What makes someone attractive/hot to you?

Anonymous
Confidence without being cocky and a great sense of humor.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A woman so turned on by me she's direct and dirty. That's hot.


Yes, I think men love this for a quick fuck, but not a long-term relationship.


The question was "what makes someone attractive/hot to you?" - not, "what qualities do you look for in a business partner?"
Anonymous
I love how a majority of the women's lists are long as hell and the guys are like, 4 lines long at most.
Anonymous
Six packs, great hair, shaven face, great wardrobe.

I'll take 2 of the 4 on any given night.
Anonymous
For me a sense of humor is tops. Smarts are good too. I'm ok with a variety of builds/features.
Anonymous
I am attracted to someone I'm impressed by. If you impress me, you've got my interest. This usually does not have anything to do with looks
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Number one is someone who is funny.
A guy that can make me laugh is so hot and sexy. I cannot stand to be around guys who have no sense of humor. 95% of what comes out of my mouth is tongue and cheek and when my jokes and/or anecdotes fall flat time and time again, the guy is history no matter how physically hot he may be.

Number two is someone w/lots of integrity.
There is something so hot about a guy who is honest and upfront w/a woman. Maybe because many men are liars, to find an honest one in the bunch makes me feel as if I have snagged a keeper!

Lastly, I like a guy who is passionate about what he does. Whether he flips burgers or performs surgery, if he is passionate about his line of work then that is sexy as hell. If he goes to work w/a smile on his face and a bounce to his step, then that is fucking amazing.

Other sexy traits in men are: intelligence, knowledge of current events, and open mindness.

You described my husband. And all of the above is why I fell in love with him.
Anonymous
A man that has the body of Channing, the face of T.I. and the sense of humor of Jimmy Fallon.
Anonymous
The body, eyes, face, and hair like Ryan Gosling. Seriously, men like that make me melt.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:For me, it is the eyes and the brain. I can overlook the other stuff as long as he's not too overweight or too short, Damn am I a sucker for a a smarty with a nice set of deep green eyes


Kindred spirit here. Total sucker for a smart guy with wicked eyes and wit.
Anonymous
A KIND man. That's it.

Someone who genuinely cares about others as well as himself.
Someone who is just a nice person all around.

The world is seriously lacking in these types of people.

It would be a much better place if more people placed importance on just being kind to one another.

Men who practice the golden rule are HOT.
Anonymous
You can't fuck kind or funny. You know who is funny? Jonah Hill. You know who isn't funny? Leonardo di caprio.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You can't fuck kind or funny. You know who is funny? Jonah Hill. You know who isn't funny? Leonardo di caprio.


I completely disagree with you. I also feel bad for you. You've probably issued out on some great sex.

The best sex I've had was with my least attractive boyfriend. Not jona hill, but more like Will Farrell. I can be so turned off by non-physical things that someone can be completely unfuckable to me, regardless of what they look like.
Anonymous
Missed out, not issued.
Anonymous
This is awful, but a hot and sexy happily married man. Then I try to corrupt them, emotionally if not physically. Nothing hotter.
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