Do you prefer a rich man or a hot one?

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Anonymous wrote:Ladies, if you have a choice of marriage between an average looking man that is uber wealthy or a really hot guy that is middle class, who would you pick?


I choose the one who is kind, respectful and views me as an equal partner. Wealth and looks are meaningless to me


He needs you to sleep with him though.

There is always a physical component to sexual attraction, right?
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Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...


He'll look like Jeff Bezos or Mark Zuckerberg?

dp.. I don't think the wife or ex's or gf's are complaining. They seem satisfied enough.

Financial issues adds stress to marriages.


I don't know PP. We are on 300k with no financial issues.

A middle class guy married to an accountant can easily pull 300k hhi.

You need to be turned on by the guy sleeping next to you. Some people need hot for that.

300K hhi is not middle class, though.

Would you marry a guy making $75K (median income) in the DC area? Eventually, money woes and stress will make you not want to have sex with him, no matter how hot he is.

You can find a man attractive enough to have sex with. He doesn't have to be "hot". There are very few "hot" men out there.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ladies, if you have a choice of marriage between an average looking man that is uber wealthy or a really hot guy that is middle class, who would you pick?


I choose the one who is kind, respectful and views me as an equal partner. Wealth and looks are meaningless to me


He needs you to sleep with him though.

There is always a physical component to sexual attraction, right?

but he doesn't have to be hot. That was the choice OP put forth.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...


How is that working out for Bezos? 😆



? He seems happy to me what are you trying to say?


I am making a point that money will not buy hotness or anything close to it.

I am trying to say you should marry a guy you are attracted to just as he is. Don't assume that a personal trainer or some expensive work will make him look better.

Jeff Bezos still looks like Jeff Bezos with all the money on the world. He is no where near hot. Neither am I or my DH, so I am not looking down on people who don't look amazing.


Guy here, but Bezos has definitely improved his looks since getting jacked and wearing proper fitting clothes. Have you seen old pictures of him? He was a total dweeb.

His plastic-surgery-created Frankenstein of a girlfriend was a definite downgrade, though, compared to his relatively cute and naturally attractive ex-wife.


his wife was no attractive looked like giraffe
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...


He'll look like Jeff Bezos or Mark Zuckerberg?

dp.. I don't think the wife or ex's or gf's are complaining. They seem satisfied enough.

Financial issues adds stress to marriages.


I don't know PP. We are on 300k with no financial issues.

A middle class guy married to an accountant can easily pull 300k hhi.

You need to be turned on by the guy sleeping next to you. Some people need hot for that.

300K hhi is not middle class, though.

Would you marry a guy making $75K (median income) in the DC area? Eventually, money woes and stress will make you not want to have sex with him, no matter how hot he is.

You can find a man attractive enough to have sex with. He doesn't have to be "hot". There are very few "hot" men out there.


A middle class good looking man and physically fit will have no shortage of getting women of his choice.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...


He'll look like Jeff Bezos or Mark Zuckerberg?

dp.. I don't think the wife or ex's or gf's are complaining. They seem satisfied enough.

Financial issues adds stress to marriages.


I don't know PP. We are on 300k with no financial issues.

A middle class guy married to an accountant can easily pull 300k hhi.

You need to be turned on by the guy sleeping next to you. Some people need hot for that.

300K hhi is not middle class, though.

Would you marry a guy making $75K (median income) in the DC area? Eventually, money woes and stress will make you not want to have sex with him, no matter how hot he is.

You can find a man attractive enough to have sex with. He doesn't have to be "hot". There are very few "hot" men out there.


A middle class good looking man and physically fit will have no shortage of getting women of his choice.

and after 10 years, and 2 kids, the woman will be complaining about how he doesn't make enough, and how they are struggling financially.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ladies, if you have a choice of marriage between an average looking man that is uber wealthy or a really hot guy that is middle class, who would you pick?


I choose the one who is kind, respectful and views me as an equal partner. Wealth and looks are meaningless to me


He needs you to sleep with him though.

There is always a physical component to sexual attraction, right?

but he doesn't have to be hot. That was the choice OP put forth.


PP said wealth and looks ate meaningless. Average is OK. Ugly? I am not too sure.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Ladies, if you have a choice of marriage between an average looking man that is uber wealthy or a really hot guy that is middle class, who would you pick?


