The men who think they're protecting women's bathrooms/locker rooms/spaces etc

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

The fact that you'd rather expose a 5 year old to a stranger's penis than simply walk by a man who is helping his daughters is all we need to know.

You’re a simpleton, aren’t you.

Were you born stupid? Or dropped on your head as an infant?

And here we go. Typical DCUM answer when you've lost the argument.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

Are girls in men's rooms washing their hands at the urinal? Wondering how this risk of being flashed is suddenly so great yet we send little boys in their with no qualms.

No WE dont send little boys into mens room without a parent.

Never? Why is it ok for your boy to see a penis at the urinal even if dad is there?

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

The fact that you'd rather expose a 5 year old to a stranger's penis than simply walk by a man who is helping his daughters is all we need to know.

You’re a simpleton, aren’t you.

Were you born stupid? Or dropped on your head as an infant?

And here we go. Typical DCUM answer when you've lost the argument.

Yep "I don't like that I don't have an answer for this so I'm gonna start calling other people stupid".

I'm also guessing the "Dads in bathrooms are scary" posters don't currently have any young kids. In kid spaces people see all kinds of variations of parents helping their kids and no one bats an eye.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

This whole conversation is weird. A man helping his kids in the women's room is threatening, but neither is accidentally seeing a penis. Penises are just body parts.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

The fact that you'd rather expose a 5 year old to a stranger's penis than simply walk by a man who is helping his daughters is all we need to know.

4 year olds are also the type to wander off and go "hey what are you doing" to the stranger while Dad's washing the other kid's hands. The guys at the urinal don't have to be doing anything wrong.

Oh I agree. The dad made the right decision.

He made the right decision for HIS daughters, which was the wrong decision for other people’s daughters. His children are accompanied by only the parent of the opposite sex, so if somebody’s going to be inconvenienced by that, it should be his kids, not the kids who should be entitled to privacy from the opposite sex in their sex segregated restroom.

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Anonymous wrote:Sex-segregated bathrooms and locker rooms are outdated and dumb. Why do we still tolerate this stupidity?

I think the majority of people still want it. That’s why there’s generally very strong compliance.

People need to get over themselves. As this article shows, it goes far beyond trans women.

Why just because that's the way you want it? You can't always get what you want.

Who is going to enforce this? Are you going to be the potty police?

Did you forget how we go to this conversation?

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

This whole conversation is weird. A man helping his kids in the women's room is threatening, but neither is accidentally seeing a penis. Penises are just body parts.

Sorry, I meant to say it ISN'T threatening.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

Goodness. Its not that is damaging, its that there is a safer alternative. You have privacy in the stall. I understand that youve likely been railroaded by men your entire life and havent been able to use your big girl bark for fear of retribution or being excised from the "in group" as a white woman but not protecting 4 year old girls is not it lady. That is not the hill you die on. You should not be exposing yourself to other people in the womens restroom so what privacy are you referring to? In the mens restroom there is exposure due to the nature of urinals. Men's bathrooms are also usually much more disgusting. Dont get me wrong, the pee on the seat from women who dont sit (IDC if you squat) and then subsequently, clean up after themsleves is gross but not to the level of mens restroom gross. Most men only sit to shi5. So yeahhhh use your imagination.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

The fact that you'd rather expose a 5 year old to a stranger's penis than simply walk by a man who is helping his daughters is all we need to know.

4 year olds are also the type to wander off and go "hey what are you doing" to the stranger while Dad's washing the other kid's hands. The guys at the urinal don't have to be doing anything wrong.

Oh I agree. The dad made the right decision.

He made the right decision for HIS daughters, which was the wrong decision for other people’s daughters. His children are accompanied by only the parent of the opposite sex, so if somebody’s going to be inconvenienced by that, it should be his kids, not the kids who should be entitled to privacy from the opposite sex in their sex segregated restroom.

Nope, he made the right decision for everyone. If you want total privacy, stay at home.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

This whole conversation is weird. A man helping his kids in the women's room is threatening, but neither is accidentally seeing a penis. Penises are just body parts.

If men aren't a threat then the dads are welcome to take their kids into the men's restroom.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

This whole conversation is weird. A man helping his kids in the women's room is threatening, but neither is accidentally seeing a penis. Penises are just body parts.

Which is why I think most people are fine with Dad making the call and just taking his kids to the bathroom wherever. The problem is getting worked up over that choice.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

Are girls in men's rooms washing their hands at the urinal? Wondering how this risk of being flashed is suddenly so great yet we send little boys in their with no qualms.

No WE dont send little boys into mens room without a parent.

Never? Why is it ok for your boy to see a penis at the urinal even if dad is there?

My husband takes my son into the men's restroom. I take him into the women's. Its about the buddy system and safety not seeing a penis for a boy. For a girl, seeing a full grown mans penis is very different from seeing a baby brother penis during a diaper change.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

Goodness. Its not that is damaging, its that there is a safer alternative. You have privacy in the stall. I understand that youve likely been railroaded by men your entire life and havent been able to use your big girl bark for fear of retribution or being excised from the "in group" as a white woman but not protecting 4 year old girls is not it lady. That is not the hill you die on. You should not be exposing yourself to other people in the womens restroom so what privacy are you referring to? In the mens restroom there is exposure due to the nature of urinals. Men's bathrooms are also usually much more disgusting. Dont get me wrong, the pee on the seat from women who dont sit (IDC if you squat) and then subsequently, clean up after themsleves is gross but not to the level of mens restroom gross. Most men only sit to shi5. So yeahhhh use your imagination.

This is nonsense. You don't see penises in men's rooms the vast majority of the time.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

This whole conversation is weird. A man helping his kids in the women's room is threatening, but neither is accidentally seeing a penis. Penises are just body parts.

Which is why I think most people are fine with Dad making the call and just taking his kids to the bathroom wherever. The problem is getting worked up over that choice.

Yeah, nomal intelligent people are fine with dads doing this. MAGA lunatics, not so much.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

So because men are bad, men should take kids into the women's restroom. Now we have a man in the women's restroom. How does that solve any problems? He's likely a urinal user so why is he suddenly a good guy?

Apparently, it’s so damaging for a little girl to potentially see a penis that we should invite men into women’s restrooms so women have no expectation of privacy from men anywhere.

Goodness. Its not that is damaging, its that there is a safer alternative. You have privacy in the stall. I understand that youve likely been railroaded by men your entire life and havent been able to use your big girl bark for fear of retribution or being excised from the "in group" as a white woman but not protecting 4 year old girls is not it lady. That is not the hill you die on. You should not be exposing yourself to other people in the womens restroom so what privacy are you referring to? In the mens restroom there is exposure due to the nature of urinals. Men's bathrooms are also usually much more disgusting. Dont get me wrong, the pee on the seat from women who dont sit (IDC if you squat) and then subsequently, clean up after themsleves is gross but not to the level of mens restroom gross. Most men only sit to shi5. So yeahhhh use your imagination.

This is nonsense. You don't see penises in men's rooms the vast majority of the time.

What do you see when you walk into a women's restroom full of stalls with closed doors?