There’s a whole long thread on DCUM filled with parents aghast — AGHAST! — that this is expected of their kids. Don’t teachers know that they’d rather use study hall to screw around with their friends and play on their phones?
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You are incorrect in nearly every sentence you typed. It’s actually quite impressive. |
Oh, sweetie. You’re delusional. |
No one gives a single, solitary damn what you “really don’t want to hear.” You are so very, very much less important than you think you are. |
I’m the PP. I called a dad to say his son was coming to school but spending all day in the hall, bathroom, auditorium study hall and as a result was failing ALL of his classes. The dad literally said “Well I’ll talk to him and see what his concerns are, we don’t see this behavior at home.” Really, your son doesn’t skip class at home? That’s stunning. Same kid is going to fail this entire year and repeat the grade now because no matter how many times we called, got the counselor to ask them to come in for a meeting, nothing changed . It’s incredible . |
I have had quite a few of them strange parent conferences in the last few years. Last year, I had a student in kindergarten who would elope multiple times per day, display odd behaviors like chewing/eating non-food items, etc. When we talked to her mom, she said her daughter didn't act like that at home. After more discussion, she shared that she only saw her daughter awake about an hour a day because she worked so much. She said she was gifted because he knew how to fix the iPad. She was on the iPad for the hour a day she spent with her. Mom said she would let her fall asleep with the iPad since she "loved it so much." No wonder it was WW3 when we tried to take the iPad away from her! |
| This has to do with writing feedback because??? |
| These are just rants on parents now that have nothing to do with writing. |
Where is this exactly? I don't see it. |
here's a great response from a teacher. Something about jobs and vacations in response to feedback and SOLs. Really following along. Look there is no requirement for teachers to write in margins or whatever. You aren't getting demerits for teaching by students, parents, or your principal. You can't have it both ways where mom and dad don't even care if their kid attends class but yet somehow have such high standards to think you are so deficient by not writing comments all the time in the margins. Teachers need to grade work and they need to assign work. A short summative response is all that is done in private school (even very expensive ones around here) and all that is necessary in public. It's just in private they have more assignments with this feedback. My kid has gone through K-12 with less than 10 feedback summary statements and "margin" writing all 13 years. Maybe two a year in the upper grades. Somehow all those teachers have stayed in their job. This is a non-issue for teachers. |
I’m not sure what this response means. That teachers don’t leave a lot of comments, and they don’t get fired for being lazy? Is that the gist? If so, it certainly doesn’t reflect my experience. Leaving feedback takes a significant amount of my time at home each week. I leave a ton, and I make students reflect and respond to my feedback. It’s meaningful work. It’s also one of the reasons I’m quitting. It’s too labor intensive to do this job correctly. |
This person gave a response about the summer when it had nothing to do with the topic. They couldn't stay on topic. That was the first part about the response. The second response yes, there is no one requiring them to do this work and 90% of teachers are not doing this so they can call martyr all they want and say this is the only way to do the job but 90% of teachers have figured out how to do this job without doing this and there is no feedback they are getting from admin students or parents to do it so it's all in their head that this is "necessary to do the job right". No other school even private will require this so I guess they are out of teaching for good because of their own standards, not the schools kids or parents. |
| There is also a jobs forum. Why not go there if you want to talk about your job only? Everyone else does it. |
LOL you mean like the rants we see every day on teachers. |
that's nice. you probably know teachers who a) have spouses with high salaries and/or b) have been teaching for over 20 years and finally have a somewhat decent salary. I worked a summer job every year in my first 15 years of teaching. I could not afford not to. |