Why is the OW less attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It has been my experience from seeing friends and family members, that the “other woman” is less attractive than the man’s wife.

For example, my friend is tall, beautiful, accomplished, and her husband’s mistress is short, fat, and not as well educated. I saw it with my aunt and with my sister-in-law.

What gives? Why would a man go for something worse?

All this shows is that way more husbands would stray if more desirable women were willing to be their APs. So now the only straying husbands you know are the ones that are willing to accept short, fat, and poorly educated. How many more would stray if they could bag tall, beautiful, and accomplished? Probably most of them. Thank goodness the better class of womenfolk aren’t willing to be homewreckers.

This is why, for all the complaining about female lack of desire, society needs women not to “think with their little heads.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It has been my experience from seeing friends and family members, that the “other woman” is less attractive than the man’s wife.

For example, my friend is tall, beautiful, accomplished, and her husband’s mistress is short, fat, and not as well educated. I saw it with my aunt and with my sister-in-law.

What gives? Why would a man go for something worse?

She puts out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Stop spamming the same stupid topic.

+1

[Anonymous]

Maybe the other woman is nice, pleasant and isn’t always complaining. Some women simply wear a man down.

[Anonymous]

The main reason is because attractive women wouldn’t settle for being a mistress, they are wives. When a woman is unattractive she tends to have low self esteem and is more likely to deal with the scraps she is fed. Husbands enjoy their Mmmm because they do not demand much, unlike wives who are under the pressure of running a household and raising children. The mistress is used for fun a stress release and break from the real demands of family life. If a man could have a pretty mistress he would. But there are not many on the market because they don’t need to be.

[Anonymous]

Not the case for Bill Clinton or Bill Gates.

[Anonymous]

Dog lapping up the supposed advantage over the wife.

[Anonymous]

This isn’t what I have observed. Happily married men don’t cheat with ugly women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Stop spamming the same stupid topic.

+1

+2

Can't you just google an old thread that has ALL of the explanations??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It has been my experience from seeing friends and family members, that the “other woman” is less attractive than the man’s wife.

For example, my friend is tall, beautiful, accomplished, and her husband’s mistress is short, fat, and not as well educated. I saw it with my aunt and with my sister-in-law.

What gives? Why would a man go for something worse?

She puts out.

This was the case when my college boyfriend cheated on me. I wasn’t ready for s*x yet and she was more than ready. And apparently much more experienced at it than he was. He and I got back together years later and admitted that I was much cuter and nicer than she was, but he couldn’t resist her “availability.”

[Anonymous]

They’re not; this is a myth that betrayed wives cling to in order to comfort themselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Because the ugly woman will go to great lengths to make him feel validated.

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This and then when the wife dumps his @ss he makes it seem like it was his choice to be with the ow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Like a PP said, it's about availability and willingness. Gorgeous women are generally not available and willing to get the OW $h*tty-end-of-the-stick from a man. Unattractive women are willing to put up with a lot more BS because they are afraid they can't do better.

This. They are punching way above their weight. They can only do that with married men who are just looking for outside sex and not permanent relationships.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They’re not; this is a myth that betrayed wives cling to in order to comfort themselves.

+1 Very sad. The bitterness of these woman is such a turnoff. That's example A of why someone may want to cheat on them with another woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not the case for Bill Clinton or Bill Gates.

Or Brad Pitt