What first made you suspicious that your spouse was having an affair?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To all the women complaining about their cheating husbands - if you got fat or were not having frequent sex with your husbands then you are part of the problem. While cheating is primarily the cheater’s fault, if you are fat or not having sex with your husband, then you contributed to the problem.

Nope. The cheater is always welcome to exit the relationship before dipping their wick, or having a wick dipped in them. If you don’t want what you have, then let someone else have it.

But that’s the pathology of cheaters isn’t it? They think they should be able to and are somehow entitled have it all, despite the pain of the other person. All without even seeing that perhaps they’re part of the cause of their partner “getting fat”. 🙄

Agree the cheater should have exited. That being said the fat spouse and the celibate spouse also inflicted the pain on the family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He wasn't able to have erections. I thought he just reached that time and needed Viagra. Instead he was just having regular sex with his AP often on the same days we would attempt to have sex together.

same with my ex. He blamed it on his depression medication and stress. Loser

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To all the women complaining about their cheating husbands - if you got fat or were not having frequent sex with your husbands then you are part of the problem. While cheating is primarily the cheater’s fault, if you are fat or not having sex with your husband, then you contributed to the problem.

Nope. The cheater is always welcome to exit the relationship before dipping their wick, or having a wick dipped in them. If you don’t want what you have, then let someone else have it.

But that’s the pathology of cheaters isn’t it? They think they should be able to and are somehow entitled have it all, despite the pain of the other person. All without even seeing that perhaps they’re part of the cause of their partner “getting fat”. 🙄

I dropped 30lbs in the months after ex moved in with his AP. I was still eating just fine. My doctor said my cortisol levels had dropped. So had my blood pressure. I am enjoying my new wardrobe and a major decrease in stress. For the first time in seemingly forever I'm actually enjoying my life. 💅🏼

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He wasn't able to have erections. I thought he just reached that time and needed Viagra. Instead he was just having regular sex with his AP often on the same days we would attempt to have sex together.

He was likely attracted to his AP but not to you. Could be because you might be fat? Doesn’t make it okay to cheat… just saying you are not as innocent as you might think.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To all the women complaining about their cheating husbands - if you got fat or were not having frequent sex with your husbands then you are part of the problem. While cheating is primarily the cheater’s fault, if you are fat or not having sex with your husband, then you contributed to the problem.

Nope. The cheater is always welcome to exit the relationship before dipping their wick, or having a wick dipped in them. If you don’t want what you have, then let someone else have it.

But that’s the pathology of cheaters isn’t it? They think they should be able to and are somehow entitled have it all, despite the pain of the other person. All without even seeing that perhaps they’re part of the cause of their partner “getting fat”. 🙄

I dropped 30lbs in the months after ex moved in with his AP. I was still eating just fine. My doctor said my cortisol levels had dropped. So had my blood pressure. I am enjoying my new wardrobe and a major decrease in stress. For the first time in seemingly forever I'm actually enjoying my life. 💅🏼

You being fat could be the reason he looked for an AP in the first place. Doesn’t make okay, just saying you are part of the problem

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She bought new underwear but I never saw her wearing them

This, and she always found excuses not to have sex (with me, anyway).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To all the women complaining about their cheating husbands - if you got fat or were not having frequent sex with your husbands then you are part of the problem. While cheating is primarily the cheater’s fault, if you are fat or not having sex with your husband, then you contributed to the problem.

Neither. And much hotter than the AP. Unfortunately- he was still banging me multiple times a week….threw up when I found out about the side whore.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To all the women complaining about their cheating husbands - if you got fat or were not having frequent sex with your husbands then you are part of the problem. While cheating is primarily the cheater’s fault, if you are fat or not having sex with your husband, then you contributed to the problem.

Nope. The cheater is always welcome to exit the relationship before dipping their wick, or having a wick dipped in them. If you don’t want what you have, then let someone else have it.

But that’s the pathology of cheaters isn’t it? They think they should be able to and are somehow entitled have it all, despite the pain of the other person. All without even seeing that perhaps they’re part of the cause of their partner “getting fat”. 🙄

I dropped 30lbs in the months after ex moved in with his AP. I was still eating just fine. My doctor said my cortisol levels had dropped. So had my blood pressure. I am enjoying my new wardrobe and a major decrease in stress. For the first time in seemingly forever I'm actually enjoying my life. 💅🏼

You being fat could be the reason he looked for an AP in the first place. Doesn’t make okay, just saying you are part of the problem

Well his bourbon fed man boobs and belly were a huge turnoff for me. I'm back to my fighting weight. Last time I saw him he still had the man boobs and belly. Granted his Platinum Amex would appeal to a desperate woman, and she's welcome to it. I'm doing more thank ok now with my Green Amex. 😘

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And many of these women chose to stay with these men.....I never cheated, never financially answer my ex wife, was a full 50% partner throughout our marriage and get she divorced me. My crime was that I was mostly working and was not emotionally supportive enough. Yet when I was around we still had sex, went on dates etc...

