S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers

[Anonymous]

Parenting views that are just misogyny repackaged.

Lack of water safety.

Lack of car seat use/safety.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Spanking.

+1. Spanking is not always abusive, but most DCUM people will automatically say all hitting is wrong.

[Anonymous]

Dads who don't do their share at social events, they sit back and relax while the moms are run ragged managing the kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Spanking.

+1. Spanking is not always abusive, but most DCUM people will automatically say all hitting is wrong.

It’s possible that all spanking isn’t abusive. But all parents who are abusing their child think they’re “spanking”.

[Anonymous]

The “Larlo-wears-a-dress-every-day-whyyyy-are-other-kids-misgendering-him” threads

The “siblings-may-not-attend-parties” threads

The “food-allergies-are-a-scam” threads

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Spanking.

+1. Spanking is not always abusive, but most DCUM people will automatically say all hitting is wrong.

I think spanking is always abusive. I believe you should parent your child as you wish them to behave in the world. Under what circumstances do you think it is appropriate for them to deal with a problem by hitting someone? Spanking advocates want to create this weird exception to the general rule that you should not hit other people where it's okay but only if you are an adult and the other person is a child 100% within your care and control. It's so weird. If you hit your kid, for any reason and under any circumstances, you are teaching them that hitting is an appropriate consequence for bad behavior.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dads who don't do their share at social events, they sit back and relax while the moms are run ragged managing the kids.

Those guys really grind my gears!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Spanking.

+1. Spanking is not always abusive, but most DCUM people will automatically say all hitting is wrong.

It’s possible that all spanking isn’t abusive. But all parents who are abusing their child think they’re “spanking”.

All spanking is abusive. This is just nonsense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Spanking.

+1. Spanking is not always abusive, but most DCUM people will automatically say all hitting is wrong.

I think spanking is always abusive. I believe you should parent your child as you wish them to behave in the world. Under what circumstances do you think it is appropriate for them to deal with a problem by hitting someone? Spanking advocates want to create this weird exception to the general rule that you should not hit other people where it's okay but only if you are an adult and the other person is a child 100% within your care and control. It's so weird. If you hit your kid, for any reason and under any circumstances, you are teaching them that hitting is an appropriate consequence for bad behavior.

I have a kid with special needs that includes not seeing hierarchy. It's problematic. You are pretending that hierarchy isn't real which is silly. And doesn't do your children any favors. They are not small adults, they are children.

[Anonymous]

People who don't monitor their child's online activities.

[Anonymous]

Raising kids in more dangerous neighborhoods in the city (raises hand).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dads who don't do their share at social events, they sit back and relax while the moms are run ragged managing the kids.

Those guys really grind my gears!

The women hiding in their cars scrolling dcum while the dads coach their snotty kids in soccer

[Anonymous]

"No gifts" on party invites

Party favors

[Anonymous]

I think some parts of the Baby Led Weaning community seem super intense and rigid, like you’re harming your baby for life by feeding him store-bought puréed carrots.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Spanking.

+1. Spanking is not always abusive, but most DCUM people will automatically say all hitting is wrong.

It’s possible that all spanking isn’t abusive. But all parents who are abusing their child think they’re “spanking”.

All spanking is abusive. This is just nonsense.

Nope.