Do you prefer a rich man or a hot one?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH is a solid 7. I am probably a 9 (nobody ever believes I have birthed 3 kids). I am also fun, passionate and have multiple graduate degrees. DH is fun, passionate, smart and adventurous and I fell in love… that is why I married him. He makes around 250k. I make half… I am really happy I married him, but I would trade a few points in the look department for more money to be honest. He is up for a big promotion which could bring his income to 330… I still wish he made 500k+

Why do women always inflate their value? With three kids, you're not a 9, not in the dating market place.

[Anonymous]

I’m rich (and average-looking). I’ve dated lots of guys, on the spectrum of hot to average and rich to barely supporting themselves. The very hot guys got lots of attention from other women and were pretty high-maintenance in a relationship. The very rich guys thought they deserved (eye roll) a woman hotter than me.
I married a guy who was in the middle on both measures and also emotionally mature and funny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:C’mon on now. We have eyes and have seen what kind of men live around here. Bezos and Zuckerberg are better looking than 90% of your husbands.

My DH could look like a toad now, and I would find him attractive. There is too much history between us.

But I work in a group with about 30 men under 60. Everyone of them looks better than Zuckerberg and Bezos. And they are all average and below.

Add Musk to the “rich but uggo” list.

And Musk certainly isn’t known for dating the hottest girl he can find. Contrary to the DCUM narrative he actually sought out a successful lawyer to have a kid with.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A hot guy in my age group who gets me wet is so much more rare than boring rich guys who are a dime a dozen.

Only 1% of men( by definition) are in the top 1%.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hot guy. I'm working on one; he is addictive. I made my money and I'm making enough so he can have some too.
There are more rich men than there are guys who I find hot. Very rare indeed. Rarer than the color of my eyes.

What color is your eyes? Violet?

Two different colors.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A hot guy in my age group who gets me wet is so much more rare than boring rich guys who are a dime a dozen.

Only 1% of men( by definition) are in the top 1%.

Not in DC

[Anonymous]

I decided that I needed a handsome guy who wouldn't be boring. I made enough money on my own, and was raised poor, so it never occurred to me to seek a guy for his money.

I married a hot guy whose looks faded, and who ended up becoming boring, even though he was adventurous in his younger years. And, he is also poor and lacks ambition.

If I'd known what I know now, I'd go for the money. It makes every day interactions so much easier, and I could buy my own adventurous lifestyle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A hot guy in my age group who gets me wet is so much more rare than boring rich guys who are a dime a dozen.

Only 1% of men( by definition) are in the top 1%.

Not in DC

Only 1% of men in DC are in the top 1% in DC...I get it in an expensive area like DC 10% may meet the national definition of top 1%.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A hot guy in my age group who gets me wet is so much more rare than boring rich guys who are a dime a dozen.

Only 1% of men( by definition) are in the top 1%.

Not in DC

Only 1% of men in DC are in the top 1% in DC...I get it in an expensive area like DC 10% may meet the national definition of top 1%.

*area

[Anonymous]

None of the above. I prefer a funny man

[Anonymous]

IDK, the older I get myself the more attracted I become to people my age and older, who would never have been attractive to me a decade or two ago. Nature is kind that way.

[Anonymous]

Ladies, if you have a choice of marriage between an average looking man that is uber wealthy or a really hot guy that is middle class, who would you pick?

The one with the bigger D

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:C’mon on now. We have eyes and have seen what kind of men live around here. Bezos and Zuckerberg are better looking than 90% of your husbands.

My DH could look like a toad now, and I would find him attractive. There is too much history between us.

But I work in a group with about 30 men under 60. Everyone of them looks better than Zuckerberg and Bezos. And they are all average and below.

Add Musk to the “rich but uggo” list.

And Musk certainly isn’t known for dating the hottest girl he can find. Contrary to the DCUM narrative he actually sought out a successful lawyer to have a kid with.

Grimes is a successful lawyer???

[Anonymous]

As a man who is good looking and was middle class. My choice was rich and blah or hot and poor.

I dated this really nice Italian girl (great in the sack) but she was only five foot three inch and to be honest dad was short with a belly. Both average looking.

Dad was desperate my gene pool. You see rich good looking will want rich good looking.

But given their so so gene pool her marrying rich means so so grandkids.

Dad had at least 50 million. My six foot two inch, 190 pounds good looking movie star looks guy actually was heavy selling me.

He buy us house. Pay for 100k wedding, put me in will like a son, no pre nup daughter.

I did not marry her. I looked her up she married a so so Italian guy and kids look like Jersey shore rejects.

My kids have movie star looks as I married for gene pool not money

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, if you have a choice of marriage between an average looking man that is uber wealthy or a really hot guy that is middle class, who would you pick?

I'm against marrying really hot and really wealthy people, they get more opportunities to stray and have higher tendency to be narcissistic.

I say don't base your choice of a partner's net worth or looks, go for their worth in terms of character, kindness, education, ambition, stable mental health and good credit/employment history.

Find someone you love and who loves you and build a good life together. If you are marrying to flaunt it on social media to impress others then obviously looks and luxury comes first.
Obviously no trend of abusive, alcoholic , addictive or criminal behavior.