He needs you to sleep with him though. There is always a physical component to sexual attraction, right? |
300K hhi is not middle class, though. Would you marry a guy making $75K (median income) in the DC area? Eventually, money woes and stress will make you not want to have sex with him, no matter how hot he is. You can find a man attractive enough to have sex with. He doesn't have to be "hot". There are very few "hot" men out there. |
but he doesn't have to be hot. That was the choice OP put forth. |
his wife was no attractive looked like giraffe |
A middle class good looking man and physically fit will have no shortage of getting women of his choice. |
and after 10 years, and 2 kids, the woman will be complaining about how he doesn't make enough, and how they are struggling financially. |
PP said wealth and looks ate meaningless. Average is OK. Ugly? I am not too sure. |
Neither. Someone smart, funny, generous and kind. |
| Middle class in DC is $150k for a college educated male in his 40s. I make $300k myself in my 40s. If I had a choice of hot and making at least $150k vs not hot and making a million, I pick the hot guy. You live once I want a man who makes me feel a desire |
Divorce asap |
This is the way |
| hot, cannot fake it and I don’t even want to try |
] As someone who makes 900K per year in software & technology service sales, I will take a good looking husband who makes 100K over an average looking husband who makes 1M. He can use my money to look good and stay in shape, as long as he is loyal to me. It is like asking a guy who makes 1M+ to choose between an average woman who makes 1M or a model that looks like Gisele Bundchen but she only makes 50K. The answer is quite obvious, don't you think? |
you say this because you make a lot. Most women (and men) don't make that much. |
+1 I would add adventurous! |