My ex is engaged to a 24 year old

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:pp here and to those who point out the misery of taking care of someone much older: there are no guarantees in this life. Would you prefer having a good solid marriage for 20 years with someone 20 years older than you, or a miserable marriage with someone your age? I know, we all want great marriage with someone our age, but things don't always work out that way. Also, people get sick, get into accidents, so there is no guarantee that just because you married someone your age you won't have at some point to take care of him or he of you. What if he has a stroke at 40? or heart attack? or gets into a bad accident and needs your care? There are just no guarantees in this life.

Of course, there are accidents. We're not talking about accidents, here. We're talking about making stupid choices.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sounds like a bunch of bitter old women posting.

46 is not gross. If the guy takes care of himself, he can actually be hot. (Brad Pitt is 48; Clooney is 50; Johnny Depp is 48; Tom Cruise is 49).

Good for this husband! He had a long marriage and raised his kids. Unfortunately the marriage didn't last, but life goes on. I hope he has a fun ride, however long it lasts!!!

He's not done raising his kids. Divorce doesn't equate to dumping your kids.

OK, well he's still raising them. He'll probably be a more easy-going Dad because he sounds like he's living it up. Like I said, good for him!

That's the standard for good parenting?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for the collective cringe. Yes, my kids have other great role models but my ex was and is a great father that's what makes this so gut-reaching, truly was blindsighted. My kids LOVE her and think she is soooooo cool. DD already told me that ________ said she can wear a binki if I say it's ok..... Ughhhh if she only knew that for the past 2 years we have that bikini vs tankini battle every other week from April to September! Ahhhh life!

This particular issue could have come up regardless of age of new girlfriend. There will need to be a discussion.... and a simple ground rule - "no parent (or person in parental role) says to child - "it is ok with me if it is ok with the other"... they say " parents need to discuss".

[Anonymous]

He's probably so thrilled to be having sex again that he's not thinking clearly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like a bunch of bitter old women posting.

46 is not gross. If the guy takes care of himself, he can actually be hot. (Brad Pitt is 48; Clooney is 50; Johnny Depp is 48; Tom Cruise is 49).

Good for this husband! He had a long marriage and raised his kids. Unfortunately the marriage didn't last, but life goes on. I hope he has a fun ride, however long it lasts!!!

He's not done raising his kids. Divorce doesn't equate to dumping your kids.

OK, well he's still raising them. He'll probably be a more easy-going Dad because he sounds like he's living it up. Like I said, good for him!

That's the standard for good parenting?

No, it's not. Stop harping, my bitter one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's probably so thrilled to be having sex again that he's not thinking clearly.

And with someone who doesn't require a gallon of KY!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He's probably so thrilled to be having sex again that he's not thinking clearly.

And with someone who doesn't require a gallon of KY!

hey, he could need Viagra!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's probably so thrilled to be having sex again that he's not thinking clearly.

+1 also thrilled to have sex again without having to close eyes

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He's probably so thrilled to be having sex again that he's not thinking clearly.

And with someone who doesn't require a gallon of KY!

Never produced much lubrication -- even as a 20yo. I am offended by your comment as a member of the less lubricatively abled community.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He's probably so thrilled to be having sex again that he's not thinking clearly.

And with someone who doesn't require a gallon of KY!

hey, he could need Viagra!

Wow you do not know what you're talking about. Why would a man who's only 46 need Viagra?????????

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He's probably so thrilled to be having sex again that he's not thinking clearly.

And with someone who doesn't require a gallon of KY!

hey, he could need Viagra!

Wow you do not know what you're talking about. Why would a man who's only 46 need Viagra?????????

What horses around that age have you been fucking?

46 - ain't no spring chicken for a man who's trying to perform

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He's probably so thrilled to be having sex again that he's not thinking clearly.

And with someone who doesn't require a gallon of KY!

hey, he could need Viagra!

Wow you do not know what you're talking about. Why would a man who's only 46 need Viagra?????????

These women just like to pretend that 46 is basically one foot in the grave to convince themselves that no young woman would ever be attracted to her husband.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He's probably so thrilled to be having sex again that he's not thinking clearly.

+1 also thrilled to have sex again without having to close eyes

You're either some stupid 20-something GIRL or some pathetic male who never gets any.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He's probably so thrilled to be having sex again that he's not thinking clearly.

+1 also thrilled to have sex again without having to close eyes

You're either some stupid 20-something GIRL or some pathetic male who never gets any.

Better a 20-something girl than an old hag like yourself, whose husband has either left, thinking of leaving, or wishing to.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He's probably so thrilled to be having sex again that he's not thinking clearly.

+1 also thrilled to have sex again without having to close eyes

You're either some stupid 20-something GIRL or some pathetic male who never gets any.

Why does everyone on this board bash on 20 something year old women? You realize you were all once 20 something too, right? And I'm sure you were not worthless human beings then. I'm not the OP of that comment, but I am in my late 20s and SO tired of seeing comments on here that insinuate anyone under the age of 40 should be ashamed of themselves for having the gall to not be 40 and not being smart enough to age faster.