What first made you suspicious that your spouse was having an affair?

[Anonymous]

I was the AP to a married woman a few years ago. I will never get married..women are sneaky. She never got caughtm.some of the outlandish lies she was telling her husband were incredible. We had amazing sex though. She probably used a plan B pill a week. She would be on her way home while her husband is away and I'll call her to come over for sex. She would immediately come over and order dominos pizza for her kids.

<sigh>. Your post is not the flex you think it is.

By posting that she used a Plan B pill a week, you mean to signal that the two of you had sex a lot. However, the adults reading this post know that she did have sex a lot. The part you are missing is that only some (and, likely, very little) of it was with you. A woman who would behave like this was also banging multiple men at the same time as you, while still sleeping with her husband.

You post that you do not care about her promiscuity because "you got your peen wet" is the correct bro answer. As a man old enough to be your father, I want you to consider that her gynecologist likely has to wear a hazmat suit when your AP visits. Please, find a great urologist and ensure you get every test they can administer. Also, know that every minute you were with her, you were not with someone worth caring about, and this is your loss.

Finally, please find some compassion for her husband and kids. The tone of your post notes your disdain for her husband, and you intimate that he should have known better. You are probably right. He was working long hours (and traveling) to support his wife and kids. It is hard to think about much else when working 60 or 70 hours a week and having a family you want to spend time with.

The worst part is that her kids will likely have to pay for her care when she needs the isolation ward at Sunrise Senior Living because she could, even at an advanced age, still contaminate a city block.

[Anonymous]

In the post above, this part should have been a quote:

I was the AP to a married woman a few years ago. I will never get married..women are sneaky. She never got caughtm.some of the outlandish lies she was telling her husband were incredible. We had amazing sex though. She probably used a plan B pill a week. She would be on her way home while her husband is away and I'll call her to come over for sex. She would immediately come over and order dominos pizza for her kids.

My apologies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was the AP to a married woman a few years ago. I will never get married..women are sneaky. She never got caughtm.some of the outlandish lies she was telling her husband were incredible. We had amazing sex though. She probably used a plan B pill a week. She would be on her way home while her husband is away and I'll call her to come over for sex. She would immediately come over and order dominos pizza for her kids.

<sigh>. Your post is not the flex you think it is.

By posting that she used a Plan B pill a week, you mean to signal that the two of you had sex a lot. However, the adults reading this post know that she did have sex a lot. The part you are missing is that only some (and, likely, very little) of it was with you. A woman who would behave like this was also banging multiple men at the same time as you, while still sleeping with her husband.

You post that you do not care about her promiscuity because "you got your peen wet" is the correct bro answer. As a man old enough to be your father, I want you to consider that her gynecologist likely has to wear a hazmat suit when your AP visits. Please, find a great urologist and ensure you get every test they can administer. Also, know that every minute you were with her, you were not with someone worth caring about, and this is your loss.

Finally, please find some compassion for her husband and kids. The tone of your post notes your disdain for her husband, and you intimate that he should have known better. You are probably right. He was working long hours (and traveling) to support his wife and kids. It is hard to think about much else when working 60 or 70 hours a week and having a family you want to spend time with.

The worst part is that her kids will likely have to pay for her care when she needs the isolation ward at Sunrise Senior Living because she could, even at an advanced age, still contaminate a city block.

Omg!!!! Yes!! My ex met up with a married woman at her house and they had unprotected sex on first meet because they “told” each other they had been tested and were clean, and the “married” gave them false sense of security. I was floored. Really???? You think a woman that meets you online and brings you to her family home and doesn’t require a condom even is a safe person. Yes—-she had multiple affairs and was banging many others at the same time—anytime she was mad at him. And- yeah ex probably was too.

[Anonymous]

I have seen far more men losing their wives over the fact that they are never home than for cheating for them. It's kind of weird to me. It's like as long as you are home and emotionally supportive she will either turn a blind eye or forgive you for having sex with another woman. It seems that for women if their husbands just have sex with other women they can get over it. However an absent husband or a husband who isn't emotionally present has no chance. So very often the men who cheat don't neglect their wives at home it is as if they know the rule of the game to get a pass.

this is true

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have seen far more men losing their wives over the fact that they are never home than for cheating for them. It's kind of weird to me. It's like as long as you are home and emotionally supportive she will either turn a blind eye or forgive you for having sex with another woman. It seems that for women if their husbands just have sex with other women they can get over it. However an absent husband or a husband who isn't emotionally present has no chance. So very often the men who cheat don't neglect their wives at home it is as if they know the rule of the game to get a pass.

this is true

It’s more likely they have no idea about the cheating precisely because he’s home all the time and emotionally supportive,,,,,and often still having sex with them.

Ask me how I know….