My boyfriend steals groceries
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Anonymous
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Get rid of him. He's a liar and a thief.
If you go to the store with him you risk being arrested with him. I am not kidding. |
Anonymous
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Nice guys don’t do this. What else will cheat on if it’s already built in?
Red flag alert. |
Anonymous
He’s a lawyer. He probably makes some money. She’s insecure. He sound like a jerk. RUN! |
Anonymous
| I've never seen a thread like this where everybody agrees. Dump him. |
Anonymous
| Dump him. Next it will be “but everyone cheats on their wife.” |
Anonymous
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If I really appreciated any of his “redeeming” qualities, perhaps I’d offer to be his girlfriend 75% of the time.
- OP, you can’t be this clueless. Your boyfriend steals 25% of his grocery bill. Who knows what else he does! |
Anonymous
He’s a government lawyer. He’s not making that much money. 
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Anonymous
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How is he consistently getting away with this? There are cameras and sometimes attendants.
Also deal breaker, you should go with him and turn him in next time he does this. |
Anonymous
I’ve heard that some retailers watch thieves over time and wait for them to get over a certain threshold so they get them for grand theft larceny. His time may be coming… |
Anonymous
Goodbye to his security clearance if he has one. Goodbye to his government lawyer job entirely, probably. OP, I agree with a person earlier in the thread who said this is a very rare thing -- a DCUM thread where the voices are unanimous in one opinion. That should tell you how incredibly blatant his a-holery is. Got to add, though, I'm genuinely sorry, OP. He's your boyfriend so that surely means you care about him for other reasons and it will be wrenching to dump him. Seriously, without snark, I'm sorry he's turned out to have such a big red flag, and it's one you cannot have anticipated until you were at the point in dating that you're doing everyday things together like going to the grocery store, etc. This isn't the kind of red flag that shows itself in the "best behavior" days of early dating. Be glad you found this out before you dated him any longer. It sucks, OP. But there are men out there who never play the selfish "all men/people steal/cheat/lie" card. There really are. You deserve one of them. The BF deserves to get caught and prosecuted. |
Anonymous
| Dealbreaker |
Anonymous
That would be some delicious karma for the klepto lawyer. |
Anonymous
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"A guy I know steals groceries and he's the one I want."
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Anonymous
| Since he apparently does this all the time, why are you still with him? He is a thief with no moral compass. I remember many years ago buying 20 packs of baseball cards and when I got home I found I had 24 so I went back to the store to return them and the store owner praised me for my honesty and gave me the four packs as his thank you. I’ve never forgotten the benefits of being honest. |
Anonymous
I would too. I could not trust him in other aspects of life. |