Why is the OW less attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, get real! After 15 years of marriage many of you park your husbands in the friend zone or worse as your priorities are your kids, book clubs, social media, what’s new at lululemon and pumpkin spice latte at Starbucks. Eventually, your husband will look for companionship and sex elsewhere even if she isn’t as attractive as you believe you are.

Lol sure tell yourself that

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They have their cake and eat it too. Statistics show the vast majority of cheating men do say they’d marriages are happy to very happy. Midlife they get some uggo action to feel young again and treat their untreated depression. A married man will literally say anything to the ow to get free sex and have her keep her mouth shut.

+1

She can be uggo, but he would never say "wow this is the worst sex with the ugliest betch ever!" because having anything (anything) on the side boosts his midlife crisis ego.

I know. Any ow no matter how awful or ugly or loserish is told the exact same thing: you are the best. I never had sex like that …blah, blah, blah only a f@“king idiot doesn’t see it for what it is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They have their cake and eat it too. Statistics show the vast majority of cheating men do say they’d marriages are happy to very happy. Midlife they get some uggo action to feel young again and treat their untreated depression. A married man will literally say anything to the ow to get free sex and have her keep her mouth shut.

+1

She can be uggo, but he would never say "wow this is the worst sex with the ugliest betch ever!" because having anything (anything) on the side boosts his midlife crisis ego.

I know. Any ow no matter how awful or ugly or loserish is told the exact same thing: you are the best. I never had sex like that …blah, blah, blah only a f@“king idiot doesn’t see it for what it is.

It’s why they aren’t running off into the sunset together. Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They have their cake and eat it too. Statistics show the vast majority of cheating men do say they’d marriages are happy to very happy. Midlife they get some uggo action to feel young again and treat their untreated depression. A married man will literally say anything to the ow to get free sex and have her keep her mouth shut.

+1

She can be uggo, but he would never say "wow this is the worst sex with the ugliest betch ever!" because having anything (anything) on the side boosts his midlife crisis ego.

I know. Any ow no matter how awful or ugly or loserish is told the exact same thing: you are the best. I never had sex like that …blah, blah, blah only a f@“king idiot doesn’t see it for what it is.

It’s why they aren’t running off into the sunset together. Lol

Many of those men feel marriage is a trap. They aren’t staying with their wives because she’s more beautiful or more educated than the OW. They are unwilling to go through a divorce because they think the courts will be unfair to them. If they do the divorce, they don’t decline to marry the OW because they think she’s fatter or uglier or stupider than the XW. They don’t want to marry anyone again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, get real! After 15 years of marriage many of you park your husbands in the friend zone or worse as your priorities are your kids, book clubs, social media, what’s new at lululemon and pumpkin spice latte at Starbucks. Eventually, your husband will look for companionship and sex elsewhere even if she isn’t as attractive as you believe you are.

I think you hit on something - many women in the DMV think they are (far) prettier than they actually are.

This is a huge issue. And I say this as a woman.

People in this area think they are rich (really just UMC), powerful (just a functionary), and attractive (just well-groomed).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, get real! After 15 years of marriage many of you park your husbands in the friend zone or worse as your priorities are your kids, book clubs, social media, what’s new at lululemon and pumpkin spice latte at Starbucks. Eventually, your husband will look for companionship and sex elsewhere even if she isn’t as attractive as you believe you are.

After 15 years of marriage husbands are not the fantastic prize you imagine. They are just as annoying and and whiny as their wives. Their wives are washing their dirty underwear and listening to them fart and belch, making their meals and putting up with their dirty dishes, etc. Those husbands don’t want companionship, they want an uncomplicated sex partner they don’t have to do a single thing for besides show up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, get real! After 15 years of marriage many of you park your husbands in the friend zone or worse as your priorities are your kids, book clubs, social media, what’s new at lululemon and pumpkin spice latte at Starbucks. Eventually, your husband will look for companionship and sex elsewhere even if she isn’t as attractive as you believe you are.

I think you hit on something - many women in the DMV think they are (far) prettier than they actually are.

This is a huge issue. And I say this as a woman.

People in this area think they are rich (really just UMC), powerful (just a functionary), and attractive (just well-groomed).

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, get real! After 15 years of marriage many of you park your husbands in the friend zone or worse as your priorities are your kids, book clubs, social media, what’s new at lululemon and pumpkin spice latte at Starbucks. Eventually, your husband will look for companionship and sex elsewhere even if she isn’t as attractive as you believe you are.

After 15 years of marriage husbands are not the fantastic prize you imagine. They are just as annoying and and whiny as their wives. Their wives are washing their dirty underwear and listening to them fart and belch, making their meals and putting up with their dirty dishes, etc. Those husbands don’t want companionship, they want an uncomplicated sex partner they don’t have to do a single thing for besides show up.

Yep. And the woman—with a career of her own AND doing most of the child rearing herself is effing exhausted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They have their cake and eat it too. Statistics show the vast majority of cheating men do say they’d marriages are happy to very happy. Midlife they get some uggo action to feel young again and treat their untreated depression. A married man will literally say anything to the ow to get free sex and have her keep her mouth shut.

