Men who cheat on their beautiful wives?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Men can't handle their feelings, so when a woman comes along who'll excuse his bs and make him feel special, he's "vulnerable".

It's not an actual vulnerability. It's completely correctable by men taking responsibility for their own emotions instead of remaining forever codependent on women, but if his mama didn't teach him that already, good luck.

Women make this problem by excusing 'boys will be boys' culture, not getting their sons dolls, and deeply imprinting toxic masculinity before the kids are in 3rd grade. And yes, women, because dads don't have to parent, that's soft skill "feminine" work. He's a "provider"

See how all the gender roles lead back to the same place? Dysfunctional, emotionally-stunted male adults who don't think they're suppose to even have feelings, let alone be responsible for making sure their actions aren't strictly governed by them.

But look at how many of these cheater threads are "I had no choice..." "I was powerless..." "I couldn't resist..."


This is pseudo scientific nonsense. You want to feminize men. You cannot fight evolution. Women tend to have different strengths from men and vice versa. This would not work.

Anonymous
Why are you dating him?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Every woman on DCUM is a dime piece. Confirmed.


Never mind that they’re living in DC, “Hollywood for ugly people”. You have to pay the ugly tax of 3 cents on the dime here.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Here ya go

https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/topics/558762/honey-they-always-affair-down/




Women are women's worst enemies. What a horribly petty mean girl way to make the other woman responsible for your philandering excuse for a man while insulting her in the process. Absolutely pathetic.


The woman who wrote that post needs to find another narrative for why she's staying with the man who cheated on her. The other woman didn't owe her anything. He vowed fidelity. By staying with him, regardless of the stories she tells herself, she's permitting him to break that vow repeatedly. At what point does his cheating become his fault instead of the other woman's fault?


The moment he cheats. He could've chosen to not cheat, and he picked cheating. It is 100% his fault.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Here ya go

https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/topics/558762/honey-they-always-affair-down/




Women are women's worst enemies. What a horribly petty mean girl way to make the other woman responsible for your philandering excuse for a man while insulting her in the process. Absolutely pathetic.

You call the betrayed spouse a "petty mean girl", but not the woman who willingly slept with a married man? A woman who does that is exactly as described, and women who turn down married men are also exactly as described.

There is no excuse for a married man (or person) to go outside their marriage, but it takes two to cheat, and that does not absolve the other party from their portion.


Maybe he didn't even tell her he was married? It's not like your cheating husband has integrity and honesty at the forefront...

Yelling about the women allows men who cheat to duck responsibility. An honest man will never cheat. A cheater cheats, and is the only party responsible for his cheating. He could've chosen to be faithful; he chose cheating, regardless of reasons, the other woman, whatever.

Cheating is always a choice.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Men can't handle their feelings, so when a woman comes along who'll excuse his bs and make him feel special, he's "vulnerable".

It's not an actual vulnerability. It's completely correctable by men taking responsibility for their own emotions instead of remaining forever codependent on women, but if his mama didn't teach him that already, good luck.

Women make this problem by excusing 'boys will be boys' culture, not getting their sons dolls, and deeply imprinting toxic masculinity before the kids are in 3rd grade. And yes, women, because dads don't have to parent, that's soft skill "feminine" work. He's a "provider"

See how all the gender roles lead back to the same place? Dysfunctional, emotionally-stunted male adults who don't think they're suppose to even have feelings, let alone be responsible for making sure their actions aren't strictly governed by them.

But look at how many of these cheater threads are "I had no choice..." "I was powerless..." "I couldn't resist..."


This is pseudo scientific nonsense. You want to feminize men. You cannot fight evolution. Women tend to have different strengths from men and vice versa. This would not work.



Thank you for proving the point. "having feelings" = feminizing men

Asking men to be responsible for their decisions isn't feminizing them. Integrity isn't gendered, it's chosen or rejected. You have it or you don't.
Anonymous
Well, maybe beauty isn’t enough! Duh!
Anonymous
People may consider my spouse better looking and more successful, but my attraction to AP is not just physical, but an emotional one.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Men always affair down. My ex cheated with his admin assistant, who objectively looks like a horse and as the personality of a doormat. However, she thinks that he is the most important and interesting person in the world, and he likes how that makes him feel. Suddenly he’s into horses.



my mistress is much hotter and younger than my wife. my wife gained 50 plus pounds and stopped caring about her looks for the past 15 years. not all of us go down when we have an affair
Anonymous
“For a long time I thought you cheated on me because I got old. Now I realize it’s because you did.”
Anonymous
It's just a wet #ole and I would not read much into it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Beyonce, Shakira, Diana, etc...

Beauty guarantees nothing.


Those women are gross and fat. MSM has propped them up.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Well, maybe beauty isn’t enough! Duh!


+1. Men crave attention. All you have to do is make them feel desired and like the sun rises and falls on them. Average looks are fine.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It's just a wet #ole and I would not read much into it.


Yep. Variety. It could be anyone, any warm hole will do
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Men always affair down. My ex cheated with his admin assistant, who objectively looks like a horse and as the personality of a doormat. However, she thinks that he is the most important and interesting person in the world, and he likes how that makes him feel. Suddenly he’s into horses.

+1 mine cheated with his younger coworker who my friends say looks like a troll. Seriously, she seems to be missing a chin. But his self esteem is so low and he is so lacking, it makes him feel superior
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