Divorced women in their 40s seem to be doing better in the dating market

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Anonymous wrote:I didn't have trouble on the dating market. But then again I'm conventionally attractive in the top ways OLD works for women (petite, Asian). I actually had to restrict the ages below and above me because I had too many messages. But when guys could get through, I got younger and older than I filtered for. At the time I was 40 and had some 29 year olds sneaking in.

Ask any man in his 20s about MILF. Regardless of how you look, it's a fantasy to sleep with a MILF. I am sure you are fully aware that it's not the way you look but it's about your age being older a MiLF it's fetish territory.

Are you saying men objectify women?

Don’t you think men who are on dating apps desiring no strings attached sex from women 20 years their senior are a self-selecting group of particularly objectifying men? Do you really think this specific group of men are there because your personalities are so dazzling and you’re just so darn educated?

By seeking out unserious men and cutting bait with those who are serious, a woman has objectified herself. The market is merely responding appropriately.

MOST men are seeking out no strings attached sex with women, as proven by the 40 year old balding dude on here bragging about doing that to 20 somethings. That’s just the male degenerate nature, and by their 40s, most women know the game very well, and can easily play it, especially against a 25 year old. The vast majority of marriages have started with men “just wanting sex” and then getting lured into a serious relationship by a woman who knows what she’s doing

OK so how is it a win to sleep with and potentially trap a degenerate loser into marriage if you’re lucky????? The good ones are self selecting OUT of this process. You get to pick from the bums, users, and losers. Yay?

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Anonymous wrote:It's easy to date at that age point, but it is much more difficult to find a genuine relationship. Most good men in their forties who are single will be divorced and have kids who are still at home. They are both busy and if they are out there, they are generally looking for a real relationship. They quickly find that there are lots of women in their 30s who are marriage minded. Maybe they want kids. Maybe they don't. Maybe they're fine with assuming a stepmom role. But in any event, there are a lot of relationship-minded younger women out there. That's probably what good men in their 40s are going to gravitate towards when it comes to relationships. Of course for flings women in their 40s will have no shortage of options. But for real relationships, they will more likely be looking toward men in their 50s with kids who are already grown and out of the house. Or they get involved with men a decade younger, but that almost never works over the long term if she doesn't want children. 40 something is a complicated age.

Interesting.

Your defintion of a genuine relationship seems to be centered around women caring for men and their children. Women in their 40s are looking for more "genuine" than that.

I have never found younger men attractive, but I'd never date a man with children if I were single.

These divorced women dating younger are smart!

They are smart as long as they understand that it's a win win scenario solely for sex. I'm not going to introduce a 40 years old woman as a 26 years old man to my parents

And yet plenty of men do exactly that, men who are much more desirable than you. For example: harry styles, Aaron Taylor Johnson, Ryan gosling, nick jonas, Chris hemsworth, machine gun Kelly, mark estes, etc

Plenty of men in the real world hahaha. Hey dad this is Lisa she just turned 40 I love her so much. GtFO

It happens all the time. Sorry you don’t have many friends or you might realize that 😕

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Anonymous wrote:It's easy to date at that age point, but it is much more difficult to find a genuine relationship. Most good men in their forties who are single will be divorced and have kids who are still at home. They are both busy and if they are out there, they are generally looking for a real relationship. They quickly find that there are lots of women in their 30s who are marriage minded. Maybe they want kids. Maybe they don't. Maybe they're fine with assuming a stepmom role. But in any event, there are a lot of relationship-minded younger women out there. That's probably what good men in their 40s are going to gravitate towards when it comes to relationships. Of course for flings women in their 40s will have no shortage of options. But for real relationships, they will more likely be looking toward men in their 50s with kids who are already grown and out of the house. Or they get involved with men a decade younger, but that almost never works over the long term if she doesn't want children. 40 something is a complicated age.

Interesting.

Your defintion of a genuine relationship seems to be centered around women caring for men and their children. Women in their 40s are looking for more "genuine" than that.

