What makes someone attractive/hot to you?

[Anonymous]

I like someone who will tease me verbally and later, sexually. A man with a genuinely witty comeback is hot. I like my sex to be serious; so meeting someone who knows how to finesse both sides is very erotic. Tall, clean shaven, cultured, with a few shekels to spend...perfection.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is awful, but a hot and sexy happily married man. Then I try to corrupt them, emotionally if not physically. Nothing hotter.

Heehee, ditto that and add in a good looking priest! I know I'm going straight to hell for that last one.

[Anonymous]

"Now I look for men whose easy bellies
show a love for the flesh and the table,
men who will come in the Kitchen
and sit, who don't think peeling potatoes
makes their penis shrink; men with broad
fingers and purple figgy balls,
men with rumpled furrows and the slightly
messed look at ease of beds recently well used."

- from "Cats like Angels" by Marge Piercy

[Anonymous]

you lost me at easy bellies....

[Anonymous]

Their intellect, their personal writing (blogs), their sense of humor(I prefer witty types or sarcastic types). I totally fall for these guys. They usually look pretty average or even less than average appearance-wise but once I get to hear them or mostly read their work, it's a huge draw.

[Anonymous]

Dominance. I don't like weak men. I'm strong, so I don't respect weakness. I don't like sneaky either.

[Anonymous]

I agree w/ Dom too. I would like to take a backseat once in a while. I can have a strong personality and need someone to call me out on somethings. I was brought a lil bratty and spankings in the bedroom is sooo hot. I should've gotten made him get me the whip at the store.

[Anonymous]

Apparently, I like adorkable Jewish guys. I prefer to think of them as having unconventional good looks. What does that say about me?

[Anonymous]

Tall, dark and handsome, like my husband. Definitely the dom, strong, in control type of guy.
Dorky guys, Jewish or otherwise, look like kids with hair and jobs to me.

[Anonymous]

Assertive and decisive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a 45 yr old lady who finds attractive:

1.) A head of hair. Nothing turns me off than a middle-aged guy who has gone completely bald. I do not like that greasy bald look. Unless the guy is black. Silly, right?! I agree, but am being honest here. While greasy bald men turn me off. However a SHAVED bald head can be attractive.

2.) A nice face. I.e., clear skin, pretty eyes {a plus!!}, straight teeth and medium in proportion facial features.

3.) Short, well - clipped fingernails and toe nails. Any guy who doesn't keep his nails clean and groomed is not the guy for me.

4.) A healthy body.
No, a man does not have to have a six pack, but a beer belly is just gross. If wanted a beer belly man, I could have just dated my own father. LOL.

5.) No back hair.
I dated this guy once and once we got into bed and I felt his back and how hairy it was, I wanted to die. Just die. It was so gross.
Speaking of hair, men..it is 2013. A bit of manscaping is a HUGE plus.

I'd be turned off by a guy who shaved his body hair. I love me a hairy masculine man!

[Anonymous]

A little grubby, dirty, stubble, or tattoos, etc...an edge, even if if is just in their mannerisms.

cannot stand the khaki-wearing nerds who flood DC

[Anonymous]

Money

[Anonymous]

Lost, wounded types. Old souls. Accents make me swoon.

[Anonymous]

Mmm, English accents!!