Do you prefer a rich man or a hot one?

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Anonymous wrote:Hot. Once you’re enough years into your marriage and your okay-looking DH has gained weight, is balding, and goes from a 6 to a 3, you will be begging for someone you actually want to be intimate with.

Not true. As many number of men and women cheat on their great looking spouses as ones who cheat on their plain looking spouses.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a man who is good looking and was middle class. My choice was rich and blah or hot and poor.

I dated this really nice Italian girl (great in the sack) but she was only five foot three inch and to be honest dad was short with a belly. Both average looking.

Dad was desperate my gene pool. You see rich good looking will want rich good looking.

But given their so so gene pool her marrying rich means so so grandkids.

Dad had at least 50 million. My six foot two inch, 190 pounds good looking movie star looks guy actually was heavy selling me.

He buy us house. Pay for 100k wedding, put me in will like a son, no pre nup daughter.

I did not marry her. I looked her up she married a so so Italian guy and kids look like Jersey shore rejects.

My kids have movie star looks as I married for gene pool not money

Marrying for movie star gene pool is a strange choice. Not mentally stable way but interesting for sure.

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Anonymous wrote:I make a lot of money and already have kids. I’d prefer the hot guy. But would want to rich guy if I was poor

Me too. I date young and hung.

Haha. You are just like a friend of mine. She’s self sufficient, lives in a paid off home and makes good money. She really doesn’t want to be married and be responsible for taking care of someone. She’s been dating a guy long term who’s in his 20’s, is hot and by her account is HUGE.

They go out together, go on trips together, etc, but there’s little interest in the relationship getting more serious.

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Anonymous wrote:I make a lot of money and already have kids. I’d prefer the hot guy. But would want to rich guy if I was poor

Me too. I date young and hung.

Haha. You are just like a friend of mine. She’s self sufficient, lives in a paid off home and makes good money. She really doesn’t want to be married and be responsible for taking care of someone. She’s been dating a guy long term who’s in his 20’s, is hot and by her account is HUGE.

They go out together, go on trips together, etc, but there’s little interest in the relationship getting more serious.

Is she paying for his expenses and all the trips ?

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Anonymous wrote:I make a lot of money and already have kids. I’d prefer the hot guy. But would want to rich guy if I was poor

Me too. I date young and hung.

Haha. You are just like a friend of mine. She’s self sufficient, lives in a paid off home and makes good money. She really doesn’t want to be married and be responsible for taking care of someone. She’s been dating a guy long term who’s in his 20’s, is hot and by her account is HUGE.

They go out together, go on trips together, etc, but there’s little interest in the relationship getting more serious.

OP asked about marriage.

[Anonymous]

I am an average looking woman but I make a lot of money and I also have family money. I was lucky enough to snatch a husband while I was on my trip to Napa Valley. He is 6 feet 2, fit, and very handsome with a model face. He graduated from college with a degree in music and after we got married, he worked for my wealthy older brother. We have two beautiful kids, mostly from his gene pool. He is the best thing that happens to me. I go with hot over money every time because I already have money.

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Anonymous wrote:I make a lot of money and already have kids. I’d prefer the hot guy. But would want to rich guy if I was poor

Me too. I date young and hung.

Haha. You are just like a friend of mine. She’s self sufficient, lives in a paid off home and makes good money. She really doesn’t want to be married and be responsible for taking care of someone. She’s been dating a guy long term who’s in his 20’s, is hot and by her account is HUGE.

They go out together, go on trips together, etc, but there’s little interest in the relationship getting more serious.

Is she paying for his expenses and all the trips ?

I’ve never asked but I would guess not - she doesn’t want a kid. 😂

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Rich. Give me money any day. I chose looks that faded and ended up busting my butt to make all the money. My husband is poor and now ugly too. So, rich, rich, rich any day.

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[Anonymous]

Funny would be a third category to add. I feel like an optimistic and comedic personality goes a long way.

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Anonymous wrote:Hot. Once you’re enough years into your marriage and your okay-looking DH has gained weight, is balding, and goes from a 6 to a 3, you will be begging for someone you actually want to be intimate with.

Not true. As many number of men and women cheat on their great looking spouses as ones who cheat on their plain looking spouses.

I don't know. The grass is always greener...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, if you have a choice of marriage between an average looking man that is uber wealthy or a really hot guy that is middle class, who would you pick?

Average looking that is uber wealthy for me.

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Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...

He'll look like Jeff Bezos or Mark Zuckerberg?

dp.. I don't think the wife or ex's or gf's are complaining. They seem satisfied enough.

Financial issues adds stress to marriages.

I don't know PP. We are on 300k with no financial issues.

A middle class guy married to an accountant can easily pull 300k hhi.

You need to be turned on by the guy sleeping next to you. Some people need hot for that.

300K hhi is not middle class, though.

Would you marry a guy making $75K (median income) in the DC area? Eventually, money woes and stress will make you not want to have sex with him, no matter how hot he is.

You can find a man attractive enough to have sex with. He doesn't have to be "hot". There are very few "hot" men out there.

A middle class good looking man and physically fit will have no shortage of getting women of his choice.

and after 10 years, and 2 kids, the woman will be complaining about how he doesn't make enough, and how they are struggling financially.

This is the way

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As someone who makes 900K per year in software & technology service sales, I will take a good looking husband who makes 100K over an average looking husband who makes 1M. He can use my money to look good and stay in shape, as long as he is loyal to me. It is like asking a guy who makes 1M+ to choose between an average woman who makes 1M or a model that looks like Gisele Bundchen but she only makes 50K. The answer is quite obvious, don't you think?

I wouldn't want to marry someone who is more attractive than I am, though. I guess I own my insecurities. I would have no problem marrying someone richer. So, he could be hot, but he couldn't be super model hot. I would also be insecure about feeling like a sugar mamma, so he could make less than me, but not by a large factor. All for not as I'm married to a good match.

It’s all for naught not all for not.

[Anonymous]

Keep reading those Harlequin novels

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I make a lot of money and already have kids. I’d prefer the hot guy. But would want to rich guy if I was poor

Me too. I date young and hung.

Haha. You are just like a friend of mine. She’s self sufficient, lives in a paid off home and makes good money. She really doesn’t want to be married and be responsible for taking care of someone. She’s been dating a guy long term who’s in his 20’s, is hot and by her account is HUGE.

They go out together, go on trips together, etc, but there’s little interest in the relationship getting more serious.

Do you think she’s saying this just to make you jealous? Are you ever jealous of her?

[Anonymous]

Marry the rich guy and have sex with the hot one.