Do you prefer a rich man or a hot one?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All else, such as character, being equal? Rich average guy for sure.

I have never dated a hot guy. I don't think I have missed out on anything.

An average guy with solid character will keep me wet for centuries.

+1 It's expensive to live a comfortable life. A hot guy isn't going to be able to buy you a comfortable lifestyle where you never have to worry about paying the bills or taking vacation.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...

How is that working out for Bezos? 😆

? He seems happy to me what are you trying to say?

[Anonymous]

Rich is hot!

[Anonymous]

Hot. Once you’re enough years into your marriage and your okay-looking DH has gained weight, is balding, and goes from a 6 to a 3, you will be begging for someone you actually want to be intimate with.

[Anonymous]

I married a hot man who was poor and with age, he turned into a not-hot man who is wealthy.

Good enough for me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...

How is that working out for Bezos? 😆

? He seems happy to me what are you trying to say?

I am making a point that money will not buy hotness or anything close to it.

I am trying to say you should marry a guy you are attracted to just as he is. Don't assume that a personal trainer or some expensive work will make him look better.

Jeff Bezos still looks like Jeff Bezos with all the money on the world. He is no where near hot. Neither am I or my DH, so I am not looking down on people who don't look amazing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
I married a hot man who was poor and with age, he turned into a not-hot man who is wealthy.

Good enough for me.

this would be the best scenario.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...

How is that working out for Bezos? 😆

? He seems happy to me what are you trying to say?

I am making a point that money will not buy hotness or anything close to it.

I am trying to say you should marry a guy you are attracted to just as he is. Don't assume that a personal trainer or some expensive work will make him look better.

Jeff Bezos still looks like Jeff Bezos with all the money on the world. He is no where near hot. Neither am I or my DH, so I am not looking down on people who don't look amazing.

you don't have to be "hot" to find someone who is attracted to you. OP said "average looking and wealthy", not butt ugly and wealthy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...

He'll look like Jeff Bezos or Mark Zuckerberg?

dp.. I don't think the wife or ex's or gf's are complaining. They seem satisfied enough.

Financial issues adds stress to marriages.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...

He'll look like Jeff Bezos or Mark Zuckerberg?

dp.. I don't think the wife or ex's or gf's are complaining. They seem satisfied enough.

Financial issues adds stress to marriages.

I don't know PP. We are on 300k with no financial issues.

A middle class guy married to an accountant can easily pull 300k hhi.

You need to be turned on by the guy sleeping next to you. Some people need hot for that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hot. Once you’re enough years into your marriage and your okay-looking DH has gained weight, is balding, and goes from a 6 to a 3, you will be begging for someone you actually want to be intimate with.

You almost certainly have also gone from a 6 to a 3 with age. Why do you deserve a man above your pay grade?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...

How is that working out for Bezos? 😆

? He seems happy to me what are you trying to say?

I am making a point that money will not buy hotness or anything close to it.

I am trying to say you should marry a guy you are attracted to just as he is. Don't assume that a personal trainer or some expensive work will make him look better.

Jeff Bezos still looks like Jeff Bezos with all the money on the world. He is no where near hot. Neither am I or my DH, so I am not looking down on people who don't look amazing.

Guy here, but Bezos has definitely improved his looks since getting jacked and wearing proper fitting clothes. Have you seen old pictures of him? He was a total dweeb.

His plastic-surgery-created Frankenstein of a girlfriend was a definite downgrade, though, compared to his relatively cute and naturally attractive ex-wife.

[Anonymous]

Rich all the way. Looks fade.

[Anonymous]

Funny trumps all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, if you have a choice of marriage between an average looking man that is uber wealthy or a really hot guy that is middle class, who would you pick?

I choose the one who is kind, respectful and views me as an equal partner. Wealth and looks are meaningless to me