I have never found younger men attractive, but I'd never date a man with children if I were single.

These divorced women dating younger are smart!

They are smart as long as they understand that it's a win win scenario solely for sex. I'm not going to introduce a 40 years old woman as a 26 years old man to my parents

And yet plenty of men do exactly that, men who are much more desirable than you. For example: harry styles, Aaron Taylor Johnson, Ryan gosling, nick jonas, Chris hemsworth, machine gun Kelly, mark estes, etc

Plenty of men in the real world hahaha. Hey dad this is Lisa she just turned 40 I love her so much. GtFO

Irrelevant. Most women over 40 and dating don't want to meet anyone's moms or dads, anyway.

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Anonymous wrote:I didn't have trouble on the dating market. But then again I'm conventionally attractive in the top ways OLD works for women (petite, Asian). I actually had to restrict the ages below and above me because I had too many messages. But when guys could get through, I got younger and older than I filtered for. At the time I was 40 and had some 29 year olds sneaking in.

Ask any man in his 20s about MILF. Regardless of how you look, it's a fantasy to sleep with a MILF. I am sure you are fully aware that it's not the way you look but it's about your age being older a MiLF it's fetish territory.

Are you saying men objectify women?

Don’t you think men who are on dating apps desiring no strings attached sex from women 20 years their senior are a self-selecting group of particularly objectifying men? Do you really think this specific group of men are there because your personalities are so dazzling and you’re just so darn educated?

By seeking out unserious men and cutting bait with those who are serious, a woman has objectified herself. The market is merely responding appropriately.

MOST men are seeking out no strings attached sex with women, as proven by the 40 year old balding dude on here bragging about doing that to 20 somethings. That’s just the male degenerate nature, and by their 40s, most women know the game very well, and can easily play it, especially against a 25 year old. The vast majority of marriages have started with men “just wanting sex” and then getting lured into a serious relationship by a woman who knows what she’s doing

OK so how is it a win to sleep with and potentially trap a degenerate loser into marriage if you’re lucky????? The good ones are self selecting OUT of this process. You get to pick from the bums, users, and losers. Yay?

Who said they’re degenerate? That’s your wishful thinking because you’re angry that women continue to have higher dating SMV throughout their life than the average man ever will. Certainly most of these 26 year olds are better adjusted and more of a catch (and, it must be said, hotter and fitter and better in bed) than the loser divorced dad who irritated his wife until she kicked him to the curb like trash

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Guys and gals most divorced women in their 40s sleep and date men around their age or a couple of years younger. And second a lot of divorced women believe or not simply stay out of the dating and hookup scene for a long time or even forever. I don't know why there is this real obsession that divorced women in their 40s are f**g men in their late 20s to early 30s. And women cannot stand men who are not mature. These men (boys) are still very immature. Their filthy mouth can and will say hurtful things

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Anonymous wrote:I didn't have trouble on the dating market. But then again I'm conventionally attractive in the top ways OLD works for women (petite, Asian). I actually had to restrict the ages below and above me because I had too many messages. But when guys could get through, I got younger and older than I filtered for. At the time I was 40 and had some 29 year olds sneaking in.

Ask any man in his 20s about MILF. Regardless of how you look, it's a fantasy to sleep with a MILF. I am sure you are fully aware that it's not the way you look but it's about your age being older a MiLF it's fetish territory.

Are you saying men objectify women?

Don’t you think men who are on dating apps desiring no strings attached sex from women 20 years their senior are a self-selecting group of particularly objectifying men? Do you really think this specific group of men are there because your personalities are so dazzling and you’re just so darn educated?

By seeking out unserious men and cutting bait with those who are serious, a woman has objectified herself. The market is merely responding appropriately.

So the divorced men in their 40s were so serious that their ex-wives cut them loose. Most men are divorced because their ex- wives left them. Why should divorced women trade in their damaged men for equally damaged men who have been rejected by fellow divorced women? Most of these men are unserious rejects.

