What makes someone attractive/hot to you?

[Anonymous]

A woman so turned on by me she's direct and dirty. That's hot.

[Anonymous]

I've never been overly concerned with looks. I'm pretty attractive (well, I used to be), but that's not what has ever been important to me with guys. I actually find aesthetic perfection a turn off.

I dig confidence, authority, motivation, and what I can only describe as a "team mentality" (a guy who will pitch in for the good of the whole as opposed to looking out for himself). I used to think humor was paramount, but now I think as long as they laugh at my jokes I don't care if they can make a room erupt into laughter. Wit is important, however.

I'm the type to have crushes on bosses, teachers, camp counselors, etc.

Physically, I do prefer gargantuan. But my only physical deal-breaker is that a guy has to have good posture. I don't mind a scrawny guy (not my preference) if he walks like he's 6'4" 250. Again, it goes back to the whole confidence and authority/power thing. {twirls pigtail}

[Anonymous]

To the teacher PPs, anyone referring to law professors?

[Anonymous]

not me, mine is a music teacher

[Anonymous]

For me, it is the eyes and the brain. I can overlook the other stuff as long as he's not too overweight or too short, Damn am I a sucker for a a smarty with a nice set of deep green eyes

[Anonymous]

Sense of humor and ability to make me laugh AND think....
Intellectual curiosity
Open-minded
Fair, kind, genuinely good-hearted
Enthusiastic
Honesty and integrity

If someone has all that, looks aren't as important....in fact, I start finding them hot after I know that they are like the above list....

[Anonymous]

Wit. Actual wit where you have to guess from the sparkle in their eye whether they meant it, not the trying-too-hard wisecracks or overplayed sarcasm that passes for clever around here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I was perfectly honest, it is a guy that on the surface seems like he has a lot going for him (looks, charisma, success in his career) but has some deep down flaws. I am a sucker for a project. Before the haters chime in, I know most that men don't want to be fixed and yes, this has led for some really crappy people to piss on me.

I'll let you fix me... I only ask one thing in return...

Name your price.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wit. Actual wit where you have to guess from the sparkle in their eye whether they meant it, not the trying-too-hard wisecracks or overplayed sarcasm that passes for clever around here.

Me too. Plus, someone who gets MY wit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wit. Actual wit where you have to guess from the sparkle in their eye whether they meant it, not the trying-too-hard wisecracks or overplayed sarcasm that passes for clever around here.

Me too. Plus, someone who gets MY wit.

Not me. I hate the guessing game. Prefer men to be honest, bold, and direct.

[Anonymous]

Number one is someone who is funny.
A guy that can make me laugh is so hot and sexy. I cannot stand to be around guys who have no sense of humor. 95% of what comes out of my mouth is tongue and cheek and when my jokes and/or anecdotes fall flat time and time again, the guy is history no matter how physically hot he may be.

Number two is someone w/lots of integrity.
There is something so hot about a guy who is honest and upfront w/a woman. Maybe because many men are liars, to find an honest one in the bunch makes me feel as if I have snagged a keeper!

Lastly, I like a guy who is passionate about what he does. Whether he flips burgers or performs surgery, if he is passionate about his line of work then that is sexy as hell. If he goes to work w/a smile on his face and a bounce to his step, then that is fucking amazing.

Other sexy traits in men are: intelligence, knowledge of current events, and open mindness.

[Anonymous]

I am a 45 yr old lady who finds attractive:

1.) A head of hair. Nothing turns me off than a middle-aged guy who has gone completely bald. I do not like that greasy bald look. Unless the guy is black. Silly, right?! I agree, but am being honest here. While greasy bald men turn me off. However a SHAVED bald head can be attractive.

2.) A nice face. I.e., clear skin, pretty eyes {a plus!!}, straight teeth and medium in proportion facial features.

3.) Short, well - clipped fingernails and toe nails. Any guy who doesn't keep his nails clean and groomed is not the guy for me.

4.) A healthy body.
No, a man does not have to have a six pack, but a beer belly is just gross. If wanted a beer belly man, I could have just dated my own father. LOL.

5.) No back hair.
I dated this guy once and once we got into bed and I felt his back and how hairy it was, I wanted to die. Just die. It was so gross.
Speaking of hair, men..it is 2013. A bit of manscaping is a HUGE plus.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A woman so turned on by me she's direct and dirty. That's hot.

Yes, I think men love this for a quick fuck, but not a long-term relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love quiet confidence and those endearing moments when my date says or does something that reminds me of someone I already love. Like when a guy has a quirky habit that my brother has or I discover that he loves the same obscure, hole in the wall dive that I love but few appreciate. Just a genuine character. Oh, and a passion for something is important...can be cool, can be geeky, but something that causes his eyes to light up when he speaks about it.

Physically, 5'9 or taller and not fat. Goatee is a must. Ambition.

I'm getting horny.

Damn, that's me to a T! 6'0" with a goatee and driven...

Wassup girl...? lol

Are you cute and between 27-37?lol If so, holla.

LOL yes I'm cute and 31. how do i email you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A woman so turned on by me she's direct and dirty. That's hot.

Yes, I think men love this for a quick fuck, but not a long-term relationship.

That's ok. Some women only need men for a quick fuck.