I knew a guy I could totally see doing this and he probably would ask if he could hug but as a young 20s I could see myself saying yes even though I don’t like it. That’s why this should just be a big NO in the office. When women are younger they want to go with the flow especially when it comes to someone above you. Today I would say I’m not a hugger or no I don’t feel comfortable or maybe even no I am married but it doesn’t happen to me. It has never happened and I’m sure that has to do with my field. I have always been in fields where I work very little with men. My family is Muslim and that was a big thing growing up. My dad encouraged me to go into a field where I would work more with females.
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