What makes someone attractive/hot to you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A little grubby, dirty, stubble, or tattoos, etc...an edge, even if if is just in their mannerisms.

cannot stand the khaki-wearing nerds who flood DC

YES!!!!! Thank you!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lost, wounded types. Old souls. Accents make me swoon.

DANGER - from a woman with some experience with these types of men, they only tend to pull you down their rabbit hole of problems. Learn to love yourself and find someone who is confident, matured, and worked their crap out. Those are the men that are easy to be with and come with no drama.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A little grubby, dirty, stubble, or tattoos, etc...an edge, even if if is just in their mannerisms.

cannot stand the khaki-wearing nerds who flood DC

YES!!!!! Thank you!

Let's work on banning all pastel polo shirts

[Anonymous]

Smells good
Well-spoken
Highly intelligent
5'9" or above
Respects the family he grew up with and the one he's created on his own
Masculine
Doesn't make blanket judgments
Chivalrous is a plus for me not a -

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A little grubby, dirty, stubble, or tattoos, etc...an edge, even if if is just in their mannerisms.

cannot stand the khaki-wearing nerds who flood DC

Yuck to the grubby, dirty, etc. Yay to the khaki-wearing nerds!

[Anonymous]

Guy here who met his DW at 24. What attracted me to her was that she was smart, level headed, and had a nurturing personality. I had dated girls who were thinner or had cuter faces, but were also big time drama queens. Definitely had enough of high maintenance by then!

Interestingly though, I had a few friends who were players and by the time they reached 30 they started settling down with girls who, while not as hot as their previous conquests, were much more down to earth and had their lives together.

[Anonymous]

What, doing the dishes doesn't make me attractive to you?

[Anonymous]

confidence, attitude, swagger, humor, a challenge....

[Anonymous]

Does the dishes.

[Anonymous]

Love a man I can look at, not "up" to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lost, wounded types. Old souls. Accents make me swoon.

DANGER - from a woman with some experience with these types of men, they only tend to pull you down their rabbit hole of problems. Learn to love yourself and find someone who is confident, matured, and worked their crap out. Those are the men that are easy to be with and come with no drama.

Oh yes, don't I know. But what can I say? I can't help myself. And the PP hit the nail on the head - couple this with a British accent and I'm in trouble.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guy here who met his DW at 24. What attracted me to her was that she was smart, level headed, and had a nurturing personality. I had dated girls who were thinner or had cuter faces, but were also big time drama queens. Definitely had enough of high maintenance by then!

Interestingly though, I had a few friends who were players and by the time they reached 30 they started settling down with girls who, while not as hot as their previous conquests, were much more down to earth and had their lives together.

You know you should never, ever say this to her -- right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Guy here who met his DW at 24. What attracted me to her was that she was smart, level headed, and had a nurturing personality. I had dated girls who were thinner or had cuter faces, but were also big time drama queens. Definitely had enough of high maintenance by then!

Interestingly though, I had a few friends who were players and by the time they reached 30 they started settling down with girls who, while not as hot as their previous conquests, were much more down to earth and had their lives together.

You know you should never, ever say this to her -- right?

I assume the 2PP's wife doesn't remind him of the hot guys she dated.

[Anonymous]

I am a married woman, but totally in lust with a man I used to work with a decade ago before I got married. Never felt this way about him then. What's changed? I have been getting to know him as a whole person, not just a supervisor, and he is really the total package. Smart, funny, charming, interesting hobbies. Similar views on religion and priorities. Tall, in great shape. Not particularly good looking but seems like there's sensuality shimmering just underneath the surface. Treats me very gently, and I'm just a friend!

[Montana]

As a guy, I find a female attractive vs hot to be, possibly, two completely different things. When I think attractive, I tend to think beauty(see Chalize Theron as an example), yet, hot, to me, is a different thing. And yes, Chailize Theron is attractive AND hot. But hot can be someone, like, say, Pink, whom exudes a raw sexuality. Some big girls, really big girls, I find hot. Someone hot is someone I would really like to fuck, and yet, after fucking them, I may hate myself!