Post-Roe, will there be more infants available to adopt?

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Don't get me started on people who want to be parents but only to newborns who look like them.

What's wrong with that? I smell troll.


What's wrong with that? You're kidding, right?

There are thousands of children who need good parents -- and you're fine with parents who will only accept a healthy newborn that looks like them???

That kind of thinking is disgusting.


You are beyond rude. Do you harass people who have biological child? Because ya know there are thousands of children who need parents. And biological children tend to look like....their parents.


Rude is chomping at the bit and drooling over all the white babies OP hopes will.be available for her barren womb and not caring what forced birth will do to these women!


Women... or girls... Did it ever occur to OP that some of those freshly generated infants will have a father who is also their grandfather or uncle?
Anonymous
Not the kind YOU want.

How disgusting.
Anonymous
I think the result will be a lot more children be raised by clueless parents in sketchy circumstances.
Anonymous
More infants to adopt? LOL

Who is in the market to adopt infants with terrible genes and womb environment?

Most of these poor unwanted kids will be probably used for nefarious purposes. Either they will become criminals, or be in the sex trade or harvested for their organs.

In this day and age, educated people will use BC or morning after pill.

Rich people will go on "abortion travels" to countries that offer abortions cheaply and safely.
Anonymous
I wonder who will all these children grow up to be 20 years from now.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:More infants to adopt? LOL

Who is in the market to adopt infants with terrible genes and womb environment?

Most of these poor unwanted kids will be probably used for nefarious purposes. Either they will become criminals, or be in the sex trade or harvested for their organs.

In this day and age, educated people will use BC or morning after pill.

Rich people will go on "abortion travels" to countries that offer abortions cheaply and safely.


Anonymous
Rich people have always been able to procure abortion access.
There will be more middle class babies born but since the stigma regarding illegitimacy has largely gone away, those women will keep their children instead of placed for adoption. Unfortunately, that will result in a greater decline of the middle class and widening income inquality, plus greater instability for kids as their young unmarried parents either fail to marry or marry and divorce quickly. And the sickeningly dismissive ACB statement during Dobbs that "safe haven" laws were the best for everyone was staggering in how it ignored the impact on both the woman who had given birth AND on the abandoned child. (It truly was a 1950s throwback to the era when young women were forced to endure the health risks of unwanted pregnancies and a generation of adoptees were told they needed to "get over" the pain of abandonment and just feel "lucky".) And while there will likely be no appreciable increase in the number of healthy children available for adoption, there WILL be a large number of special needs kids relinquished to the state, as many women will not be able to provide for those children. And while there is no shortage of judgmental evangelicals waxing eloquent about the glories of adoption, there are far fewer willing to put their own finances and family structures on the line in order to take care of children with tremendous and life long physical and/or mental challenges.
Anonymous
I think all the pro lifers should have to give 20% of their income every year to help women forced to carry unwanted pregnancies to term. If this were the case overnight they would become pro choice!
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I know that there is this fantasy about blond, blue eyed girls with great SATs getting pregnant in college by a blond, blue eyed athlete, top scholar supply perfect babies for a bunch of Conservative hags to adopt but that isn’t happening. Sorry Amy.


+1

Interestingly, that happened for one woman (twice!). They did not abortion or pursue adoption: https://www.espn.com/espnw/sports/story/_/id/25186338/princeton-tigers-field-hockey-player-mother-two-annabeth-donovan-hopes-finish-career-national-title?platform=amp


This scenario is SO rare that it ended up in ESPN.
Anonymous
Stop with the anti-adoption crap.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I think the result will be a lot more children be raised by clueless parents in sketchy circumstances.

That is the story of adopted children, and children raised by unmarried teenagers
By the way, I have made sure that my kids know everything possible about contraception
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think the result will be a lot more children be raised by clueless parents in sketchy circumstances.

That is the story of adopted children, and children raised by unmarried teenagers
By the way, I have made sure that my kids know everything possible about contraception


Just because they know doesn't mean they will use it!
Anonymous
This is such a dystopian question.
Anonymous
What a messed-up way to think about it.

My guess is no. Currently, most women who have abortions are already mothers. They are unlikely to give up their additional baby for adoption, even if keeping the baby results in serious financial or other hardship for their family. The result will be a lot of unnecessary suffering, but not many babies up for adoption.

Another category of people who abort is people whose fetuses have abnormalities or conditions that mean they are either unlikely to make it to birth or are unlikely to survive long after birth or who are likely to have severe birth defects or disabilities. Again, a lot of unnecessary suffering and unlikely to result in adoptable babies.

A third (perhaps overlapping) category of abortions is people for whom carrying to term is very risky. These people, assuming they don't die during pregnancy or childbirth, and assuming it's not a stillbirth, are not likely to put their baby up for adoption.

I suppose the dream is that a lot of (white) teens and young adults will get pregnant and put their babies up for adoption? Some might, I suppose, but given that there is less of a stigma against unwed mothers, it seems unlikely that you'll see a huge increase. It's as or more likely that they'll keep the baby (perhaps having to drop out of school or having their educations curtailed), and that they or their families will raise it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Stop with the anti-adoption crap.


No one is opposed to adoption.

We're opposed to forcing women to carry through unwanted pregnancies in order make "more infants available."

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