How attractive do you think men would rate you on a scale of 1-10?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ugh.
In my 20’s, NYC 8.5 (with a little effort)
Now, like…4. A DC 4.
6.5, 7 with time, time and more effort.

So tired, don’t sleep enough
Survive on caffeine, dehydrated and dry skin
Former wash-n-wear hair just looks terrible most of the time
Hyperpigmentation
Children > self-care
Clothes are all old and out of date. Size fluctuates, don’t understand my new body type or how to dress it.
And I’m not even 45+ yet, which seems to be when things really hit the fan for people.

In terms of self-selection, won’t a lot of the people on here recognize that they could use some help? A genetically-gifted 10 who has always been a 10 has no use for this forum!

An 8.5 doesn't become a 4 unless something really drastic happens (obesity, serious disease, horrible accident). 8.5 means spectacular bone structure. An 8.5 with your issues can still get away with a lot due to that structure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Latinos would rate me 9, all other men 6.

+1

Me.

Dh loves me and that’s all that matters
I get some deductions for no make up, bad hair, muffin top, old lady clothes, sweatpants and bad skin. Also I’m looking even more poor than usual due to a recent scar. Solid 3 or 4.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are over 45 and haven't gotten fat, you're at least a 5+ no matter what you were when you were younger.

So let's go with this rubric:

In shape? You start at 5.

Is hair styled and current (no mom cut and no gray)? +1
Do you attempt to wear clothes that fit and are reasonably current? +1
Do you wear some kind of makeup to accentuate better features? +0.5

So you're at an 7.5 if you're doing all of the above.

8-10 is reserved for genetic good looks.

No, this is too generous, especially if you have some obvious issues (like a massive nose).

If we’re deducting for noses, recalculate mine and drop me to a 2-3

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does an LA 5 = Miami 5?

I disagree with this forum on LA and Miami women looking better than Dc or nyc. I think we look human and they look like cyborgs or whatever you call a half human/half plastic creature

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was a duck who turned into a swan thanks to my husband. I’m 5’7”, 120 lbs, fit, bikini body but I had no sense of style. I was a tom boy growing up so fashion wasn’t something I ever had an interest in. Thankfully, my husband who’s and 8 or a 9 didn’t let that stop him. At 35, after two babies, he said I was beautiful but I’d be awesome if I worked on it so I hired a stylist for a makeover. She almost set fire to my closet and she dumped most of make up etc. Long story made short she really transformed me in a way that I really liked. I like to be comfortable and casual and I’m still that way but everything works and I love it. I’m pretty sure when people saw that years Christmas card they thought that my husband had a new wife.

Where’d you find a stylist? Please post details

[Anonymous]

I’m over 50 so probably a 2.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does an LA 5 = Miami 5?

I disagree with this forum on LA and Miami women looking better than Dc or nyc. I think we look human and they look like cyborgs or whatever you call a half human/half plastic creature

DC is full of unattractive people in unattractive clothing.

[Anonymous]

I know guys who would rate me as an 8 and others who would rate me as a 2

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is a funny question because I think men would rate me anywhere from 6-8.5 with my clothes on (I am a very specific type) again just compared to other women my age.

I think other women would put me at 5-7 max. I am definitely one of those women who is more attractive to men than other women.

I have terrible stretch marks and a wonky c-section scar so with no clothes on probably a 3.

I don’t know, I think a lot of men don’t care that much. My children were both walking and talking before my husband noticed my stretch marks. He said “hey, what’s going on there?” As if they had not been there for many years!

After my second c-section I ended up with a little fold of skin that won’t go back. I hate it. My husband is generally just happy to see me naked and definitely doesn’t complain but since I am not willing to have it fixed surgically I am resigned to having a kind of ugly stomach

I know this isn't the thread, but I had that and it's actually very easy to fix. A plastic surgeon did it for me, scar revision, $2000, took 1 hour and I was awake the whole time. The "ledge" is gone. Just a PSA. He said "I can't believe you lived with something so easily fixable. It was causing internal problems, so I was more motivated.

For the thread, I was probably a 6/7 with a good body, but then at age 18, i got a nose job and became a 10 literally overnight. Very very strange experience. Now that I'm in my 40s, probably back down to an 8? Still a size 2, get lots of warmth and attention from men, husband seems happy.

Wait really? I have a few extra pounds too but if I could just get the skin removed so it didn’t fold over I would feel so much better. My general doctor told me that I would need a tummy tuck and that is a huge recovery.

Can you please share the name of the doctor you saw? Thank you!!!

[Anonymous]

In a bikini an 8 or 9. In my everyday mom clothes a 6 or a 7. My style sense is lacking as comfort is all I care about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Latinos would rate me 9, all other men 6.

+1

Me.

Dh loves me and that’s all that matters
I get some deductions for no make up, bad hair, muffin top, old lady clothes, sweatpants and bad skin. Also I’m looking even more poor than usual due to a recent scar. Solid 3 or 4.

I am Latina and in my case it will be black and Latinos. They will rate me a 9; however, white men didn’t even look at me in my 20s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m over 50 so probably a 2.

+1

And I don't care.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m over 50 so probably a 2.

+1

And I don't care.

Same, over 50 and maybe 2. It's awesome to have no male attention except for my dh.

[Anonymous]

42. Didn't put my age up on date apps just pictures. Men 25 and up said they didn't care how old I was and didn't care to know because I looked so good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Latinos would rate me 9, all other men 6.

+1

Me.

Dh loves me and that’s all that matters
I get some deductions for no make up, bad hair, muffin top, old lady clothes, sweatpants and bad skin. Also I’m looking even more poor than usual due to a recent scar. Solid 3 or 4.

I am Latina and in my case it will be black and Latinos. They will rate me a 9; however, white men didn’t even look at me in my 20s.

Blacks and Latinos love all women shapes sizes etc. I do get white guys staring and flirting in my 30s and 40s when I am more in shape.