+1

She can be uggo, but he would never say "wow this is the worst sex with the ugliest betch ever!" because having anything (anything) on the side boosts his midlife crisis ego.

I know. Any ow no matter how awful or ugly or loserish is told the exact same thing: you are the best. I never had sex like that …blah, blah, blah only a f@“king idiot doesn’t see it for what it is.

It’s why they aren’t running off into the sunset together. Lol

Many of those men feel marriage is a trap. They aren’t staying with their wives because she’s more beautiful or more educated than the OW. They are unwilling to go through a divorce because they think the courts will be unfair to them. If they do the divorce, they don’t decline to marry the OW because they think she’s fatter or uglier or stupider than the XW. They don’t want to marry anyone again.

Oh yeah- the “I’d love to marry you, babe, but I can’t leave my kids. It will cost me too much $$…blah blah blah…but you are the best thing that ever happened to me” lol. See you are still buying the BS.

Those that actually leave may feel more but the vast majority are using you to feed they’d broken midlife middle aged egos.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They have their cake and eat it too. Statistics show the vast majority of cheating men do say they’d marriages are happy to very happy. Midlife they get some uggo action to feel young again and treat their untreated depression. A married man will literally say anything to the ow to get free sex and have her keep her mouth shut.

+1

She can be uggo, but he would never say "wow this is the worst sex with the ugliest betch ever!" because having anything (anything) on the side boosts his midlife crisis ego.

I know. Any ow no matter how awful or ugly or loserish is told the exact same thing: you are the best. I never had sex like that …blah, blah, blah only a f@“king idiot doesn’t see it for what it is.

It’s why they aren’t running off into the sunset together. Lol

Many of those men feel marriage is a trap. They aren’t staying with their wives because she’s more beautiful or more educated than the OW. They are unwilling to go through a divorce because they think the courts will be unfair to them. If they do the divorce, they don’t decline to marry the OW because they think she’s fatter or uglier or stupider than the XW. They don’t want to marry anyone again.

Oh yeah- the “I’d love to marry you, babe, but I can’t leave my kids. It will cost me too much $$…blah blah blah…but you are the best thing that ever happened to me” lol. See you are still buying the BS.

Those that actually leave may feel more but the vast majority are using you to feed they’d broken midlife middle aged egos.

And anyone that participates in something like that -knowing he has a wife and kids -is not only an idiot but also a complete slime-ball who severely lacks empathy. Jerry Springer material.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They have their cake and eat it too. Statistics show the vast majority of cheating men do say they’d marriages are happy to very happy. Midlife they get some uggo action to feel young again and treat their untreated depression. A married man will literally say anything to the ow to get free sex and have her keep her mouth shut.

+1

She can be uggo, but he would never say "wow this is the worst sex with the ugliest betch ever!" because having anything (anything) on the side boosts his midlife crisis ego.

I know. Any ow no matter how awful or ugly or loserish is told the exact same thing: you are the best. I never had sex like that …blah, blah, blah only a f@“king idiot doesn’t see it for what it is.

It’s why they aren’t running off into the sunset together. Lol

Many of those men feel marriage is a trap. They aren’t staying with their wives because she’s more beautiful or more educated than the OW. They are unwilling to go through a divorce because they think the courts will be unfair to them. If they do the divorce, they don’t decline to marry the OW because they think she’s fatter or uglier or stupider than the XW. They don’t want to marry anyone again.

Oh yeah- the “I’d love to marry you, babe, but I can’t leave my kids. It will cost me too much $$…blah blah blah…but you are the best thing that ever happened to me” lol. See you are still buying the BS.

Those that actually leave may feel more but the vast majority are using you to feed they’d broken midlife middle aged egos.

If only we had met when we were younger 😂🤣

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, get real! After 15 years of marriage many of you park your husbands in the friend zone or worse as your priorities are your kids, book clubs, social media, what’s new at lululemon and pumpkin spice latte at Starbucks. Eventually, your husband will look for companionship and sex elsewhere even if she isn’t as attractive as you believe you are.

I see this a lot. It’s very easy to drift into that life. My parents have a wonderful relationship and when I asked my mom about it last year she said “I make sure your father knows I still love him” and then she smiled and left it at that.

[Anonymous]

Often times they just want variety or something new

[Anonymous]

Because sex isn’t 100% about how attractive a woman’s face is and it certainly isn’t about her accomplishments or pedigree.

I’m an OW and less attractive than the DW. I am 20 or so years younger. I’d say we have similar pedigrees and accomplishments.

My own DH has had OW who are objectively more attractive than me. All were less accomplished and no pedigree whatsoever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, get real! After 15 years of marriage many of you park your husbands in the friend zone or worse as your priorities are your kids, book clubs, social media, what’s new at lululemon and pumpkin spice latte at Starbucks. Eventually, your husband will look for companionship and sex elsewhere even if she isn’t as attractive as you believe you are.

After 15 years of marriage husbands are not the fantastic prize you imagine. They are just as annoying and and whiny as their wives. Their wives are washing their dirty underwear and listening to them fart and belch, making their meals and putting up with their dirty dishes, etc. Those husbands don’t want companionship, they want an uncomplicated sex partner they don’t have to do a single thing for besides show up.

So then what do you care if someone else takes the task of sex off your plate?