Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Or is it still a process with insanely long waitlists?
Hope you are able to have a family if you want one, but I wouldn’t expect adopting a baby to be possible.
Adopting a kid can take years, but my friends who used a surrogate and donor started the process in 2020 and baby was just born few weeks ago. There were some obstacles along the way and money wasn’t an issue for them. Much like couples who conceive on their own, loss can occur along the way. No matter what method you use,
it could take a couple years to have a baby or
adopt a child.
Again , it does not. Every single person I know who has adopted a healthy black or brown child in the US has done it in less than a year.
Some friends did IVF galore, then surrogate (miscarriage). Years of that stuff. They finally did adoption of a healthy newborn Hispanic girl in about 8 months. Bright as can be, the light of their life.