For women this is also an issue. My sister divorced her husband, did therapy, met a great mam(at the time) and now she is going through divorce again..she said that man who was younger turned out exactly like her ex husband. I think women date younger just to f**k and that's okay. The issue that women have with men are sadly not isolated to one man. The themes seem to be the same over and over again

Yep. And a lot of divorced women have figured it out-- and they are looking for the best sex they can get. Hence they prefer the younger men.

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Anonymous wrote:Guys and gals most divorced women in their 40s sleep and date men around their age or a couple of years younger. And second a lot of divorced women believe or not simply stay out of the dating and hookup scene for a long time or even forever. I don't know why there is this real obsession that divorced women in their 40s are f**g men in their late 20s to early 30s. And women cannot stand men who are not mature. These men (boys) are still very immature. Their filthy mouth can and will say hurtful things

I don’t think anyone is obsessed with it but the fact is we’re seeing a lot of 20 something men pairing up with women in their 30s and 40s. What once was uncommon is becoming super commonplace and unremarkable

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Anonymous wrote:It's easy to date at that age point, but it is much more difficult to find a genuine relationship. Most good men in their forties who are single will be divorced and have kids who are still at home. They are both busy and if they are out there, they are generally looking for a real relationship. They quickly find that there are lots of women in their 30s who are marriage minded. Maybe they want kids. Maybe they don't. Maybe they're fine with assuming a stepmom role. But in any event, there are a lot of relationship-minded younger women out there. That's probably what good men in their 40s are going to gravitate towards when it comes to relationships. Of course for flings women in their 40s will have no shortage of options. But for real relationships, they will more likely be looking toward men in their 50s with kids who are already grown and out of the house. Or they get involved with men a decade younger, but that almost never works over the long term if she doesn't want children. 40 something is a complicated age.

Interesting.

Your defintion of a genuine relationship seems to be centered around women caring for men and their children. Women in their 40s are looking for more "genuine" than that.

I have never found younger men attractive, but I'd never date a man with children if I were single.

These divorced women dating younger are smart!

They are smart as long as they understand that it's a win win scenario solely for sex. I'm not going to introduce a 40 years old woman as a 26 years old man to my parents

And yet plenty of men do exactly that, men who are much more desirable than you. For example: harry styles, Aaron Taylor Johnson, Ryan gosling, nick jonas, Chris hemsworth, machine gun Kelly, mark estes, etc

Plenty of men in the real world hahaha. Hey dad this is Lisa she just turned 40 I love her so much. GtFO

It happens all the time. Sorry you don’t have many friends or you might realize that 😕

It's actually not a bad idea so the mom and gf can talk about anti aging cream and bond over that.

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Anonymous wrote:Is it really true that divorced women in their 40s are looking and/or dating younger? I don't know any of my divorced friends who are dating younger men the way some women claim it on this forum. They tend date around the same age.

Yes, it is true. If your divorced friends are dating men around their own age then they probably don’t have their own money, and they need a serious relationship and a man’s money. I’m not taking on any more projects of men or their kids or anything else. I don’t need a man’s money and I don’t want to ever get married again so I only date younger men without kids and I’m always the one who cuts it off because they’re the ones who gets serious. I’ve limited time and it’s just easier to date men without kids who are younger because they’re not as demanding and I don’t have to deal with any other custody schedules. Attractive women can do this really easily.

How callous and gross. It’d be gross if a man was this transactional in using and discarding younger women as sex objects, and it’s gross when women do it. This is not a flex.

I don’t think you understand—it’s not like they’re hurt. We always know that it’s temporary. They want to keep me as long as they want until they find a wife, but I’m not going to do that.

