Men who cheat on their beautiful wives?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have a very beautiful friend and her one-time boyfriend cheated on her. I am fully convinced that he felt very inferior to her (he was), and that was his way of elevating himself and putting her down, take her off the pedestal. Probably it was subconscious but to me it was obvious.

You are nuts!

No, that’s exactly why he cheated on her - he had an inferiority complex and thought that was the way to feed his ego. It didn’t help and they eventually broke up.

Yep. Studies show marriages were the wife out earns the man — husband more likely to cheat. It’s also very passively aggressive

Because she's too busy with her job and doesn't prioritize intimacy in her relationship. Who would have thought?!?

I bet you co-sign and justify women straying when their "workaholic" husbands neglect intimacy with them though.

[Anonymous]

Here are were the options:

Sex with wife: had to beg for it; was vanilla when I could get it; she always complained about something; she never had an orgasm

Sex with AP: beautiful; 18 years younger; would do anything sexually; was submissive; gorgeous body; had multiple orgasms

Which would you choose?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a very beautiful friend and her one-time boyfriend cheated on her. I am fully convinced that he felt very inferior to her (he was), and that was his way of elevating himself and putting her down, take her off the pedestal. Probably it was subconscious but to me it was obvious.

You are nuts!

No, that’s exactly why he cheated on her - he had an inferiority complex and thought that was the way to feed his ego. It didn’t help and they eventually broke up.

Yep. Studies show marriages were the wife out earns the man — husband more likely to cheat. It’s also very passively aggressive

Because she's too busy with her job and doesn't prioritize intimacy in her relationship. Who would have thought?!?

I bet you co-sign and justify women straying when their "workaholic" husbands neglect intimacy with them though.

Neither, freak. Cheating is wrong no matter the circumstances.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here are were the options:

Sex with wife: had to beg for it; was vanilla when I could get it; she always complained about something; she never had an orgasm

Sex with AP: beautiful; 18 years younger; would do anything sexually; was submissive; gorgeous body; had multiple orgasms

Which would you choose?

My kids’ mother.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here are were the options:

Sex with wife: had to beg for it; was vanilla when I could get it; she always complained about something; she never had an orgasm

Sex with AP: beautiful; 18 years younger; would do anything sexually; was submissive; gorgeous body; had multiple orgasms

Which would you choose?

My kids’ mother.

Yep. And if she was that way when you married her- that’s on you. If time and kids and stress and midlife did that- you owed it to your wife and kids to work it out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here are were the options:

Sex with wife: had to beg for it; was vanilla when I could get it; she always complained about something; she never had an orgasm

Sex with AP: beautiful; 18 years younger; would do anything sexually; was submissive; gorgeous body; had multiple orgasms

Which would you choose?

My kids’ mother.

Yep. And if she was that way when you married her- that’s on you. If time and kids and stress and midlife did that- you owed it to your wife and kids to work it out.

Right answer. For better or worse, richer or poorer, in good times and bad. Remember you promised this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here are were the options:

Sex with wife: had to beg for it; was vanilla when I could get it; she always complained about something; she never had an orgasm

Sex with AP: beautiful; 18 years younger; would do anything sexually; was submissive; gorgeous body; had multiple orgasms

Which would you choose?

My kids’ mother.

So what if there are no kids? This is the OP. The guy I'm dating had no kids with his ex-wife but he says that she was not vanilla in bed. In fact she initiated some of the stuff like anal and footjobs which sounds weird to me. Either way the ex-wife had wanted to try therapy before divorcing. Things didn't work even though they had spent last Thanksgiving together with her family and went thru therapy. His AP was a married woman too but I didn't ask if she was attractive. He dislikes when I ask questions out of curiosity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here are were the options:

Sex with wife: had to beg for it; was vanilla when I could get it; she always complained about something; she never had an orgasm

Sex with AP: beautiful; 18 years younger; would do anything sexually; was submissive; gorgeous body; had multiple orgasms

Which would you choose?

My kids’ mother.

So what if there are no kids? This is the OP. The guy I'm dating had no kids with his ex-wife but he says that she was not vanilla in bed. In fact she initiated some of the stuff like anal and footjobs which sounds weird to me. Either way the ex-wife had wanted to try therapy before divorcing. Things didn't work even though they had spent last Thanksgiving together with her family and went thru therapy. His AP was a married woman too but I didn't ask if she was attractive. He dislikes when I ask questions out of curiosity.

Red flag

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here are were the options:

Sex with wife: had to beg for it; was vanilla when I could get it; she always complained about something; she never had an orgasm

Sex with AP: beautiful; 18 years younger; would do anything sexually; was submissive; gorgeous body; had multiple orgasms

Which would you choose?

My kids’ mother.

So what if there are no kids? This is the OP. The guy I'm dating had no kids with his ex-wife but he says that she was not vanilla in bed. In fact she initiated some of the stuff like anal and footjobs which sounds weird to me. Either way the ex-wife had wanted to try therapy before divorcing. Things didn't work even though they had spent last Thanksgiving together with her family and went thru therapy. His AP was a married woman too but I didn't ask if she was attractive. He dislikes when I ask questions out of curiosity.

But why cheat? Really puzzling to cheat if there aren’t kids.

Seems like some sort of fetish or trying to be cruel or something. So much easier to split without kids. Just say you want some space, all of a sudden you’re not cheating you’re just seeing other people.

[Anonymous]

Beauty is also subjective.

[Anonymous]

Cheating down can be a power trip for guys who want the chance to be in control.

[Anonymous]

Men have answered several times in this thread, but women are insistent on spinning their own convoluted theories. Men do not think like women; it ain't that complicated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Cheating down can be a power trip for guys who want the chance to be in control.

+1

Similarly for women dating younger.

[Anonymous]

As long as a person meets with person of the opposite gender in private who is not their blood relative, there’s always a chance of adultry. Not everyone does it but the odds increase. Doesn’t matter if they look better or worse than their spouse.
Mike Pence approach is the right approach!

[Anonymous]

Men should be men.

Anyone who gets their boy a doll needs their head examined.

Thank god Trump won!

Anonymous wrote:Men can't handle their feelings, so when a woman comes along who'll excuse his bs and make him feel special, he's "vulnerable".

It's not an actual vulnerability. It's completely correctable by men taking responsibility for their own emotions instead of remaining forever codependent on women, but if his mama didn't teach him that already, good luck.

Women make this problem by excusing 'boys will be boys' culture, not getting their sons dolls, and deeply imprinting toxic masculinity before the kids are in 3rd grade. And yes, women, because dads don't have to parent, that's soft skill "feminine" work. He's a "provider"

See how all the gender roles lead back to the same place? Dysfunctional, emotionally-stunted male adults who don't think they're suppose to even have feelings, let alone be responsible for making sure their actions aren't strictly governed by them.

But look at how many of these cheater threads are "I had no choice..." "I was powerless..." "I couldn't resist..."