How attractive do you think men would rate you on a scale of 1-10?

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Anonymous wrote:If you are over 45 and haven't gotten fat, you're at least a 5+ no matter what you were when you were younger.

So let's go with this rubric:

In shape? You start at 5.

Is hair styled and current (no mom cut and no gray)? +1
Do you attempt to wear clothes that fit and are reasonably current? +1
Do you wear some kind of makeup to accentuate better features? +0.5

So you're at an 7.5 if you're doing all of the above.

8-10 is reserved for genetic good looks.

No, this is too generous, especially if you have some obvious issues (like a massive nose).

I kind of think no in an older woman. I would agree with you with a 25 year old. But I think a well kept, thin older woman is going to beat out most of her peers because let's get real most women are not keeping it together all that well.

Also to the big boobs...big boobs past about 45 don't end well unless they are fake.

LOL Newsflash, I’ve needed a heavy duty bra since my teen years, it’s not like my big boobs started well either. 😂 It’s not like men are going to see my breasts without a bra except for my husband! And you know what, men don’t care. They are thrilled just to be around me. Not ALL men, certainly, but a very particular and giddy subset.

Do you enjoy it bc it sounds gross. I have an ‘exotic’ look that a subset of men like and the attention is kind of annoying.

[Anonymous]

A 2. I have good hygiene, but I’m 70 lbs over my ideal weight, don’t regularly style my hair, and dress poorly. I’m otherwise financially successful, have a great husband and kids, and a job I love. I just don’t have the motivation to care about appearance anymore.

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Anonymous wrote:This is a funny question because I think men would rate me anywhere from 6-8.5 with my clothes on (I am a very specific type) again just compared to other women my age.

I think other women would put me at 5-7 max. I am definitely one of those women who is more attractive to men than other women.

I have terrible stretch marks and a wonky c-section scar so with no clothes on probably a 3.

I don’t know, I think a lot of men don’t care that much. My children were both walking and talking before my husband noticed my stretch marks. He said “hey, what’s going on there?” As if they had not been there for many years!

After my second c-section I ended up with a little fold of skin that won’t go back. I hate it. My husband is generally just happy to see me naked and definitely doesn’t complain but since I am not willing to have it fixed surgically I am resigned to having a kind of ugly stomach

I had three C’s and the first baby was over 10lbs so you can guess what my stomach looks like. I considered a tummy tuck but my husband said it was up to me but it was major surgery and he didn’t care about my stomach. So I didnt.

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I’m a DC 8.5

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Compared to my peers I’m an 8. But 30 year old guys call me mom or ma’am.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:At my current weight? 2.

At my original weight? A cute 5-6.

Yeah, this is me, too. I do everything listed to earn more points, but I need to lose weight.

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I’m an 8. Pretty smile and full eyelashes. 5’7 with curves, equal leg/torso ratio and no tattoos. 45 and get baby Botox because I smile a lot.

[Anonymous]

An 8. I’m still pretty darn cute, in shape and got the gift of gab. I can make any man feel at ease. They all think I’m flirting with them but I’m just being nice. I’m also friendly so that makes them think that also.

[Anonymous]

I think women would rate me a 9 and men maybe a 7. I’m 46 and tall with an hourglass shape. I’m too tall for a lot of men and I think I come across as too liberal/feminist/outspoken for some men who prefer a petite midwestern girl next door vibe.

[Anonymous]

Since 0 is not an option, 1 I guess. I’m 53, and as far as I can tell, invisible to men.

[Anonymous]

I have no idea.

[Anonymous]

I'm a 10. Been told too many times to count.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a 10. Been told too many times to count.

I like your confidence. How old are you? Has this happened all your life?

[Anonymous]

Definitely an 8.5 or 9. I get stopped so many times that my husband just laughs and says - I know.

[Anonymous]

8. 9 when I lose weight. I have a very beautiful face (plus am charming and fun).