Neither. Someone smart, funny, generous and kind.
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Middle class in DC is $150k for a college educated male in his 40s. I make $300k myself in my 40s. If I had a choice of hot and making at least $150k vs not hot and making a million, I pick the hot guy. You live once I want a man who makes me feel a desire
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An average guy with solid character will keep me wet for centuries.


Until he stops doing at least 50% of household chores.


Divorce asap
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Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...


He'll look like Jeff Bezos or Mark Zuckerberg?

dp.. I don't think the wife or ex's or gf's are complaining. They seem satisfied enough.

Financial issues adds stress to marriages.


I don't know PP. We are on 300k with no financial issues.

A middle class guy married to an accountant can easily pull 300k hhi.

You need to be turned on by the guy sleeping next to you. Some people need hot for that.

300K hhi is not middle class, though.

Would you marry a guy making $75K (median income) in the DC area? Eventually, money woes and stress will make you not want to have sex with him, no matter how hot he is.

You can find a man attractive enough to have sex with. He doesn't have to be "hot". There are very few "hot" men out there.


A middle class good looking man and physically fit will have no shortage of getting women of his choice.

and after 10 years, and 2 kids, the woman will be complaining about how he doesn't make enough, and how they are struggling financially.


This is the way
Anonymous
hot, cannot fake it and I don’t even want to try
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...


He'll look like Jeff Bezos or Mark Zuckerberg?

dp.. I don't think the wife or ex's or gf's are complaining. They seem satisfied enough.

Financial issues adds stress to marriages.


I don't know PP. We are on 300k with no financial issues.

A middle class guy married to an accountant can easily pull 300k hhi.

You need to be turned on by the guy sleeping next to you. Some people need hot for that.

300K hhi is not middle class, though.

Would you marry a guy making $75K (median income) in the DC area? Eventually, money woes and stress will make you not want to have sex with him, no matter how hot he is.

You can find a man attractive enough to have sex with. He doesn't have to be "hot". There are very few "hot" men out there.


A middle class good looking man and physically fit will have no shortage of getting women of his choice.

and after 10 years, and 2 kids, the woman will be complaining about how he doesn't make enough, and how they are struggling financially.


This is the way
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As someone who makes 900K per year in software & technology service sales, I will take a good looking husband who makes 100K over an average looking husband who makes 1M. He can use my money to look good and stay in shape, as long as he is loyal to me. It is like asking a guy who makes 1M+ to choose between an average woman who makes 1M or a model that looks like Gisele Bundchen but she only makes 50K. The answer is quite obvious, don't you think?
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The rich guy can hire a chef and a personal trainer, maybe get some work done and before you know it...


He'll look like Jeff Bezos or Mark Zuckerberg?

dp.. I don't think the wife or ex's or gf's are complaining. They seem satisfied enough.

Financial issues adds stress to marriages.


I don't know PP. We are on 300k with no financial issues.

A middle class guy married to an accountant can easily pull 300k hhi.

You need to be turned on by the guy sleeping next to you. Some people need hot for that.

300K hhi is not middle class, though.

Would you marry a guy making $75K (median income) in the DC area? Eventually, money woes and stress will make you not want to have sex with him, no matter how hot he is.

You can find a man attractive enough to have sex with. He doesn't have to be "hot". There are very few "hot" men out there.


A middle class good looking man and physically fit will have no shortage of getting women of his choice.

and after 10 years, and 2 kids, the woman will be complaining about how he doesn't make enough, and how they are struggling financially.


This is the way
]


As someone who makes 900K per year in software & technology service sales, I will take a good looking husband who makes 100K over an average looking husband who makes 1M. He can use my money to look good and stay in shape, as long as he is loyal to me. It is like asking a guy who makes 1M+ to choose between an average woman who makes 1M or a model that looks like Gisele Bundchen but she only makes 50K. The answer is quite obvious, don't you think?

you say this because you make a lot. Most women (and men) don't make that much.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ladies, if you have a choice of marriage between an average looking man that is uber wealthy or a really hot guy that is middle class, who would you pick?


Neither. Someone smart, funny, generous and kind.


+1

I would add adventurous!
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