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Anonymous wrote:Guys and gals most divorced women in their 40s sleep and date men around their age or a couple of years younger. And second a lot of divorced women believe or not simply stay out of the dating and hookup scene for a long time or even forever. I don't know why there is this real obsession that divorced women in their 40s are f**g men in their late 20s to early 30s. And women cannot stand men who are not mature. These men (boys) are still very immature. Their filthy mouth can and will say hurtful things

I don’t think anyone is obsessed with it but the fact is we’re seeing a lot of 20 something men pairing up with women in their 30s and 40s. What once was uncommon is becoming super commonplace and unremarkable

It's is not common. I don't have data to back up my claim. If any such surveys exist I will be shocked if more than 20% of divorced women 40+ are dating men 10 to 15 years younger.

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Anonymous wrote:Guys and gals most divorced women in their 40s sleep and date men around their age or a couple of years younger. And second a lot of divorced women believe or not simply stay out of the dating and hookup scene for a long time or even forever. I don't know why there is this real obsession that divorced women in their 40s are f**g men in their late 20s to early 30s. And women cannot stand men who are not mature. These men (boys) are still very immature. Their filthy mouth can and will say hurtful things

I don’t think anyone is obsessed with it but the fact is we’re seeing a lot of 20 something men pairing up with women in their 30s and 40s. What once was uncommon is becoming super commonplace and unremarkable

Maybe 20-something men are just as materialistic as 20-something women and looking for an easy way out by dating someone more established. If you are attractive in your 40s and willing to carry the costs of dating, you have options.

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Anonymous wrote:Guys and gals most divorced women in their 40s sleep and date men around their age or a couple of years younger. And second a lot of divorced women believe or not simply stay out of the dating and hookup scene for a long time or even forever. I don't know why there is this real obsession that divorced women in their 40s are f**g men in their late 20s to early 30s. And women cannot stand men who are not mature. These men (boys) are still very immature. Their filthy mouth can and will say hurtful things

I don’t think anyone is obsessed with it but the fact is we’re seeing a lot of 20 something men pairing up with women in their 30s and 40s. What once was uncommon is becoming super commonplace and unremarkable

It's is not common. I don't have data to back up my claim. If any such surveys exist I will be shocked if more than 20% of divorced women 40+ are dating men 10 to 15 years younger.

It is common, at least among my friend group. And happening more and more

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I didn't have trouble on the dating market. But then again I'm conventionally attractive in the top ways OLD works for women (petite, Asian). I actually had to restrict the ages below and above me because I had too many messages. But when guys could get through, I got younger and older than I filtered for. At the time I was 40 and had some 29 year olds sneaking in.

I am 47. I go on dates with 29-year-olds sometimes. I don’t look my age. Age 40 and 29 is not a huge gap at all.

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Anonymous wrote:Guys and gals most divorced women in their 40s sleep and date men around their age or a couple of years younger. And second a lot of divorced women believe or not simply stay out of the dating and hookup scene for a long time or even forever. I don't know why there is this real obsession that divorced women in their 40s are f**g men in their late 20s to early 30s. And women cannot stand men who are not mature. These men (boys) are still very immature. Their filthy mouth can and will say hurtful things

I don’t think anyone is obsessed with it but the fact is we’re seeing a lot of 20 something men pairing up with women in their 30s and 40s. What once was uncommon is becoming super commonplace and unremarkable

It's is not common. I don't have data to back up my claim. If any such surveys exist I will be shocked if more than 20% of divorced women 40+ are dating men 10 to 15 years younger.

It is common, at least among my friend group. And happening more and more

+1. I would say at least 50% if not more

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Anonymous wrote:I didn't have trouble on the dating market. But then again I'm conventionally attractive in the top ways OLD works for women (petite, Asian). I actually had to restrict the ages below and above me because I had too many messages. But when guys could get through, I got younger and older than I filtered for. At the time I was 40 and had some 29 year olds sneaking in.

I am 47. I go on dates with 29-year-olds sometimes. I don’t look my age. Age 40 and 29 is not a huge gap at all.

What?!? I am a divorced 45 years old man. My minum is 35. I don't even know how I will approach a 29 years old. That's a big gap.