Post-Roe, will there be more infants available to adopt?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:There are indeed posters here who are clearly anti-adoption.

Adoption is quite traumatic to the birth mother and child. The only real winners are the adoptive parents.

This is the tiresome adopted person anti-adoption troll. They have made hundreds and hundreds of posts just like this. Ignore them.

So you ignore any opinion that differs from yours. Understood.

No, just the tired, knee-jerk, rigid, boring biased ones being vomited all over every adoption thread for YEARS.

Get a hobby. Get therapy. If you have a therapist, get a different one, because it isn’t working.

I am a NP and and happy to tell you that you are not in any position to have any opinion about adoption. There is no real discussion about adoption for- it's not yours to discuss.
Adoption isn't just some reality that some people disagree with. It's not a binary issue. There's also not just one adoptee voicing up. Adoptees globally have opinions on their own lives. You don't.

[Anonymous]

Adoption doesn’t solve the issue of pregnancy
Adoption is for an infant
Abortion is to solve the issue of pregnancy

Women are not ready to exploit incubators for the more fortunate

Contraception has become more reliable and easily available, even men know about it

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are indeed posters here who are clearly anti-adoption.

Adoption is quite traumatic to the birth mother and child. The only real winners are the adoptive parents.

This is the tiresome adopted person anti-adoption troll. They have made hundreds and hundreds of posts just like this. Ignore them.

Sorry, no. I’m a child-free non-adoptee who has seen a lot of harm done by adoption. Many people don’t think adoption is the inherent good you want it to be.

I don’t “want it to be” anything. You are hilariously off-base.

Sure, sure you don’t. That’s why you’ve been stanning for adoption all over this thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That’s certainly ACB’s wet dream, isn’t it? She should be forced to hold every anencephalitic newborn as they seize to death, soothe every drug addicted newborn as they scream endlessly, and pay for every severely disabled child’s medical bills and care for the rest of their lives.

Aside from that? A forced “domestic supply” of infants- hooray!

+10000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That’s certainly ACB’s wet dream, isn’t it? She should be forced to hold every anencephalitic newborn as they seize to death, soothe every drug addicted newborn as they scream endlessly, and pay for every severely disabled child’s medical bills and care for the rest of their lives.

Aside from that? A forced “domestic supply” of infants- hooray!

I am a strong believer in adoption, but as the parent of an adopted severely disabled child the idea that you propose soothing or holding a child like mine as a punishment is horrifically ableist and offensive.

Seriously, the amount of ableist hate speech that is coming out post-Roe needs to be addressed. Leave the bigotry to the right.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:That’s certainly ACB’s wet dream, isn’t it? She should be forced to hold every anencephalitic newborn as they seize to death, soothe every drug addicted newborn as they scream endlessly, and pay for every severely disabled child’s medical bills and care for the rest of their lives.

Aside from that? A forced “domestic supply” of infants- hooray!

I am a strong believer in adoption, but as the parent of an adopted severely disabled child the idea that you propose soothing or holding a child like mine as a punishment is horrifically ableist and offensive.

Seriously, the amount of ableist hate speech that is coming out post-Roe needs to be addressed. Leave the bigotry to the right.

Abortion. I am a strong believer in legalized abortion.

Obviously as an adoptive parent I believe there is a place for adoption too, although my kid’s story isn’t the one people imagine. But that’s not what I meant to write.

[Anonymous]

No, when most women are forced to have a baby, they will probably keep the baby.

Unless they are mentality or physically unwell, or have been raped, or the baby has an expensive medical condition. Those are the babies that will be up for adoption.

[Anonymous]

No, when most women are forced to have a baby, they will probably keep the baby.

Unless they are mentality or physically unwell, or have been raped, or the baby has an expensive medical condition. Those are the babies that will be up for adoption.

And many of the women who are forced (by laws, by family, etc.) into keeping the baby will not turn out to be very good mothers. Some will. But many won't. They may not be neglectful to the point of abuse, but they may not be the mothers that they would have been if they had really felt like the decision to become a mother was an uncoerced choice and they were being able to have their child at a point in their lives when they were ready to embrace motherhood.

[Anonymous]

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No, when most women are forced to have a baby, they will probably keep the baby.

Unless they are mentality or physically unwell, or have been raped, or the baby has an expensive medical condition. Those are the babies that will be up for adoption.

And many of the women who are forced (by laws, by family, etc.) into keeping the baby will not turn out to be very good mothers. Some will. But many won't. They may not be neglectful to the point of abuse, but they may not be the mothers that they would have been if they had really felt like the decision to become a mother was an uncoerced choice and they were being able to have their child at a point in their lives when they were ready to embrace motherhood.

There are some adoptive mothers who are also not very good mothers
Adoptive parents also divorce
Adoption is not the answer to everything

[Anonymous]

i am a big believer in adopting from the less fortunate. these children deserve a life. Not a mere existence in squalor and and unloving household but a real LIFE with someone who can provide for them and love them. Abortions killed so many babies that could be in loving households and thank God it is now over in many places

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i am a big believer in adopting from the less fortunate. these children deserve a life. Not a mere existence in squalor and and unloving household but a real LIFE with someone who can provide for them and love them. Abortions killed so many babies that could be in loving households and thank God it is now over in many places

Please tell me this is a troll. You have a lot to learn. Adoption often benefits adoptive parents at the expense of adoptees & birth parents. Poor, less fortunate women are not free incubators for wealthy married couples. There are tons of kids in foster care every year, most of whom suffer from significant mental & physical health issues and are school-age & older.

You might also want to educate yourself on what happened in 1980s Romania.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i am a big believer in adopting from the less fortunate. these children deserve a life. Not a mere existence in squalor and and unloving household but a real LIFE with someone who can provide for them and love them. Abortions killed so many babies that could be in loving households and thank God it is now over in many places

You’re not entitled to a baby. I’m very sorry that you weren’t able to conceive.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:i am a big believer in adopting from the less fortunate. these children deserve a life. Not a mere existence in squalor and and unloving household but a real LIFE with someone who can provide for them and love them. Abortions killed so many babies that could be in loving households and thank God it is now over in many places

You’re not entitled to a baby. I’m very sorry that you weren’t able to conceive.

Ma'am I have conceived my own children but I just think that each unborn child deserves a right to live in a loving and providing household

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:i am a big believer in adopting from the less fortunate. these children deserve a life. Not a mere existence in squalor and and unloving household but a real LIFE with someone who can provide for them and love them. Abortions killed so many babies that could be in loving households and thank God it is now over in many places

You’re not entitled to a baby. I’m very sorry that you weren’t able to conceive.

Ma'am I have conceived my own children but I just think that each unborn child deserves a right to live in a loving and providing household

There are thousands of children waiting to be adopted right now. What are you waiting for?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i am a big believer in adopting from the less fortunate. these children deserve a life. Not a mere existence in squalor and and unloving household but a real LIFE with someone who can provide for them and love them. Abortions killed so many babies that could be in loving households and thank God it is now over in many places

More warm bodies with horrible quality of life is not the answer.