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Or, maybe your kid didn't put in the effort when they got to college. Or, maybe they were taking too hard of a class, especially if they are taking Calculus Senior year when many take calculus Sophomore or Junior year. |
Why didn't you help out and support your kids? MCPS offered/offers free tutoring for any child who needs it, not just those struggling so it seems to me like you are making excuses. Many of these kids struggled before covid its easier to blame covid vs. what is really going on. |
This was true here. You make a very good point. Many were not rushing back when we had the option and some of us are still virtual. We cannot trust other parents to keep their sick kids home (nor teachers) and cannot risk constant illness. Kids don't learn in person when they are sick. |
What have you actually done? I seriously doubt you have done more than I have. If you did, you'd know about all the issues that were happening prior to covid and still happening and Virtual is just a very small part of it. You clearly ignored all the kids struggling before covid, the poor curriculum, the lack of reading specialists, SLPs, OTs, and others who should be there to help and aren't. These studies aren't accurate as they need to look at a comparison group and the true comparison is with kids who are learning virtually. Except for the very young ones, the current kids in middle and high school failed in elementary school before covid. And, as parents, some choose to ignore the situation and some of us choose to do something about it. Clearly you choose to complain, while others of us got our kids the help they needed and worked with our kids at home so they could be successful later on. |
This question is whether it is possible for kids to learn as much virtually. It is whether kids *did* learn as much virtually. The evidence shows they didn’t. You're trying to answer a different question, presumably because you're trying to convince yourself that you're not continuing to do your children harm by keeping them at home. |
There’s no evidence that keeping kids at home did significantly reduce deaths. You act as if you think schools are the only infection source, and that kids will necessarily stay home if they’re not able to go to school. There is evidence that keeping schools closed led to educational harms, though. |
I meant to say the question **isn’t** whether it is possible for kids to learn as much virtually— it’s whether they did. |
1. You seem to think that no one is using tutoring and other supports. 2. Some of you are really invested in shifting blame. These kids were struggling before covid? No. I’m going to go with the teachers I’m talking to who see a real difference in the students rather than an anonymous poster casting about looking to avoid the obvious. |
So invested in shifting blame and avoiding the most obvious answer. Wow. |
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Exactly. It is remarkable to me how delusional the pro-virtual posters remain. It was clear by fall 2020 that virtual was a disastrous mistake that would severely harm the most vulnerable students. And sure enough, that’s what the data now shows. But that was evident in fall 2020. Furthermore, there is no evidence whatsoever that closing the schools saved lives; in fact there are some theories that the closures disproportionately caused spread to the elderly caregivers at home. In school kids would have worn masks. Honestly at this point, any time I hear a parent talking about how their kid “thrived” in virtual, in my head I translate it to “I am terrible at assessing actual academic development and I don’t know my kid very well.” The amount of data about how absolutely terrible virtual was for learning is simply too overwhelming. |
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Remote learning was eye-opening for me. I watched the remote learning lessons with my ES and MS kids to have an idea about the quality of teaching. And then I crafted lessons and supplementary material for them. Don't get me wrong, I do believe the socialization at school is extremely important, and many subjects were taught with great competency. Still, I saw the pandemic lockdown as a unique opportunity to hunker down and concentrate on making sure that my kids were accelerated and enriched in the ways that they needed. I am seeing the results now in-person school. The leg-up that they got in individual attention during the remote schooling by my involvement is paying rich dividends now.
Yes, it helped that I am educated enough to handle ES and MS curriculum, it helped that I was working from home too, it helped that I was not doing elder care, it helped that I did not have other priorities in life. I am sure someone will chime in about my privilege. But a lot of people who are a lot more privileged than me decided not to be involved in their children schooling. That is the reality. I can understand LMC kids falling behind. I cannot understand MC and above kids from functional families falling behind. I am 100% behind the school closing. |
Then, virtual was not the issue. Maybe as a parent you take responsibility. I am not doing harm and if you think I am, what are you willing to do to make it safe for my kids to return? If parents and staff will not stay home sick, it’s a problem. |
Actually there is evidence. You just refuse to acknowledge it. It reduced numbers getting Covid and deaths. |
Lots of school systems are offering lots of options for tutoring but most don’t take advantage of it. We always supplemented before Covid. The curriculum is weak at best. |