Some of the sh***t that these men put their wives through and still get second chances to me just show that it's very hard to know exactly what makes a woman finally leave.

One of the worst thing a man can do in a marriage is being nice and a equal partner and not be assertive.

That is not the lesson. My gd.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To all the women complaining about their cheating husbands - if you got fat or were not having frequent sex with your husbands then you are part of the problem. While cheating is primarily the cheater’s fault, if you are fat or not having sex with your husband, then you contributed to the problem.

Nope. The cheater is always welcome to exit the relationship before dipping their wick, or having a wick dipped in them. If you don’t want what you have, then let someone else have it.

But that’s the pathology of cheaters isn’t it? They think they should be able to and are somehow entitled have it all, despite the pain of the other person. All without even seeing that perhaps they’re part of the cause of their partner “getting fat”. 🙄

I dropped 30lbs in the months after ex moved in with his AP. I was still eating just fine. My doctor said my cortisol levels had dropped. So had my blood pressure. I am enjoying my new wardrobe and a major decrease in stress. For the first time in seemingly forever I'm actually enjoying my life. 💅🏼

You being fat could be the reason he looked for an AP in the first place. Doesn’t make okay, just saying you are part of the problem

I notice you aren't saying the same thing about the women that cheat.
You one of those MGTOW guys, or an incel?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To all the women complaining about their cheating husbands - if you got fat or were not having frequent sex with your husbands then you are part of the problem. While cheating is primarily the cheater’s fault, if you are fat or not having sex with your husband, then you contributed to the problem.

Nope. The cheater is always welcome to exit the relationship before dipping their wick, or having a wick dipped in them. If you don’t want what you have, then let someone else have it.

But that’s the pathology of cheaters isn’t it? They think they should be able to and are somehow entitled have it all, despite the pain of the other person. All without even seeing that perhaps they’re part of the cause of their partner “getting fat”. 🙄

I dropped 30lbs in the months after ex moved in with his AP. I was still eating just fine. My doctor said my cortisol levels had dropped. So had my blood pressure. I am enjoying my new wardrobe and a major decrease in stress. For the first time in seemingly forever I'm actually enjoying my life. 💅🏼

You being fat could be the reason he looked for an AP in the first place. Doesn’t make okay, just saying you are part of the problem

I notice you aren't saying the same thing about the women that cheat.
You one of those MGTOW guys, or an incel?

🤣🤣🤡 Two sides of the same coin, IMO.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To all the women complaining about their cheating husbands - if you got fat or were not having frequent sex with your husbands then you are part of the problem. While cheating is primarily the cheater’s fault, if you are fat or not having sex with your husband, then you contributed to the problem.

Nope. The cheater is always welcome to exit the relationship before dipping their wick, or having a wick dipped in them. If you don’t want what you have, then let someone else have it.

But that’s the pathology of cheaters isn’t it? They think they should be able to and are somehow entitled have it all, despite the pain of the other person. All without even seeing that perhaps they’re part of the cause of their partner “getting fat”. 🙄

I dropped 30lbs in the months after ex moved in with his AP. I was still eating just fine. My doctor said my cortisol levels had dropped. So had my blood pressure. I am enjoying my new wardrobe and a major decrease in stress. For the first time in seemingly forever I'm actually enjoying my life. 💅🏼

You being fat could be the reason he looked for an AP in the first place. Doesn’t make okay, just saying you are part of the problem

Well his bourbon fed man boobs and belly were a huge turnoff for me. I'm back to my fighting weight. Last time I saw him he still had the man boobs and belly. Granted his Platinum Amex would appeal to a desperate woman, and she's welcome to it. I'm doing more thank ok now with my Green Amex. 😘

You go girl! 👸

[Anonymous]

Why do they become irritable? Frustrated that they can’t be with AP? Can’t leave?

Some people commented about performing. Yes, lots of hypocrisy. Posting online about having a perfect life with wife. Being dedicated in many ways. But then not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Her breath smelled like man juice

No way...did she admit it? So the AP came in her mouth...wow

Uhh, that's pretty standard, no?

Doesn’t everybody do that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To all the women complaining about their cheating husbands - if you got fat or were not having frequent sex with your husbands then you are part of the problem. While cheating is primarily the cheater’s fault, if you are fat or not having sex with your husband, then you contributed to the problem.

Is that why he was cheating with men?