Some big girls, really big girls, I find hot. Someone hot is someone I would really like to fuck, and yet, after fucking them, I may hate myself!

haha

I feel that way about a lot of men. Like "I want to fuck you and then take a bath in bleach."

Thank christ I'm married...I would be trouble.

[Anonymous]

I love a nerdy guy, a brainiac will trump brawn. Witty and a layered personality with a base of humbleness.

-signed a hot milf with a great bod and MENSA membership

[Montana]

*BOING*

[Anonymous]

Right now I am really into a guy who is tall and muscular, unusual for a marathoner. Also a musician, so I fantasize that he knows how to use those large hands. Good conversationalist. He and I have been friends for years, but the pheromones must be lined up this spring or something. Whew.